Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

[Robert28]

Here’s one more. This is the girl that wanted me to go on a cruise that I made a thread about. Thank God caronavirus saved me from making that mistake. Why I let this girl get in my head like she did and made all the stupid mistakes I did I’ll never know. I have learned from it though and know I’ll become a better version of me instead of wallowing in pity feeling sorry for myself over it.

 

[GeeMale]

For the guy, he might nail the "fatter" version of the same girl, but not trying to hang on to her for a girlfriend if he's more attracted to more of a tight body...

The common example I give here to make it simple, is male strippers are a certain body size because it's where they get their attention at. Sized and built somewhere between a larger NFL point guard and a NFL d back. A atheletic look with abs and cuts. Makes them hot without opening your mouth.

Lol NFL point guard isn't that NBA? So what you're telling me is that women want me around so long as they don't have better options and they want attention. Got it.

 

[GeeMale]

Here’s one more. This is the girl that wanted me to go on a cruise that I made a thread about. Thank God caronavirus saved me from making that mistake. Why I let this girl get in my head like she did and made all the stupid mistakes I did I’ll never know. I have learned from it though and know I’ll become a better version of me instead of wallowing in pity feeling sorry for myself over it.

Lol interesting she reminds me of an Asian chick I asked out at academy the day the gyms closed except she had tatts was slimmer(not necessarily slim), older than me too but like 35.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol NFL point guard isn't that NBA? So what you're telling me is that women want me around so long as they don't have better options and they want attention. Got it.

NBA pt guard. Sorry. I meant a more muscled one 6-6-4 195-220.. Abs can move. The NFL dbacks a little bigger.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol NFL point guard isn't that NBA? So what you're telling me is that women want me around so long as they don't have better options and they want attention. Got it.

Some babes will want a man and will want to keep you. Might as well have the body "top of the game".

 

[Robert28]

Lol interesting she reminds me of an Asian chick I asked out at academy the day the gyms closed except she had tatts was slimmer(not necessarily slim), older than me too but like 35.

This girl is 34 and has 7 or 8 tats, can’t remember exactly. I made SO many stupid mistakes with her it wasn’t funny. I guess I thought I could get away with it since she wasn’t as attractive as other women I’d dated and then the power imbalance in the whole relationship was so off kilter. Just a bad experience all around but it was my doing.

 

[Medina]

This girl is 34 and has 7 or 8 tats, can’t remember exactly. I made SO many stupid mistakes with her it wasn’t funny. I guess I thought I could get away with it since she wasn’t as attractive as other women I’d dated and then the power imbalance in the whole relationship was so off kilter. Just a bad experience all around but it was my doing.

That's interesting

So you think you gave her the power? And even though she wasn't attractive it still ruined it?

 

[GeeMale]

Some babes will want a man and will want to keep you. Might as well have the body "top of the game".

So how much should I lose at the very least?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So how much should I lose at the very least? View attachment 4099

Whats your height weight there?

 

[Robert28]

That's interesting

So you think you gave her the power? And even though she wasn't attractive it still ruined it?

Looking back I think where I went wrong is at the time I met her, I wasn’t dating anyone else. I’d just gone on a couple of dates a month or two before that went absolutely nowhere. When we met we instantly hit it off, I got comfortable too fast and mistakes started being made fast. It was like the perfect storm. Had I met her at a different point in my life I think things would have been much different and roles would have been reversed.
She wasn’t the type of girl you’d turn your head at, but I think she grew on me. I mean she never treated me like she was “dating down” because I’m honestly average but I’ve dated MUCH better looking women and held my power just fine with them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Looking back I think where I went wrong is at the time I met her, I wasn’t dating anyone else. I’d just gone on a couple of dates a month or two before that went absolutely nowhere. When we met we instantly hit it off, I got comfortable too fast and mistakes started being made fast. It was like the perfect storm. Had I met her at a different point in my life I think things would have been much different and roles would have been reversed.
She wasn’t the type of girl you’d turn your head at, but I think she grew on me. I mean she never treated me like she was “dating down” because I’m honestly average but I’ve dated MUCH better looking women and held my power just fine with them.

You hold your "power" well or it gets amplified if the woman you are "dating" has a high amount of interest and desire for you. If she's "into" you it adds to you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

View attachment 4089
Yeah I like how I look in the 1st photo. These are both same event but camera angle somehow made me look a lot slimmer.2nd is I guess real time. I was 30+lbs less than (I gained muscle and fat since than). This was 2 years ago. The point is I think the 1st pic is ideally what I'd want to look like
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Weight in the 2nd photo is 30lbs more? I can see in the midsection, face not as sharp and a bit more "depressed" looking. That first weight has you bright and energized ( prolly close to your "fighting weight" ).

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So how much should I lose at the very least? View attachment 4099

Get back to the leanness in the 1st pic. It looks like you added some muscle and need to strip some fat. I don't know your weight here, vs 1st 2nd and 3rd pics. But you need to lean to a size where your face is like the 1st pic. A lot of women will like your type dude.

25-35 lbs of fat. It'll take 4-5 months on a reduced carb diet while doing cardio and keeping your weights workout. Goal is to get facial leanness to first pic and keep the added muscle. I can tell your heavy by the fat around your knee and calves and in the mid section.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You hold your "power" well or it gets amplified if the woman you are "dating" has a high amount of interest and desire for you. If she's "into" you it adds to you.

So the biggest mistake us idiots make is trying to "chase" a female, or trying to "prove our worth", or trying to get an uninsterested babe interested.

 

[Robert28]

You hold your "power" well or it gets amplified if the woman you are "dating" has a high amount of interest and desire for you. If she's "into" you it adds to you.

She was a master at manipulation and tripping you up. I didn’t have any experience with a girl like that, even at my age. I made mistakes but she also capitalized on them and helped me make even more mistakes. Like I said, this is a lesson to all men that it doesn’t have to be a HB8-10 to make you do foolish things and throw you way off your game. This girl is maybe a 5 or 6 but oneitis comes fast when you’re in a slow streak and self confidence begins to wain. It was a valuable lesson I learned, maybe that was good that I met her and went through it. Her looks are fading fast though, I’ve seen pics of her when she was just a few years younger and she looked much better.

 

[Robert28]

So the biggest mistake us idiots make is trying to "chase" a female, or trying to "prove our worth", or trying to get an uninsterested babe interested.

Yes! It’s like a drug, you know it’s bad but you just want one more hit. I’m glad I’m not like that with every girl but certain women can bring it out on you and make you look silly.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She was a master at manipulation and tripping you up. I didn’t have any experience with a girl like that, even at my age. I made mistakes but she also capitalized on them and helped me make even more mistakes. Like I said, this is a lesson to all men that it doesn’t have to be a HB8-10 to make you do foolish things and throw you way off your game. This girl is maybe a 5 or 6 but oneitis comes fast when you’re in a slow streak and self confidence begins to wain. It was a valuable lesson I learned, maybe that was good that I met her and went through it. Her looks are fading fast though, I’ve seen pics of her when she was just a few years younger and she looked much better.

People that "act ugly and play dirty" end up looking "ugly" in the face.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes! It’s like a drug, you know it’s bad but you just want one more hit. I’m glad I’m not like that with every girl but certain women can bring it out on you and make you look silly.

What do you think it is about those "girls" who "bring it out in you"? Do you think they are master c0ck tease/carrot danglers? Is it the way they position themselves, that pushes buttons on you? What is it?

 

[Robert28]

What do you think it is about those "girls" who "bring it out in you"? Do you think they are master c0ck tease/carrot danglers? Is it the way they position themselves, that pushes buttons on you? What is it?

I really wish I could pinpoint it. I say that because I don’t get oneitis very often. See the blonde haired girl in the pic? I broke up with her because I was tired of her **** after a year and a half. We got back together off and on for short spurts but now we are cool with each other. I won’t call her my friend but she and I share a Netflix account and text at least once a week. With the girl that hemmed me up so bad, I think it was the perfect storm like I said. When I met her I’d just been in a slump, coming off some bad dates, I didn’t reek of desperation but maybe she did sense that. We got along very well in the beginning, it was almost too good. I didn’t ever set any boundaries (or if I tried she’d just walk right through them) and the rest is history. She was the type to text everyday all day, I knew better but I couldn’t stop myself. If I did she’d throw a fit, I was afraid of losing her and before you know it she was so high up on a pedestal that you’d need a ladder to get to her. She will never find a guy that kissed her ass like I did and I suspect she will be back to get some more of that oneday when she realizes her looks are fading rapidly and she needs an ego bump.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I really wish I could pinpoint it. I say that because I don’t get oneitis very often. See the blonde haired girl in the pic? I broke up with her because I was tired of her **** after a year and a half. We got back together off and on for short spurts but now we are cool with each other. I won’t call her my friend but she and I share a Netflix account and text at least once a week. With the girl that hemmed me up so bad, I think it was the perfect storm like I said. When I met her I’d just been in a slump, coming off some bad dates, I didn’t reek of desperation but maybe she did sense that. We got along very well in the beginning, it was almost too good. I didn’t ever set any boundaries (or if I tried she’d just walk right through them) and the rest is history. She was the type to text everyday all day, I knew better but I couldn’t stop myself. If I did she’d throw a fit, I was afraid of losing her and before you know it she was so high up on a pedestal that you’d need a ladder to get to her. She will never find a guy that kissed her ass like I did and I suspect she will be back to get some more of that oneday when she realizes her looks are fading rapidly and she needs an ego bump.

So afraid of losing her coupled with allowing to walk thru boundaries fvcked you in the azz like a pig on a stick?