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SmoothTalker

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Then you haven't looked into it too much, but whatever, it's your choice.

Lol and in case everyone is wondering, no I'm not that interested in the matter, I just did some research a while ago because I was considering it for myself, but decided against it for a lot of reasons.
 

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Just wrote a really long post and then lost it so I'll summarize.

Basically the complications aren't that minor or unlikely to happen. Sure you're not likely to lose your **** or die, but things like skin bridges, narrow urethra, bleeding, infection, tight scar, etc are quite common. Healing sounds pretty bad too, imagine popping a boner with stitches.

Not to mention you're losing sensitivity, and some research suggests increased likelihood of ED and decreased female pleasure (something American girls would realize if they could get over their closed mindedness).

I figured there's a reason why the VAST majority of men in the world, including in very developed 'civilized' countries in Europe are uncut, that there's a reason why we are born uncut, and a reason why NO medical association in the world recommends routine circumcision.

It was introduced for stupid reasons (to prevent masturbation), and now continues for stupid reasons, tradition and the need to justify what we have been doing. If you are cut and decide uncut is better your kid, doesn't that suggest there's something wrong with your ****? So of course you get your kid cut too, since it was so 'great' for you. You come up with dumb arguments like women prefer cut which is why dildos are. No, it's just kind of hard to make a dildo with moving parts... not to mention I look cut when hard even though I'm not.

Finally, I don't buy the argument that its a useless vestigial organ. They said that about the appendix and tonsils too, only to find out now both are related to immune function.

The bottom line is, the only country that prefers cut for non-religious reasons is the US and to a lesser extent Canada, and they do so for untrue reasons - they think it's unclean only because they don't know how to clean it, and they prefer the look only because that's all they've been looking at for generations.
 

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Brett, pain when YOU touch it, is normal. I can't touch myself very hard, and when I do clean my package (my mom taught me when i was like 6 or 7) I try to not touch the head of the penis. HOWEVER, during sexual activity with a GIRL, its different, its not gonna hurt when she touches you. It might be a little awkward at first if its your first time but a girl's touch isn't painful, as long as she doesn't accidentally scratch or you poke real hard anywhere.

Now, if you really can't pull your skin back at all, start trying little by little in those lonely nights, skin is very flexible and will stretch over time. If a month or so goes by and you HAVE been with a girl and are still having the problem where you cant pull the skin back without pain, it's time for a doctor visit. I say HAVE because when you're actually around a girl, its much different from p0rn.
 

AlexTheGreat

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I had the same problem when I was 12 -- I couldn't pull my skin back. I went to a doctor in Canada, and he suggested operation to solve it, but my parents preferred another option. We later went to a trip to Eastern Europe to visit some family, and I went to see another doctor there. No appointment, no nothing. The doc looks at my dongle, sees the problem, tells me to lie down, and literally RIPS it down. Simply by pulling fast, he managed to pull the skin all the way down, WITHOUT operation. All in a 5 minute job.

Don't worry about the pain. When my doctor did this, it hurt really bad for a good ..... 30 seconds. Then it went away, and I never felt better.

The pain is similar to if you were putting masking tape on your arm and then ripped it off. Same feeling. It doesn't hurt for long does it?

Also, don't worry about breaking your penis. It's been dangling outside your body for a good many generations and no-one I've heard of has "lost" theirs due to pulling too hard. I think there's no risk, stop seeking operation and bear some pain for a minute.
 

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I'm uncut and i honestly dont see a reason to be circumcised, unless its a last resort for a medical condition. Everyone i've been with never had a problem it.

Most people in the states are ignorant and think that its unclean...maybe if you live in a trailer with no running water and cant take a shower once a day.Thats a matter of personal hygiene more than anything else.

Another argument is how it looks...NEWSFLASH!!! the foreskin retracts when youre hard,and then it looks exactly the same as a snipped penis.

Sure the chance to get an infection is a bit higher for uncut males, its something like 6% vs 3%...not enough improvement for me to even consider getting circumcised.
 

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