Here is a simple tip. When you are out and about, scout out cute girls that look like they have about 7 to 12lbs of excess weight on them. Here's why. First of all, they probably don't get hit on as much as the 8 to 10s but they can be just as cute in their own way. So you stand out. Second, they probably are a little self concious about their weight. Some low self esteem. This is where you come in. Go in and pretend like she is the most beautiful creature on earth. She will feel you man! As you get more involved you can suggest to her that it will be more healthy to lose some weight and you can offer support. You may have a fine babe on your hands. People are always morphing so get in before the changes happen! Or you can move on, but not after you have fawked a pretty nice looking babe!!
Mike
Mike