chubby is as chubby does

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Here is a simple tip. When you are out and about, scout out cute girls that look like they have about 7 to 12lbs of excess weight on them. Here's why. First of all, they probably don't get hit on as much as the 8 to 10s but they can be just as cute in their own way. So you stand out. Second, they probably are a little self concious about their weight. Some low self esteem. This is where you come in. Go in and pretend like she is the most beautiful creature on earth. She will feel you man! As you get more involved you can suggest to her that it will be more healthy to lose some weight and you can offer support. You may have a fine babe on your hands. People are always morphing so get in before the changes happen! Or you can move on, but not after you have fawked a pretty nice looking babe!!

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Personally, I love hitting on women who are "average" or have some physical "flaws". Many are more eager to please, and play less games.


Originally posted by persistent exaction
Go in and pretend like she is the most beautiful creature on earth. She will feel you man!
I dissagree with you here. If anything, you need to keep her guessing. If she BELIEVES that she is average and you TREAT her like she is above average, then you lose leverage.

Originally posted by persistent exaction
As you get more involved you can suggest to her that it will be more healthy to lose some weight and you can offer support. You may have a fine babe on your hands.
You can't change a person. If an individual can't convice themselves to lose weight, then another person is not going to either.
 

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Good call, skinny chicks are an issue all their own anyway - If a woman aint got a few grams of puppyfat to moan about she'l find something more extream to whine on about.
 

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Once people are in LTR's they tend to gain weight... more for each year they are in the LTR

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this is the wrong attitude.

first, you are compromising yourself and your standards. personally, i prefer chicks that have about 10 extra pounds. if you don't, then why lower your standards.

second, you are attempting to cash in on low self esteem chicks by "pretending she is the most beautiful creature on earth". she's not, and you both know it. you're not going to be able to pull this off because this particular chick has guys doing this to her all the time, most likely, solely to get into her panties.

third, if you are successful, and get "in", and THEN suggest that she lose some weight, under the guise of being "healthier", bells and whisles abound. this is the cheesy way that guys tell their fat chicks that they would be more attracted to them if they dropped the fat. "well, gee, he said i'm the most beautiful creature on earth. hmmmm...now he wants me to lose weight?...but we've been fukking for two months...he just wants my pvssy..."

NEVER EVER EVER tell a chick she needs to lose weight! just put her on a diet of some good kibble, and never say a word about it. or, start doing more athletic things with her. when she does get in shape, she will love you for it--you've led her down the right path. (then she'll dump your azz because now she's an HB8, haha).

basically, in doing your strategy, you're trying to trick her, aren't you? aren't you tricking yourself?

i think you are externalizing your own self esteem issues, are you not?
 

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Hey, I did a post on this a while back. I think that if you see the cuteness in a girl with the weight, it will eventually be something that will be overlooked after you know her better, especially if she's an awesome girl.

I think that in general, the less game playing will definitely be a plus, because that crap gets tiring as hell after a while.

I am talking to a girl now who seems to be one of these. Probably can lose 10-15 lbs, but is definitely not overweight or anything. If she lost that weight, she'd probably be scorching hot. With it, she probably will not draw that many men unless they get to know her better. I like these kinds of girls not because I'm lowering my standards, but rather that I'm just more into real people who aren't full of themselves.
 

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Depends on how much you want to deal with the mind games. If you like that stuff, then by all means, but I think that this is probably a testament to the fact that some super hot gals are not worth it once you learn that they have a total attitude problem. I'd rather be with a nice gal who is down to earth and without the stuck up baggage.
 

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I have to disagree as well. 7 to 12 pounds is nothing, it's not like these are fat hogs here. They get hit on plenty. Putting them on a pedestal by telling them how beautiful they are all the time will backfire just as spectacularly as with a woman with the whopping 7 less pounds on her.
 

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I wouldn't suggest putting anyone on a pedestal. I'm just saying that it is sometimes just a better experience going after gals who are not too full of themselves.
 

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i agree with TooColdUlrick

" you are compromising yourself and your standards "

if you go to the shop and you crave a strawberry icecream

why buy a fu**ing chocolate one ??


all women are self concious about their weight

to get a women with low self esteem about her excess weight you had better be looking for a chick with alot more than 7 - 12 lbs

we live in a fast food society alittle extra weight is the norm

because of the technology we now all use exercise is something we must seek out instead of being part of our lives naturally

to me i would think the only ones with low self esteems would be FAT chicks

i saw a sticker on the back on HB9's car the other day that read

SAVE A WHALE

HARPOON A FAT CHICK

i almost pissed myself laughing, we have alot of stickers like this on cars in Australia FAT CHICKS , SHOOT EM DON'T ROOT EM but i thought it was priceless because for once it was on a girls car ( HB9 )

where i come from the fat chicks are real b*tches with the biggest attitudes you could imagine, they are ****blocking monsters with no shame

but you guys are talking about 7 - 12 lbs and thats not a fat chick with low self esteem

7 - 12 lbs = healthy girl who is on not on the mad drugs




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Lost In Translation

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Girls with a little chub on them get hit on ALL THE TIME....by guys just like you (original poster). The guys who look for "the wounded animal in the herd" cause it's "easy" pickins. Don't fool yourself. These girls get gamed on CONSTANTLY and have massive experience.

As for me, personally, I LOVE those chubby chicks. Fvck, how I love them. There are so soft to the touch...so warm in bed...and in my experience they are, overall, better lovers. These girls usually have ample cleavage and fat asses..with a little chubbiness in the tummy...cute pinchable cheeks. If they've got style and know how to wear their clothes...damn, that shiet drives me wild.

Say yes to the chubbies!

Oh, and occasionally, indulge in the cute fatties. You know the ones. Pretty in the face but fat in the tummy. It's fun! haha Seriously!
 

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hahaha yeh the fat chicks in AUS are real b$tches and c$ckblockers sometimes, seems like their just pissed off at the world because their too weak to eat right.

By all means go for them if you can't pickup the HB9-10s

But I cant bring myself to ****ing fat chick unless im of equal weight, probably if im on my bulk i would haha.

I take good care of myself so i should expect the same or give her chance to see if she will have guts to lose it from seeing my eating habits etc.

She will get msg that my man makes effort to stay in shape so why shouldn't I.
 

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some good constructive feedback here. I now agree you shouldn't make her feel special by lieing to her. But she may feel special anyway just from you showing some attention to her. This is a strategy for new DJs, like me, to gain some confidence. Or it is a strategy that may help you get laid more often then you currently are. Don't tell her you think she needs to lose weight. Observe her to see if her mindset is one of resignation or CAN DO!
Happy hunting my Friends.

Mike

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