Chubby chicks can still pull in guys with a washboard

[ThisNThat]

Something I've noticed. I've seen women who have no athletic bodies whatsover and got some serious chunk on them, but can pull in men with washboard abs.

Usually a woman with a pretty face, but overweight...so it's a best 1 out of 2 that probably gets these men coming to them.

Reason I brought this up is because I was at this party that the host was putting on. He was in good shape, had a lot of bulk on him musclewise but had a long time obese girlfriend. Some woman, thinner obviously, was booty dancin' in front of him...and the overweight g/f laid into her with, 'This is NOT that kind of party!!"

The thin, more attractive woman got all huffy with her obviously and went back to her friends and couldn't figure out why he's with that fat girl. I guess she could figure she could pull him away from her easily considering it would be an easy feat to a hot chick that could pull an athletic man away from his currently overweight g/f yes?

 

[Infern0]

Probably.

But some dudes just like girls with chub. They like seeing all that jiggle when they smash, its like a fetish.

Not ny cup of tea, but to each his own

 

[Wilko]

It's always possible she started off thin.

But looking back, I've nearly always been surprised just how unattractive the partners of my buff friends and co-workers have been (some notable exceptions in there too) No coincidence that the buff dudes who settled for less didn't have a lot else going on. We're not talking about charming, engaging guys who also happen to lift. These were guys who focused on lifting to the exclusion of all other self-development.

I think when AFCs lift enough to get by on their looks, their social mastery tends to atrophy quite badly.

Also, buff dudes are a dime a dozen in 2017. I know it's not very RP, but if we're talking aesthetics, I think a well calibrated sense of style and a decent face will do more for you than bulging pecs and a six pack these days - the times they are a changin'!

 

[AlphaNate]

Ha, this is my buddy from a few years ago to a tee. He married some fat, controlling *****.

I can only assume these people have extreme self-esteem issues, regardless of physical appearance.

 

[Infern0]

It's always possible she started off thin.

But looking back, I've nearly always been surprised just how unattractive the partners of my buff friends and co-workers have been (some notable exceptions in there too) No coincidence that the buff dudes who settled for less didn't have a lot else going on. We're not talking about charming, engaging guys who also happen to lift. These were guys who focused on lifting to the exclusion of all other self-development.

I think when AFCs lift enough to get by on their looks, their social mastery tends to atrophy quite badly.

Also, buff dudes are a dime a dozen in 2017. I know it's not very RP, but if we're talking aesthetics, I think a well calibrated sense of style and a decent face will do more for you than bulging pecs and a six pack these days - the times they are a changin'!

I dont know where you live but thats absolutely not true round here. 99/100 guys here are slobs

 

[Dingo]

Give me a girl with a good heart and a few extra pounds over a bytch with a heart of stone and hard body any day.

 

[Bayne05]

Some guys just like chubby girls, its more common than you think. It has nothing to do with self-esteem, it's just preference. Most guys I know that fvck chubbys tell me they are more fun to fvck, jiggly body with fat pvssy and all. I tried it before, not my cup of tea.

I have a friend I usually hang with. He has a muscular build, has high social value and has hot chicks hitting on him all the time. But his girlfriend is fat, when we walking on the street he approaches fat chicks ONLY. I always look at him like WTF, and he tells me he likes his women large.

Not every guy wants a girl with a perfect body, that's why you see less women in the gym than men. They know even if they're fat or ugly, there's guys who want them.

 

[ThisNThat]

Some guys just like chubby girls, its more common than you think. It has nothing to do with self-esteem, it's just preference. Most guys I know that fvck chubbys tell me they are more fun to fvck, jiggly body with fat pvssy and all. I tried it before, not my cup of tea.

I have a friend I usually hang with. He has a muscular build, has high social value and has hot chicks hitting on him all the time. But his girlfriend is fat, when we walking on the street he approaches fat chicks ONLY. I always look at him like WTF, and he tells me he likes his women large.

Not every guy wants a girl with a perfect body, that's why you see less women in the gym than men. They know even if they're fat or ugly, there's guys who want them.

Yeah, and if you do see women at the gym, they only go to the stair masters or treadmills and go home.

fat chicks ONLY. I always look at him like WTF, and he tells me he likes his women large.

Now when you say "FAT", to you mean, just a little think n curvy...or "orb" shaped...I mean, obese? Built like a 4 x 4, wide as she is tall? lol

 

[ThisNThat]

I dont know where you live but thats absolutely not true round here. 99/100 guys here are slobs

Yeah, it's kind of weird. I live in a majorily red neck community. At first glace when you see a "couple" together, they look like brother and sister. The woman is dressed to the nines, little black dress, while the boyfriend just looks like grabbed a pair of jeans and t-shirt and of course, a camo hat.

The dude doesn't even know how to dress to the caliber of his own woman. I would imagine he embarrasses her every Saturday night with how much of a slob he looks.

I sometimes think, 'Is that her 'slow' brother/cousin?"

 

[ThisNThat]

I've dated women that were slim, but "waif"...meaning, thin...but never works out. Dated one that kind of looked like Olive Oil, but wasn't as bony as I had expected in a bikini. She was 5'4" 120, and I guessed her to be no more than 105/110. I think she had a long torso that gave her an illusion of looking skinny.

Funny, women don't even have to stay in shape to attract men. It's not even necessary. Perhaps sex is all that matters and the appearance is secondary.

 

[Billtx49]

I personally prefer slightly more azz on my girls for bedtime fun…
She doesn't need to be boney, I take care of that .…

 

[ThisNThat]

Even more ironic. Fat chicks will sometime reject men that weigh less than they do, for the same reason they reject short guys. There's just something about them not wanting to appear BIGGER than their mates...yes, this even does include the horizontal AND the vertical (both directions)

So thanks to all that Micky D's, Burger King, and overeating, we have women rejecting the very men that SHOULD be rejecting THEM (them = the fat women)

 

[El Payaso]

Some men actually like women that have meat on their bones.

 

[OJN_98]

It's always possible she started off thin.

But looking back, I've nearly always been surprised just how unattractive the partners of my buff friends and co-workers have been (some notable exceptions in there too) No coincidence that the buff dudes who settled for less didn't have a lot else going on. We're not talking about charming, engaging guys who also happen to lift. These were guys who focused on lifting to the exclusion of all other self-development.

I think when AFCs lift enough to get by on their looks, their social mastery tends to atrophy quite badly.

Also, buff dudes are a dime a dozen in 2017. I know it's not very RP, but if we're talking aesthetics, I think a well calibrated sense of style and a decent face will do more for you than bulging pecs and a six pack these days - the times they are a changin'!

I agree with this, I'm slowly transitioning into a DJ but still do AFC **** here and there. While being an AFC I found that being in good shape got me looks from the ladies..but knowing how to dress, being outgoing, and being well spoken helps too.

Also, I think that being lean is better than being buff as ****. You can still be just as strong as the buff guy.

 

[ThisNThat]

Some men actually like women that have meat on their bones.

Fat or meat?

 

[lizardking82]

We are in no control whatsoever of what kind of woman we like. It is all connected to your mother. I cannot go for any chick that's not lean/thin and that's not feminine. To me, femininity and chubbiness/fatness have got nothing to do together. And yet again, if we ask most guys here that like chubby girls, we would probably find out that their mothers are/have been a bit chubby, too.

 

[Billtx49]

We are in no control whatsoever of what kind of woman we like. It is all connected to your mother.

Don't suggest that we have a motherfvcker/Oedipus complex. It's not DJ at all…
Our liking and bonding with a woman as compared to our mother has nothing to do with similar body styles. It has everything to do with emotional temperament, empathy, and all the other good personality traits our mothers had.

 

[lizardking82]

Don't suggest that we have a motherfvcker/Oedipus complex. It's not DJ at all…

DJ or not DJ, that theory is one I see everyone I know (including myself) subconsciously apply. And I have seen people go against that, for example, I have seen guys who have a chubby mom that is also a bit of talkative lady and all that, I have seen these guys go for calm and quiet women. It doesn't work. Like, you want what attracts you and this is what defines what attracts you along with your own personal perversions/thoughts created during bringing up.

 

[Billtx49]

DJ or not DJ, that theory is one I see everyone I know (including myself) subconsciously apply. And I have seen people go against that, for example, I have seen guys who have a chubby mom that is also a bit of talkative lady and all that, I have seen these guys go for calm and quiet women. It doesn't work. Like, you want what attracts you and this is what defines what attracts you along with your own personal perversions/thoughts created during bringing up.

Those men go with the comfort option of what is familiar to them then.
They're not exactly test pilots are they?

 

[lizardking82]

Those men go with the comfort option of what is familiar to them then.

I don't think that's the point. We all have something that is familiar. For example, I would never again **** chubby chicks or girls who talk a lot and try to dominate social situations. It is just not my type. It turns me off. I cannot try to be turned on by these women just in the name of diversity LOL it doesn't make me wanna **** them. Beyond what's familiar to me, a quiet, "shy", dirty look girl will make me and keep me hard all day even talking about sports and the weather!

Not surprisingly, this is exactly how my mother is: calm, quiet, lean body throughout her whole youth.