Chronically Late Chick

[HedoRick]

We've had plenty of makeout sessions. She's a goody two shoes church chick. She says that she doesn't French kiss until later "in the relationship". I French kiss her anyway, but still it goes no further... I have to admit most of my experience is with club rats, sorority girls, and pof/okcupid trash. I've pushed to go further but she just isn't letting it happen. It's weird as hell though, she always talks about the "future" and "us" but plays these kinds of games.

These "quality" chicks will make your balls blue for certain. Hard to put up with it when there are so many DTF chicks out there. I've never been in a situation where there are so many mixed signals. Normally i'd cut my losses and move on. In this case, it's just not that easy. Trying to find a decent American chick is like trying to find a needle in a haystack it seems... I'll go back to spinning plates and chill the **** out.

 

[Ufcrocks1969]

I will not even a chick if she's constantly late. I don't care if she's late in all expect of her life. It is a lack of respect. A woman wouldn't put up with that crap why should you?

 

[buzzin_frog]

It's amazing how some of these guys will put up with anything a chick does....just because she might happen to be hot. ...so what if she is?....do you just let her do anything she wants? when guys start acting like this....they will run into problems later!!

If this chick is always late....that shows she is irresponsible....you should avoid irresponsible women altogether!!

When you start making compromises or allowing her to get away with things....she will continue to get away with more...give her an inch.....she will take a mile!!.

After all she is hot right? You don't want to upset her do you? C'mon guys....get with it!! Don't ever be afraid to set boundaries or to have a strong frame with women....when you fail to do that.....you will get burned later on!!

There is no reason why she can't get her butt in gear to be on time and ready to go......chicks who really want to do something will be there on time because they are excited to be there!!

If she is late to Church..........she will miss the service

If she is late to work.............she will get fired eventually

If she is late to your function......you will miss out

You shouldn't have to go through any trouble by setting times early for her, because she will just show up late anyway.

Your time should be valuable.....you shouldn't have to wait on a chick because she can't get her act together.

I would just tell her to make sure she ready at the time you have your date.....Don't make any compromises for her...if she can't get there on time....then you shouldn't have the date.....there is no reason why she can't be ready to have a date with you on time....there are plenty of other chicks who can get there on time.

Being late all the time is being irresponsible......you can't rely on irresponsible people......there is no need to put up with someone who can't get their act together

you will soon get tired of this if you continue to put up with it.

I've read your other posts too....this chick is really not that into you dude....you are wasting your time!!

 

[HedoRick]

Already back to spinning a couple of plates. I've had to kick my own azz and remind myself that I shouldn't put up with it, despite her good qualities.

She can't show up for anything else in her life on time either. It's just the way she is, but your right, i'd be a fool expecting for her to change. Sometimes it's just best to step back and reframe the whole thing. Kind of a reality check. I was infatuated because she seemed a little nicer than the usual chicks I've been dating. However, this issue is not a small one and I should have not dismissed it the way I have. Mistakes are made, live and learn, move on and spin more plates. Tons of other options in my area luckily.