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Stanley

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Not much info to go off of.

She's a complete stranger and online it is hard to interpret nuance. She may have been interested or was just being cordial. If she was genuinely interested she would've sat with you (had you lead) or crossed paths again when you both began to depart. In other words she would have made it easy for you to re-engage with her. For all you know she was disappointed you didn't chat her up again... or inversely she was relieved you left her alone. Regardless, you shouldn't care too much

My advice? Next time just send it dude. Just ask for her number or whatever else. Might as well shoot your shot and get rejected with no regrets, or maybe it pans out for you and it goes somewhere. Never know if you don't try.

Way too many guys of our generation are terrified to just let it rip. You have nothing to lose if she outright rejects you. Who cares if the isn't interested, thinks you were too forward, even creepy or anything of the sort. She is a complete stranger that you attempted to get to know and if it doesn't work out? Who cares, on to the next one. Take the experience and put a mental note on it then apply as needed in future exchanges.

Don't sweat it
 

Rainman4707

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Yeah, but you can genuinely pick up chicks this way. That’s why i am asking where you can improve.
I'm telling you improve by being NOT SO THIRSTY. That way you may actually get a plate, if you are having regular sex with a woman, you will notice how much more confident and relaxed you are when approaching other women.
 

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Guys, yesterday i was going to the bus stop when i saw this beautiful ukranian girl waiting for the bus too. I approached her, then i began speaking to her where’s she from, why is she going back home this early on a saturday followed by a compliment etc. She reciprocrated by asking me a question about where i am from.
The bus arrives, we get onto the same bus, it was crowded and she suddenly sat next to someone in the bus, where i was forced to either stand next to her or just go to another seat in the back. I took her sitting next to someone and me having no place to sit as she want to end the conversation. I went to sit in the back and the conversation ended right there.

I felt that i should’ve told her, let’s go sit in the back there’s more space for us. Or lead her at the beginning as there was a huge queue waiting to enter the bus to just enter from the other door.

Then she got off at the same place i got off and almost started running.

What do you guys think went wrong in this approach? Where is room for improvement?
Obviously, your luck was worse than the subject of this song:

 
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