Choked hard, what could be better?

[anour]

Guys, yesterday i was going to the bus stop when i saw this beautiful ukranian girl waiting for the bus too. I approached her, then i began speaking to her where’s she from, why is she going back home this early on a saturday followed by a compliment etc. She reciprocrated by asking me a question about where i am from.
The bus arrives, we get onto the same bus, it was crowded and she suddenly sat next to someone in the bus, where i was forced to either stand next to her or just go to another seat in the back. I took her sitting next to someone and me having no place to sit as she want to end the conversation. I went to sit in the back and the conversation ended right there.

I felt that i should’ve told her, let’s go sit in the back there’s more space for us. Or lead her at the beginning as there was a huge queue waiting to enter the bus to just enter from the other door.

Then she got off at the same place i got off and almost started running.

What do you guys think went wrong in this approach? Where is room for improvement?

 

[anour]

!!!

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

You cowardly waded into the back of the bus and told her that you're not someone worth her time.

 

[anour]

You cowardly waded into the back of the bus and told her that you're not someone worth her time.

Lol. So what should i have done in that situation?

 

[Dr.Suave]

The bus arrives, we get onto the same bus, it was crowded and she suddenly sat next to someone in the bus

Test or low interest. Probably low interest. Next time try to get her number before going in the bus

 

[anour]

You cowardly waded into the back of the bus and told her that you're not someone worth her time.

Her body language after the fact that i went back and sat behind showed that she was at unease. Do you think with that factor into play its test?

Btw we got off at the same stop, and then she genuinely almost started running.

 

[Tilex]

If you use public transportation, then you'll come across many women just like her.

But the real honest truth....

The moment you say something is when the timer begins.
You have approximately less than a minute to analyze her indicators of interest. They are really easy to read, but If you read her incorrectly then the next steps will invoke a negative reaction.
After that you sit or stand right next to each other with your hips practically touching. If she doesn't move away, then a window for a kiss is open.

Less talking and more action.

 

[anour]

If you use public transportation, then you'll come across many women just like her.

But the real honest truth....

The moment you say something is when the timer begins.
You have approximately less than a minute to analyze her indicators of interest. They are really easy to read, but If you read her incorrectly then the next steps will invoke a negative reaction.
After that you sit or stand right next to each other with your hips practically touching. If she doesn't move away, then a window for a kiss is open.

Less talking and more action.

What are the indicators of interest in such a situation would be?

 

[Slowhandluke]

What are the indicators of interest in such a situation would be?

if you pull it out and she smiles. that's an ioi. if she yells and calls the police, well, that's how the cookie crumbles.

unless, you are extremely attractive, picking up random women is hard. you did the right thing. she doesn't know you. you don't know her... other then looks, she is no one to you. normal high value guys don't act all creepy towards strange women. move on. if you see her again, smile and strike up a conversation. else, who cares?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I thought this was going to be something different when I clicked on this thread by its title hahaha

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

Next time you feel like complimenting a girl, give it to yourself instead.

You're beautiful becomes, I'm a fashion model so tell me, why did you choose X today? (Target her shoes, be funny)
You're so smart becomes, I'm totally stupid, I did X recently, what do you think? (people listen to this) They'll tell you you're not blah blah, its just a conversation starter.
I like your dress should be, how much do you think these pants cost me? (Better if you bought them cheap) Then you can talk about good deals in your city.
My friend who went through my fridge is such an a$$hole. Becomes, do you think it's rude to go into someone's fridge without asking? (it is)

You should frame your conversation in the form of a question or looking for advice, people like to talk. Don't compliment, connect. Hey that was a smart decision you made, I'd do the same, infact, what do you think of (X Scenario with same logic). Compliments are conversation killers.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

I thought this was going to be something different when I clicked on this thread by its title hahaha

SAME lol

 

[Bingo-Player]

In these types of time constrained situations you really just have to go for broke as quickly as possible

I was waiting to get on a flight in the summer as we were queuing to get on the plane I turned around and noticed a cute HB standing behind me I smiled at her and asked how much the airline charged her to bring her suitcase as hand luggage

Conversation flowed from there I hadn't intended to target her but the situation just landed I knew I had probably 10 mins max until we were seated on the plane and that would be the end of it

I just asked if she had instagram and she gave it, we exchanged some messages afterwards but I think I came on too strong too fast
it fizzled out and I unfollowed her

She still watches my instagram stories now though 6 months later so I assume I was at least of some interest to her

 

[Rainman4707]

Guys, yesterday i was going to the bus stop when i saw this beautiful ukranian girl waiting for the bus too. I approached her, then i began speaking to her where’s she from, why is she going back home this early on a saturday followed by a compliment etc. She reciprocrated by asking me a question about where i am from.
The bus arrives, we get onto the same bus, it was crowded and she suddenly sat next to someone in the bus, where i was forced to either stand next to her or just go to another seat in the back. I took her sitting next to someone and me having no place to sit as she want to end the conversation. I went to sit in the back and the conversation ended right there.

I felt that i should’ve told her, let’s go sit in the back there’s more space for us. Or lead her at the beginning as there was a huge queue waiting to enter the bus to just enter from the other door.

Then she got off at the same place i got off and almost started running.

What do you guys think went wrong in this approach? Where is room for improvement?

My advice, don't take these interactions to seriously. You may come across to thirsty this way.

 

[Rainman4707]

SAME lol

Good ol' Neuro linguistic programming! =)

 

[Bokanovsky]

What do you guys think went wrong in this approach?

Considering that she started running away from you, I would have to surmise that just about everything went wrong.

 

[Jor-El]

Sounds like you literally got took for a ride

 

[anour]

if you pull it out and she smiles. that's an ioi. if she yells and calls the police, well, that's how the cookie crumbles.

unless, you are extremely attractive, picking up random women is hard. you did the right thing. she doesn't know you. you don't know her... other then looks, she is no one to you. normal high value guys don't act all creepy towards strange women. move on. if you see her again, smile and strike up a conversation. else, who cares?

I like the mentality, it is good.

 

[anour]

Considering that she started running away from you, I would have to surmise that just about everything went wrong.

Where exactly it went wrong? I feel its when we entered the bus and then i just left to sit at the back.

 

[anour]

My advice, don't take these interactions to seriously. You may come across to thirsty this way.

Yeah, but you can genuinely pick up chicks this way. That’s why i am asking where you can improve.