PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Is there any more argumentative, bitter poster than Jaylan? Sad. How DARE JaDel imply that women have diminishing marginal utility from pair bonding. Laws of economics need not apply. "You sound immature about this." LOL.
Actually you know whats sad? People who don’t accurately read thread posts. Jdel had come in throwing a broad brush about US and UK men and women. He acted like he knows how capable of love and loyalty these people are. Basically hes throwing judgments around from the viewpoint of his conservative culture (prude culture imo).
I just don’t agree with this idea that 5 partners is a lot for a someone. Especially we you consider that many women will lie to a guy a pick a number around that area because of prude-ish attitudes regarding sex. Lets be real bro…hes a foreigner. I cant think of many English or American people that consider 5 sexual partners a big deal. At least not people I personally know.
JdelaSilviera said:
Fvck Jaylan, are you retarded? You just lost the objectivity of the discussion in many points. First I was speaking about my personal preference which I think is still allowed... and you had no idea that many women are not like the ones you know.
You seem really insecure regarding a womans past in my opinion though. Just because a guy or gal screws someone, does not mean they are connected to them forever. A lot of people move on from their exes and now how to devote themselves to their new partner. Some people don’t know how to do this. But its really all individual. Life and sex aren’t cookie cutter…people are different. You seem so overly concerned with a womans sexual habits dictating her loyalty. Thats how you make the mistake of overly trusting a girl just because she TELLS you her number is low (doesnt mean its true either, as anyone can lie)
About the friends who were man *****s and are now deeply in love, of course you will find cases like that... And these people are the ones who will tend to cheat more.. Promiscuous people also tend to "love" too many times... Many women don´t get over their past flings /relationships, and many even marry without having forgotten other guys... But it´s not just a matter of not being able to love as much, is all the baggage behind... Of course you can get into a relationship with an ex prostitute who will be faithful to you, which is very healthy, good natured, not bitter at all etc. As you can find a woman with a child, who doesn´t look into her kid as the top priority, who still has a tight ***** and elite body, but we are not arguing in term of exceptions. If a women is connected to other guys, she will be fvcking you and thinking about them all, she will never be exclusive, and very often you will find suspicious messages from their ex´s that won´t be very pleasant. Being an idiot is not being mature.. If you can discriminate women on their bodies and children, one can also being discriminatory on other grounds.
There was a recent article, which unfortunately I can´t find now, which reported 50% of betrayal in young woman, a simply insane number, which is totally related to todays lifestyle... Men who tolerate on the bounds of modernity, will be punished..
Actually Im wondering if you are the retard? Of course the insults start coming because you are so butthurt that someone disagrees with your viewpoint. Your personal preference is fine, but you also went on to make grandiose assumptions regarding people you don’t know at all. And all based on your biased viewpoint which is shaped by your conservative culture.
Dude, you have no idea about cheating if you automatically think formerly promiscuous people cheat more.
Do you read these forums or others? Do you talk to many people? For every slut or manwh0re that cheated, I can tell you a story of the conservative person who didn’t sleep with too many people, but all of a sudden wants to experience new people and sow wild oats. Its not uncommon, so don’t be ignorant.
Everyone’s capacity to love is individual, and its arrogant of you to think that you could know how much someone else can love without knowing them at all. Don’t be silly.
Are you stupid? First I was arguing with the exception... and defending a position similar to yours it seems... although I´m not obliged to read everything you write.
When your girlfriend with a sexual "healthy" lifestyle betrays you, I want to see if keep being a liberal. Now you shouldn´t post when you are on your period..
Also about your gay partner from the gym, everyone knows that looks can work by themselves one just have to look into women fascination with aber models.. Now it´s also true that confidence is attractive for many women, and that the more you realize you look good, the more confident you act, scoring pvssy left and right with these two weapons.
This is pretty much straightforward...
Trust me, in this day and age, sexual history doesn’t dictate that. If you don’t learn that, YOU will be the one who ends up being lied to or played. There are so many other ways to find out if a woman is a good woman than if she had sex with 5 dudes (a number which many men find small or average).
Let me ask…youre on this website, which does encourage men to bed many women. How many women have YOU slept with?, since you cast so many judgments on men and women who enjoy sex with more than a few people.
The only one on their period is you. Look how testy and upset you get that someone disagrees with you? Trust me dude, you need to grow up and realize that even a girl whos been with 1 or 2 men can cheat on you. Im not saying Id date a slore, but 5 partners is no biggie to me…especially when I know people who have slept with more than 15, 20, or more partners.
And lastly, again, you ignored my point regarding looks. My buddies physique did not change his behavior or confidence, yet he scored more ladies. That’s my point. Women can be just as shallow and looks driven as men during their youth. Btw, its wishful thinking on your part to call me or my friend gay…as I know youd want less women out there having casual sex with us lol.
TheException said:
Ive already explained it....lets try this:
One question for you.....if your "good looking gym bros" were terrible with women as in had no idea how to escalate, were needy, jealous, etc...in other words, unattractive traits to a female....do you believe they still would get laid as much or even more than some guy with average looks but he had the right mindset, was driven, confident, etc (attractive traits)?
Try not to hurt yourself when answering....its a very easy question.
And Ive already explained this to you several times. My buddies personality and confidence did not change after working out. Neither did mine. Yet womens response to us changed because our bodies became more attractive. My friend can walk around the club or beach, not saying a word, and have chicks try and strike up convo and literally throw themselves at him.
My good friend from college, is a guy Id call pretty good looking. He would literally just put himself at the bar or on the dancefloor and girls would come up to him or place themselves near him. He would say silly things or make mistakes average guys would not be allowed to get away with. But chicks make it very easy for him because they were very attracted to him.
These girls knew nothing about his true mindset or if he had drive and ambition. They just wanted to have some fun with a guy they were attracted to…and he generated that attraction based on his looks. So to answer your question, my experience has shown me that women allow good looking guys with lame traits to get away with things, and the guy can still get laid. The average guy has to put on more of a show and work more to get the same amount of success.
That’s just the reality Ive seen in the dating world. Game is not this magic method, though it does help. My point is that chicks can be very shallow, and discount my experiences all you want…but once I grew my hair some and got a good body women liked, I started to become stunned at the response I got. And lemme tell you, my hair is always the typical conversation starter when women I don’t know try to talk to me.
Bokanovsky said:
Excuse me...what "U.S. culture"? Modern-day Americans are the most uncouth, uncultured people on the planet (there are exceptions of course, but I'm talking about the general population). You guys think that watching a bunch of roid monkeys in spandex running around with a ball (a.k.a. Superbowl) is the height of cultural achievement. The average American in all likelihood has never been to a theatre (movie theatres don't count) or read the classics. There is a reason why American tourists are the butt of all jokes no matter where they go.
There goes that close-minded arrogance that foreigners love to accuse Americans of. Talk about hypocrisy. I swear foreigners must have a huge inferiority complex regarding Americans. You lot spend so much time trying to hate on us, yet Americans never take the time to think about you, let alone make time to think of jokes to make fun of tourists. Btw, you might want to look up the definition of culture.
