Chicks with kids

[SikWitIt]

Im getting to that age wher every woman i meet has 1-3 kids already. Im not trying to be a daddy but dam, all my friends have kids an im like the only one who doesnt.

Maybe im just lucky ive had unprotected sex with 4 diffrent girls one had 2 kids an her tubes tied, the other said she couldnt have kids an the 3rd said she couldnt have kids an the fourth well she had an abortion so i dont know if that jacked things up for her too.

Now when i first met these girl's i used a condom but the box eventually ran out. Anyway ive learned my lesson i dont have any std's thank god an still no kids.

What im getting at is would you have a relationship with a girl who already has 1-3 kids?

I broke up with my g/f like 3 months ago living with my mom:crackup: but i have all this money an nothing to do with it, i kid you not i got 500$ from irs 700$ from job and another 500$ from second job.

It's been a good month i was struggling for like 6 months going job to job just barely making my car payment an cell phone not to mention gas.

I guess im at that point wher i wanna find sumbody to settle down with.

 

[ProDJ26]

No kids for you? That's good I advise you and every else on this board to leave MILFs alone. The kid or kids will always be there number one priority. (With good reason) Sure you can **** them But by all means DO NOT TRY AND HAVE A RELATIONSHIP with any woman that has kids.....

 

[KontrollerX]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116188

Have a read of all of Rollo's posts in this thread and then decide if raising another man's offspring is right for you.

 

[Enryu]

i dont know what you expect to get from us now.
We dont know how you live or what you feel
if you would be good with kids or not.
If you would run away from kids after a week. Its all your decision.
Think about it and dont trust someone from a forum you dont even know in that matter

 

[Warrior74]

as a man with kids...I'll tell ya. I'm not dating women with children seriously... I'll sex em for a while..but that's about it. I tell em straight up what I'm looking for, I treat them very nice and respectful. I don't interact with their children or try to meet their kids. And we have fun. I always tell them that I am looking for something more...and I want to see where it goes. But if she tries to push the kid on me in any way I bail.

Also I'm a complete ass hole to my ex's boyfriend. You probably wouldn't want to deal with a 'baby daddy' like me, because I have no respect for you what so ever. I know she's a lying cheating whoor and you don't. lol.

 

[logicallefty]

I go against the masses on this one. I do not mind dating chicks with kids. However, I do use an extremely thick caution flag when doing it. I make sure I know the scoop on dad including his relationship with the kids and her relationship with him. I prefer when the dad is still a big part of their lives, and when she gets along with the dad. I also make sure I can stand the kids myself. Also, I make it clear to her that while I will never try to come first before her kids, I do expect some alone time.. Basically, I have to have a good vibe about the whole situation or I end it with the chick.

 

[Mavrick]

I've made it a point not to date women with children. At my age, I thought it would be hard to find kid free women, but I haven't had any trouble what so ever.

I was married to a woman who had a kid, and I grew attached to her child. When she left me, it was hard as hell because I'll never see that kid again or at least for a long long time. It's not worth the pain.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Single mother are good if you want to date a hor, I guess.

 

[MacAvoy]

as a man with kids...I'll tell ya. I'm not dating women with children seriously

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Also I'm a complete ass hole to my ex's boyfriend. You probably wouldn't want to deal with a 'baby daddy' like me, because I have no respect for you what so ever. I know she's a lying cheating whoor and you don't. lol.

I'm with warrior on this one to a degree. I've had more than my share of sex with single mothers, however I generally rule out women with kids for LTR's. Now I will make an exception for a women with only one kid but she better be pretty damn special. For the most part, I stick to just shagging them, especially if that have 2-3 kids. If they have that many, then to me thats an even bigger red flag, if she's had that many, then she should have been married or she's not worth my time if she has that many kids out of marriage.

Now if she's had 2-3 kids and been married, then she's not for me either. I only have one rule and its not to enter a serious relationship with a divorced women, she's made the biggest committment that can be made and failed at it, either because it was her fault or equally as bad, because she's a bad choice of character. If she's a bad choice of character, she'll make many mistakes in her life.

I've gone on far too much but I wanted to give you my insight.