It's a very tough game for a lot of guys. That's why I mentioned in the 99% percent rejection thread how a 1 percent success rate or even less is common.
But despite being cynical, I'm still hopeful that I will eventually meet the right person. She might be one out of 400. That's ok.
Don't chase women or give a F what shallow shyte comes out if their mouths. The ones that truly matter and are truly worth it are rare.
If every female was exactly the same, as sure as I'm sitting here, I would be a 37 yo virgin.
I'm working during the day and having fun learning dance at night. If I meet that ultra rare special female that is attracted to me AND "gets me," great. If I don't, F it. I'll just live my life and score once in a while with Ms. Anamoly.
So take this stuff for what it is, but please don't worry about it too much.