Chicks No Reason No Contact disappearing then re-appearing act.

[djjizzyjeff]

I think a lot of chicks play a disappearing "I've been busy" act to sh1t test dudes and see how they react (desperate/mad etc.) when (if) they do decide to contact you again. (This is mostly about new chicks you meet and have even banged.)

I've noticed chicks will seem hot then go cold or act distant/completely disappear then come back like nothing happened but do that to see if the same dude (you) are either mad, desperate, or "oh so happy!" to hear from them again.

Keep it cool even if you don't have other options ATM. Like you didn't even notice time passed. It'll make her hampster start spinning that she's not so special/you possibly have other chicks and really didn't notice/ and her little vanishing test failed. (Don't think she isn't talking to and playing the same game with other dudes or possibly even getting banged by another dude. A chick who plays that game right off the bat (with no valid reason given..just disappears) drops several points to a possible FB or even less depending on whether she keeps playing that nonsense or stops completely and starts focusing on the two of you.)

You just set up a meet shortly while being non-chalant and care free. If the chick flakes at that point you simply don't bother with her at all anymore unless you feel like being her puppet or for the moment "feel good" attention.


EDIT: This is more meant at chicks who act all into you then play the disappearing act all of a sudden. Not chicks where you both go out and have a good time are cool and really click but they get busy or you. This is for chicks who act like you are the one for them and then out of nowhere pull the mind fvck routine and drop off the face of the earth for a few days and then come back as if nothing happened.

 

[PackDaddy]

Here is what you might be looking for. It appears to me that this happens for a reason. I've noticed broads do this when you have a good date with them, but you failed a few **** tests.

Actually just happened to me. This girl texts me everyday for a week. I text her back, but on my own time, whereas she would text me back right away. She was attracted to me from the minute she met me as well, and told me just about 5 times at that party that I'm cute. So here's what I have: her physical attraction, and she likes my personality (as far as she knows).

Unfortunately, I became irrational over the weekend. I drank vehemently at a college party the night before I went out with her. When I drink hard, the next day I still struggle to live by my alpha principles; drinking temporarily makes me into a beta (still trying to figure out how to get past that). So, when I went out with her, I was still my alpha self, but failed some **** tests because my character was still impaired from the over-indulgence the previous night.

At the end of the date, I'm sitting with her in my car. She tells me how much fun she had, shoves her tongue down my throat, and rubs my member through my pants. She even struggles to leave me because she can't stop kissing me. I decide not **** her in my car for various reasons. This was also a mistake. Part of it was that we were right in front of her house, and all I need is for Dad to see my plowing his daughter, a neighbor to see me and tell Dad, or Dad see us kissing and see the car drive off (tells him I'm railing her).

Ultimately, she stops texting me as much the next day. I limit my texting too. So then I ghost her all day today. What do you know, she is interested still. She texts me saying she's sorry for not texting me the night before, and wishing me good luck at my internship tomorrow (1st day). This lets me know she's thinking about me. I'm not responding until tomorrow night. I'm also keeping the response short and sweet. This should throw her off and make her pursue again.

At the end of the day, she may still be interested in you. Depending on how you handle that text will determine if the ball lands back in your court.

By the way, easy way to pass sh1t tests without thinking about them: don't care about the girl. Leave the emotions out of it.

 

[Fatal Jay]

^
yep, it means other guys are in the picture. Thing is though I had a chick do that to me, but she started seeing me with other girls, and a few pounds lighter with nice looking clothes, and right now she is one of my daily bang plates. This chick kept telling me she refuse to have sex until she is married, and I bang this chick every other day, and only because I need a day rest.

 

[PlayHer Man]

There is not always another guy. Most women who pull this crap just like drama and a challenge. They are not comfortable with a smooth, peaceful, fun relationship. They need the drama --> That's why they behave in anti-social ways in order to create drama.

All adult humans know basic manners and how to treat people properly. If she is good, friendly and available in the beginning.. this is further PROOF that she KNOWS how to act and how to treat people. So if she starts with these sh!t tests.. its obviously done purposely because she needs that drama / challenge.

Lots of women love the power they get from manipulating men and watching them squirm in confusion and insecurity. Its a game to them.

With all that said.. I get a lot of pleasure from abusing these women (since they deserve it) and beating them at their own game. They are the perfect people for me to exercise my inner jerk on. All my frustrations with life will be taken out on her.

Once a woman starts with this non-sense.. I know she is a woman I can treat like trash and still f*ck. So I do. I exercise pure disrespect.. like flaking, standing her up, flirting with other girls right in front of her, ignoring calls and not returning them, forgetting my wallet on dates, ordering her around, etc. I do this until she leaves me or until it gets boring. I love it. :yes:

 

[SamTheHobit]

Player man is my hero XD

 

[SamTheHobit]

anyway. I find this subject pretty interesting.

So would the best counter, do the same thing? Don't initiate contact. Act even more distant?

This forum loves to cry theirs another guy in the picture but that's not always the case.

 

[djjizzyjeff]

Its not a sh!t test at all. It means there's another guy.

A lot of times there is another dude in the picture. I still say it's a sh1t test because what they'll do is hit you up and act like nothing is wrong or they've simply "got busy" but are waiting to see how you react...that's the testing part.(It's not that it means they don't like you and they're of course free to date other people, it's almost subconcious testing from them. You better believe if you act butthurt she'll either play you more and or get the hint you are desperate.)

You simply have to be completely non-chalant and carefree...but setup a meet and escalate for sex then you "get busy" for a while ESPECIALLY after you've gotten some.

It's almost like they subconciously play: "Let me see if this guy really "needs" me and if he freaks out if I don't contact him for a few days". Kindof like their own NC but in the beginning stages of a relationship.

If you do freak out or come across as desperate. I can guarantee you you're going to lose.

(Again. Like I said in my first post it doesn't mean she isn't seeing other dudes. She almost ALL of the time is. Yet still sometimes they aren't seeing anyone else and they're still playing that game.)

 

[Uncharted]

Once a woman starts with this non-sense.. I know she is a woman I can treat like trash and still f*ck. So I do. I exercise pure disrespect.. like flaking, standing her up, flirting with other girls right in front of her, ignoring calls and not returning them, forgetting my wallet on dates, ordering her around, etc. I do this until she leaves me or until it gets boring. I love it. :yes:

This is awesome

 

[nismo-4]

Your princess usually went to another castle. Then again, all women need drama!

 

[SamTheHobit]

A lot of times there is another dude in the picture. I still say it's a sh1t test because what they'll do is hit you up and act like nothing is wrong or they've simply "got busy" but are waiting to see how you react...that's the testing part.(It's not that it means they don't like you and they're of course free to date other people, it's almost subconcious testing from them. You better believe if you act butthurt she'll either play you more and or get the hint you are desperate.)

You simply have to be completely non-chalant and carefree...but setup a meet and escalate for sex then you "get busy" for a while ESPECIALLY after you've gotten some.

It's almost like they subconciously play: "Let me see if this guy really "needs" me and if he freaks out if I don't contact him for a few days". Kindof like their own NC but in the beginning stages of a relationship.

If you do freak out or come across as desperate. I can guarantee you you're going to lose.

(Again. Like I said in my first post it doesn't mean she isn't seeing other dudes. She almost ALL of the time is. Yet still sometimes they aren't seeing anyone else and they're still playing that game.)

Interesting theory. Im going through something exactly the same.

Guess well see in the next few weeks if its a S##t test or plain disinterest.

 

[djjizzyjeff]

Interesting theory. Im going through something exactly the same.

Guess well see in the next few weeks if its a S##t test or plain disinterest.

It's something I'd noticed. (Most likely there IS another dude or dudes in the picture.)

But the difference is it's not just the other dude. It's chicks will conciously or subconciously see by hitting you up out of the blue after disappearing as if nothing happened.

If a dude did that to a chick you know damn well she'd be thinking: PLAYER.

It's funny because I'd noticed that with POF. Chicks will act completely "into" you then disappear out of nowhere.

You don't hit them up AT ALL. Let them run to something "better". But by then you know she's attempting to game. To which you LET HER hit YOU up while you don't wait around and meet new chicks. You are COMPLETELY non-chalant and carefree, cool etc. You take a few hours to reply and keep things brief and positive as if you didn't even notice.

Set up a meet or see if she sets one up with you...Meet up with her escalate and then after YOU go ghost to let her chase you.

If she doesn't? Forget her. You get the last "laugh" by having banged her.

If you don't meet her/bang her, she flakes etc. Keep it moving and don't bother with her anymore.
Because that type of chick is playing a manipulation game right off the bat. The "I really like you" now I've up and disappeared to hook you with your emotions of "Wow. This chick really likes me" Now she's abandoned me" act. These chicks need to be pump and dumped and left to cry their BS tears and lame stories afterwards when they get beaten at their own game to chumps who believe their BS and will take her side and blame the "bad guys".

I need to update my original post as this is more meant at chicks who act all into you then play the disappearing act all of a sudden. Not chicks where you both go out and have a good time are cool and really click but they get busy or you. This is for chicks who act like you are the one for them and then out of nowhere pull the mind fvck routine and drop off the face of the earth for a few days and then come back as if nothing happened.


***Remeber things DO come up in everyones life. So if she contacts you and it sounds legit. It just might be. If she just pops up and acts like nothing. Never says anything...She's using a mind fvck technique.

Overload the dude with "She really likes me" to "abandoned for a few days/ full takeaway" with no care as if she "Doesn't know what she's doing".

There's no point in even mentioning it or rationalizing debating it with these types. They know what they did and they'll lie through their teeth and you'll only be showing her you care for her more than you are acting like you don't.

At that point you keep it like a Mafia Don. Never let on you know your soldier is full of sh1t. You let her or you schedule a meet...then escalate and fvck or drop them. It's your world.