I agree. Any woman worth her salt will know what the deal is. My point is that many women who are invested in the relationship would prefer not to know and they appreciate the plausible deniability that you've given them, ie. that your story *might* be true even though, intuitively, they know it probably isn't.
Chicks going thru your shyt and calling your GF
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Nightwing
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Actually, Im not trying to be a dyck or anything like that D, because Im appreciative of any advice that I can get no matter how it's presented to me. Like I said before, since I didnt use any type of ethics (I suppose??) in this situation, Im just taking everyones input to deal with situations for future reference like I stated before. Just keep it coming that's the main way Im learning to deal with this situation.
Tell her anything, seriously. She knows something's going on, and there's no plausible lie you can give her. Tell her that sometimes your redial button falls in. Buy a new phone before you tell her.
My friend's girlfriend was my friend also. I knew my friend was cheating, but didn't think she did. She came to me once asking for my advice, telling me she saw the girl he was cheating with wearing his shirt. She named other stuff she had seen, and she had a very tight case that he was cheating. I told her to go with her instincts, and if she felt disrespected to talke to him about it. She never did and stayed with him. She knew the girl that he was cheating with was leaving town in a month, and I guess that was enough for her.
My point is that there are tons of girls who will ignore evidence as long as they can come up with any other excuse, because they don't want to lose the guy. If your girlfriend wants to stay with you, she'll accept whatever you tell her after a few reassurances. If she's not co-dependent, she'll realize whatever excuse you give her is a lie and call you out on it. This situation isn't in your hands any longer.
My friend's girlfriend was my friend also. I knew my friend was cheating, but didn't think she did. She came to me once asking for my advice, telling me she saw the girl he was cheating with wearing his shirt. She named other stuff she had seen, and she had a very tight case that he was cheating. I told her to go with her instincts, and if she felt disrespected to talke to him about it. She never did and stayed with him. She knew the girl that he was cheating with was leaving town in a month, and I guess that was enough for her.
My point is that there are tons of girls who will ignore evidence as long as they can come up with any other excuse, because they don't want to lose the guy. If your girlfriend wants to stay with you, she'll accept whatever you tell her after a few reassurances. If she's not co-dependent, she'll realize whatever excuse you give her is a lie and call you out on it. This situation isn't in your hands any longer.
Nightwing
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The crazy shyt has begun.
For those of you who posted that this chick was a psycho, you all were so right. Yesterday morning, when I was cleaning up my "junk" room, I found things in there that were ripped to shreds like my autograph collection of pro wrestlers, and I saw where she used a knife to rip up the monitor on my laptop also. She's also fvcked up some mini CD's, my high school scrapbook, and I've noticed some information off an old selective service card of mine that has been ripped off the card. I know that there are other documents of mine that contain account numbers and my SSN that I leave laying around on my desk in my computer room. Now that I think back on it, I remember a few days ago that she asked me what was my mom's maiden name--I didnt think much about it then, but now that I know that this information has been tampered with, it makes sense now, so today, Im in the process of calling up my bank and I've already changed my credit card number.
What makes this even more wierd is that she finally confessed to making those calls to my GF then gave me a present along with a card containing $500 in it. She knew that I was really upset after she confessed this stuff to me and after she noticed that I started finding shyt around my house that was messed up, she called her mom to pick her up a few hours later. She's out of the house now and is currently living with her mother.
For the meantime, I've changed the alarm code and I plan on changing the dead bolts on all the doors today. She's not coming back to my house again.
For those of you who posted that this chick was a psycho, you all were so right. Yesterday morning, when I was cleaning up my "junk" room, I found things in there that were ripped to shreds like my autograph collection of pro wrestlers, and I saw where she used a knife to rip up the monitor on my laptop also. She's also fvcked up some mini CD's, my high school scrapbook, and I've noticed some information off an old selective service card of mine that has been ripped off the card. I know that there are other documents of mine that contain account numbers and my SSN that I leave laying around on my desk in my computer room. Now that I think back on it, I remember a few days ago that she asked me what was my mom's maiden name--I didnt think much about it then, but now that I know that this information has been tampered with, it makes sense now, so today, Im in the process of calling up my bank and I've already changed my credit card number.
What makes this even more wierd is that she finally confessed to making those calls to my GF then gave me a present along with a card containing $500 in it. She knew that I was really upset after she confessed this stuff to me and after she noticed that I started finding shyt around my house that was messed up, she called her mom to pick her up a few hours later. She's out of the house now and is currently living with her mother.
For the meantime, I've changed the alarm code and I plan on changing the dead bolts on all the doors today. She's not coming back to my house again.
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Change your phone number too!
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Watch your car and yourself. Because b1tches are crazy.
Nightwing
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The locks just got changed!!!!
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Well, its been a while since I've posted on this thread and so far, the FB is out of my house although she's trying to get herself back in good with me. And Prosemont, you were so right when you made this remark,
Back to your story ... ditch the FB. She's trouble and not a very good FB. As to the GF ... if she is a good GF, she WON'T ASK. She won't press the issue. She'll wonder, but you just might be surprised to find that she DOESN'T WANT TO KNOW.
Sure, she didnt talk to me for a few days, but when she started back talking to me, she never asked me what happened that night.
.......if anything else happens, I'll keep you updated
Back to your story ... ditch the FB. She's trouble and not a very good FB. As to the GF ... if she is a good GF, she WON'T ASK. She won't press the issue. She'll wonder, but you just might be surprised to find that she DOESN'T WANT TO KNOW.
Sure, she didnt talk to me for a few days, but when she started back talking to me, she never asked me what happened that night.
.......if anything else happens, I'll keep you updated
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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Alright, I had to dig up this old site just for the sake of this thread.
http://www.psychoexgirlfriend.com/voicemails.html
http://www.psychoexgirlfriend.com/voicemails.html
Nightwing
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I havent had a chance to check out this one. The media player is not working on the computer that Im currently on, Ill try this one when I get home.
dionysius_d
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reading through the whole thread felt like watching a few scenes from Vanilla Sky.
I've been there myself.. there's no such thing as a FB without an investment in some way or another.
I've been there myself.. there's no such thing as a FB without an investment in some way or another.
dionysius_d
Senior Don Juan
Right on! But here is were this gets tricky. She is not going to be happy until she has been vindicated. You must start trying to pass her off to someone else in a way that it would appear that this was her idea. That she wanted to leave you. That way you would avoid her doing psycho things she would do to you and your girlfriend.
just wanna acknowledge TS who wrote this.. absolute genuis. It was the only way that worked for me once. The psychob1tch i had was with me one night and accepted another players card and later phoned him. I found out, and was able to dump on those grounds, by a miracle.. otherwise i would have been revenged badly.
just wanna acknowledge TS who wrote this.. absolute genuis. It was the only way that worked for me once. The psychob1tch i had was with me one night and accepted another players card and later phoned him. I found out, and was able to dump on those grounds, by a miracle.. otherwise i would have been revenged badly.