chicks ghosting mid convo

[Bingo-Player]

aint had this for a while , actually can't remember the last time it happened

chatting to this new piece on snapchat , convos pretty interesting with a nice tone of banter to it ( not your usual hey whats up crap)

next thing she opens my chat & vanishes off the face of the earth......the lack of respect was actually quite refreshing to be honest

so did we figure out what they want to gain from doing this ? , is it just another one of those ridiculous things women do to keep orbiters in orbit

I'm not sure but either way I've just had to do an emergency crash landing back to earth

number - deleted :rock:

 

[Yorkex]

Personal view here , I used to have the same problem. Understand that the average female on these social media sites is talking to min. 5 guys every second of the day. Therefore it becomes a " who can entertain the most" game. Which to me is a game you don't want to play.

That's why I chose to revert back to the old days. I keep my convos with each girl to a max 10 mins of total back and forth msgs. From then I eject , just like they eject mid convo ...it doesn't matter how entertaining the convo is.
In summary , keep it short and make PLANS ... in person is where it matters the most !

Girls offer Sex
Men offer Attention

If it comes too easy , you start to question their worth.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

You really shouldn't be wasting time with Snapchat. The worst most attention seeking narcissistic women get on there, and ofcourse they're going to make orbiters out of the guys. There's no real "game" to Snapchat, all it does is give chicks validation.

Use the modern world to your advantage. Be different than all of the orbiters online, and talk to the women you want in person. Not many guys do that anymore, and you'll have much better results. If you're unsure about a chick check out her profiles like you're doing something of a background check. Don't be like the AFC's who "text game" and talk to chicks on social media apps that pander to attention wh0res. Use the modern world to your advantage, and be different.

 

[El Payaso]

Lol. Snapchat.

 

[skinnyguy]

You really shouldn't be wasting time with Snapchat. The worst most attention seeking narcissistic women get on there, and ofcourse they're going to make orbiters out of the guys. There's no real "game" to Snapchat, all it does is give chicks validation.

Use the modern world to your advantage. Be different than all of the orbiters online, and talk to the women you want in person. Not many guys do that anymore, and you'll have much better results. If you're unsure about a chick check out her profiles like you're doing something of a background check. Don't be like the AFC's who "text game" and talk to chicks on social media apps that pander to attention wh0res. Use the modern world to your advantage, and be different.

Yup.

Snapchat is for immature women. If you're on it, prepare to get played.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Yup.

Snapchat is for immature women. If you're on it, prepare to get played.

Exactly!

Every woman I know who gets on Snapchat is an immature attention wh0re who tries to coast by on their looks. Anytime a girl advertises her Snapchat on Twitter/Facebook/Instagram it's definitely a sign to stay away. There's one who recently broke up with her boyfriend and is now "obsessed" with Snapchat, and why is that? Because she wants validation while getting over a breakup. Guys on Snapchat have pretty much taken the place of the rebound, because chicks can get a ton of ego boosting validation almost immediately, and it's easier than a chick actually going out with a guy just to feel important.

 

[old married dude]

Yeah all that social media BS is for hardcore attention wh0res.

Use a different mode of communication, I never give them my number but I'll chat with them on Kik. It's a little app used for instant messaging, it's not really social media like instagram or whatever. They use these social media apps to collect orbiters.

 

[LMFAO]

If you think women 25 plus are fvcked look out for the 16-20 year olds when they grow up, filling up the theatres for 50 Shades of Grey, using Snapchat, having the attention span of ants.

*Trying hard not to get depressed*

:crackup:

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

If you think women 25 plus are fvcked look out for the 16-20 year olds when they grow up, filling up the theatres for 50 Shades of Grey, using Snapchat, having the attention span of ants.

*Trying hard not to get depressed*

:crackup:

Dude I'm 19 and understand that completely. The girls in my age group are beyond f**ked up, and they're only going to get worse.

 

[Bingo-Player]

i actually like snapchat because it notifies you when someone screenshots

(I'm talking about the "chat" feature btw" )

tbh ive had this scenario with texts , twitter DM whatever ...... i don't exactly think you can start saying snapchat is the root of all psychotic bishes lmao

its 2015 and we've been over this many times on this forum , if you wanna keep up with the game ( and i promise you its moving quickly) you gotta be prepared to use these hype apps

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I didn't say it was the root of all psychotic biches, but the vast majority of women on there are self obsessed attention wh0res, and whenever they advertise their Snapchat it's a bad sign. The craziest women I know all do this.

Us following the herd of AFC's, giving into every BS social media fad app that caters to attention wh0res isn't going to help anyone. The reason she ignored you is because all men on those apps are expendable to them, and ofcourse they aren't going to respect any a guy enough to rap a convo respectfully, it's not rocket science. The whole point of this site and being a DJ is to stay ahead of the rest of the AFC dudes.

There was a girl I went out with last fall. We were in a class together, and I stuck to the DJ principles from this site. Meanwhile there was another dude there who wouldn't leave her alone, and he would Snapchat and "text game" her. I would keep a distance, would talk when there was a chance, and played things well. Guess who she gravitated towards? My point is he thought he was being so smooth by orbiting her online and in person, but it killed any chances he could have had with her. I was probably one of the only guys who had the balls to flirt and ask her out in person, because all guys these days want to do everything through a fvckign computer/phone screen.

It's 2015, and we have probably hundreds of threads about social media and texting. It's always "why did she ignore me?" "How do I play this?" the threads go on and on, and we get another thread asking the same thing two days later. It's pretty clear this isn't the way to get chicks.

 

[Yorkex]

Evolve brothers , using social media apps the right way will single you out. You don't have to give them the attention if you DONT want to.
You can't say stay away from these apps , learn how to use them wisely.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Staying away from the BS completely is the best thing to do. You're more mysterious if they can't find a profile of yours online, it gives you the mystery most guys these days don't have.

Talking to her occasionally on Instagram/Facebook/Twitter/Snapchat isn't going to make a guy stand out. You'd likely by guy number 6 who's talking to them that day, and they'll quickly forget about it. A lot of the women aren't even paying attention to what exactly what each guy is saying, they just notice it's a guy. Think about how bad a lot of women are at listening in person. If they can't remember what you tell them in person, do you really think they'll remember what someone Snapchatted them on February 6th?

 

[Yorkex]

Staying away from the BS completely is the best thing to do. You're more mysterious if they can't find a profile of yours online, it gives you the mystery most guys these days don't have.

Talking to her occasionally on Instagram/Facebook/Twitter/Snapchat isn't going to make a guy stand out. You'd likely by guy number 6 who's talking to them that day, and they'll quickly forget about it. A lot of the women aren't even paying attention to what exactly what each guy is saying, they just notice it's a guy. Think about how bad a lot of women are at listening in person. If they can't remember what you tell them in person, do you really think they'll remember what someone Snapchatted them on February 6th?

Pure bogus !
That's the problem most guys are doing , you SHOULD not talk to them via messaging. MAKE plans , you will be surprised how many guys are talking to girls but don't have the BALLS to ask for a meet up. This year alone I have met 10 women from online and slept with 4.
Stop listening to those pick up artist and go your own route , if you ask her to meet up and she denies THEN stop talking to her... you he that right as a person. If she hits you up , simply state your stance and disappear.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Staying away from the BS completely is the best thing to do. You're more mysterious if they can't find a profile of yours online, it gives you the mystery most guys these days don't have.

lol bro i understand what your saying i really do , unfortunately in real life it just don't work anymore

I've tried it , I've done like 6/7 months in complete social media silence and guess what !?!

it made absolutely no difference whatsoever , all it did was make a few people in my close social circles question what i was up to

chicks on the hole could not give a flying fuk,

we are at a stage in society were sadly the modern woman especially between the ages of 20 - 35 are incredibly lazy , they have men queuing up around the block, all trying everything and anything to get between they're legs

being "indifferent" is no longer enough the games fundamental rules are corny & outdated , we are in the digital age now and therefore the game needs to move with it

there seems to be a ridiculous amount of resistance to this in the pickup community and i dont understand why

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Pure bogus !
That's the problem most guys are doing , you SHOULD not talk to them via messaging. MAKE plans , you will be surprised how many guys are talking to girls but don't have the BALLS to ask for a meet up. This year alone I have met 10 women from online and slept with 4.
Stop listening to those pick up artist and go your own route , if you ask her to meet up and she denies THEN stop talking to her... you he that right as a person. If she hits you up , simply state your stance and disappear.

Pure bogus says you.

I made my stance pretty clear from the previous comments, and don't follow advice from any "pick-up artists." Whether they say to use social media/text or not.

I see this crap for what it is.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I am my own priority, women come last how liberating it all is