chick: "Women have all the power and control in the modern dating economy"

[MatureDJ]

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Once again I question why this video is an hour long. Someone needs to take his videos and edit them down to 10-15 minutes so we don't have to listen to his monotone drawl and nagging.

 

[MatureDJ]

Once again I question why this video is an hour long. Someone needs to take his videos and edit them down to 10-15 minutes so we don't have to listen to his monotone drawl and nagging.

I always put in a link at the key point in the video, so any forum member will be able to watch just that section.

But you are correct that he rambles on ...

 

[corrector]

The point he is saying is there are no good women around for guys to date seriously since they are all hors. That is what people like @soulforge is also saying too in the other thread.

 

[manfrombelow]

The point he is saying is there are no good women around for guys to date seriously since they are all hors. That is what people like @soulforge is also saying too in the other thread.

In other words: Another meaningless and pointless and depressing blackpill stuff that's essentially useless to a man's life.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Yeah I can’t watch that guy anymore, he grates. Seriously, short fat and bald is no way to go through life, I’d be bitter too, but seriously if the dude did ANYTHING to improve himself he’d do better, starting with getting in shape and dressing better. But he rather just whine…

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

In other words: Another meaningless and pointless and depressing blackpill stuff that's essentially useless to a man's life.

Well, it inspires me to avoid dating apps.

 

[obelisk]

He's way too long-winded for what he actually says in each vid.

 

[SW15]

This was only a 3 minute part of a 55 minute long video.

That woman is exactly correct and Better Bachelor acknowledged it. In the early stages of a mating interaction, women have all the power. A woman who uses swipe apps and/or is active on Instagram has so many options at any time. Swipe apps and social media have now been around for long enough that most women under menopausal age now know that they can significantly increase the number of men chasing them by using both of them.

It's common to see a woman 32-42 years old who barely ever gets approached in real life have hundreds of men pursuing her between the swipe apps and Instagram.

A lot of women perceive tech-based methods as a great convenience. Why bother going out to a bar and interacting with men in-person when she can comfortably screen men at home without paying transportation or beauty product costs? A lot of this is solely a perception as women who arrange dates behind an electronic screen often waste years of their lives. These women have mainly "1-2 dates, no sex, no additional dates" type interactions with most men, and the occasional one night stand/situationship with top tier men. A lot of these women are actually seeking a commitment and they don't end up getting it.

It's great to have the abundance that women have (mostly supplied from tech-based methods) but a large percentage of women end up mismanaging their great abundance.

 

[obelisk]

Mismanagement. I think that's a great word for part of what is occurring with women currently. We aren't quite far enough along in the life cycle to see the end result of where these Millennial and Gen Z women truly end up. A lot of theory and guessing floats around here that these women will ultimately end up settling with a beta in their mid-30s before it's too late to have kids. I'm not entirely convinced of that.

I could see a bunch of women holding out and holding out longer and longer until it's too late to have kids.

 

[SW15]

Mismanagement. I think that's a great word for part of what is occurring with women currently. We aren't quite far enough along in the life cycle to see the end result of where these Millennial and Gen Z women truly end up. A lot of theory and guessing floats around here that these women will ultimately end up settling with a beta in their mid-30s before it's too late to have kids. I'm not entirely convinced of that.

I could see a bunch of women holding out and holding out longer and longer until it's too late to have kids.

We are getting far enough along to see what's happening with Older Millennials (1981-1989 births).

In my local area social circle (See "Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere" thread), I have observed 9 pregnancies since mid-2021. These are a bunch of mid-30s, upper middle class White women having their "Last Call" type babies. They are squeezing out their 1-2 "Last Call" type babies. While no one's social circle is a representative sample, I think what I am observing is reflective of a broader trend in bougie social circles.

Some women will find betas to have 1-2 "Last Call" type babies and others will stay riding the penis carousel too long and never have babies. Plenty of 1984-1989 born women (35-40 year olds in 2024) are on dating apps and getting hundreds of matches while barely ever getting approached in real life. The abundance that they still get from tech-based methods defies the traditional Manosphere idea of "The Wall". There are plenty of thirsty 1980s born betas who will pursue and commit to these 1984-1989 born women.

Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere! Life When Your Blue Pill Social Circle Starts Having Babies

Yesterday, I was on my Instagram and saw a pregnancy announcement from an acquaintance's wife in my social circle. I don't particularly like her. I find it annoying to be around her the 1-2 times a year I ever randomly see her in person. Right now, there are 3 women from my local area social...

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[MatureDJ]

We are getting far enough along to see what's happening with Older Millennials (1981-1989 births).

In my local area social circle (See "Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere" thread), I have observed 9 pregnancies since mid-2021. These are a bunch of mid-30s, upper middle class White women having their "Last Call" type babies. They are squeezing out their 1-2 "Last Call" type babies. While no one's social circle is a representative sample, I think what I am observing is reflective of a broader trend in bougie social circles.

Some women will find betas to have 1-2 "Last Call" type babies and others will stay riding the penis carousel too long and never have babies. Plenty of 1984-1989 born women (35-40 year olds in 2024) are on dating apps and getting hundreds of matches while barely ever getting approached in real life. The abundance that they still get from tech-based methods defies the traditional Manosphere idea of "The Wall". There are plenty of thirsty 1980s born betas who will pursue and commit to these 1984-1989 born women.

Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere! Life When Your Blue Pill Social Circle Starts Having Babies

Yesterday, I was on my Instagram and saw a pregnancy announcement from an acquaintance's wife in my social circle. I don't particularly like her. I find it annoying to be around her the 1-2 times a year I ever randomly see her in person. Right now, there are 3 women from my local area social...

www.sosuave.net

A chick that wants to get pregnant could simply tell her Chads that they have to do her raw, and but falsely claim that she's on birth control.

 

[SW15]

A chick that wants to get pregnant could simply tell her Chads that they have to do her raw, and but falsely claim that she's on birth control.

There is an Iron Rule of Tomassi about this.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

That means that men in the seduction lifestyle need to use condoms at all times.

 

[Bokanovsky]

If women had all the power, they would all be in relationships with "high value males" (which is what pretty much every woman ultimately wants). And yet, they are not. What women have is the illusion of power, not actual power. All those likes and messages on dating apps don't amount to much. It's kind of like politics, where in theory voters have all the power because they elect officials who promise to enact laws and implement policies to make voters' lives better. Of course, theory and reality are two different things.

 

[MatureDJ]

There is an Iron Rule of Tomassi about this.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

That means that men in the seduction lifestyle need to use condoms at all times.

If he doesn't want progeny from her.

 

[I_have_BDE]

This was only a 3 minute part of a 55 minute long video.

That woman is exactly correct and Better Bachelor acknowledged it. In the early stages of a mating interaction, women have all the power. A woman who uses swipe apps and/or is active on Instagram has so many options at any time. Swipe apps and social media have now been around for long enough that most women under menopausal age now know that they can significantly increase the number of men chasing them by using both of them.

It's common to see a woman 32-42 years old who barely ever gets approached in real life have hundreds of men pursuing her between the swipe apps and Instagram.

A lot of women perceive tech-based methods as a great convenience. Why bother going out to a bar and interacting with men in-person when she can comfortably screen men at home without paying transportation or beauty product costs? A lot of this is solely a perception as women who arrange dates behind an electronic screen often waste years of their lives. These women have mainly "1-2 dates, no sex, no additional dates" type interactions with most men, and the occasional one night stand/situationship with top tier men. A lot of these women are actually seeking a commitment and they don't end up getting it.

It's great to have the abundance that women have (mostly supplied from tech-based methods) but a large percentage of women end up mismanaging their great abundance.

Why is it on OLD most women are ugly now though? Even in the crappy demographics area I live in I still see hotter women IRL out and about.

 

[SW15]

If he doesn't want progeny from her.

I enjoy my childless life. My use of condoms is a reason for that.

Guys who never marry the woman who gives birth to their child often have baby mama drama. Many men do not enjoy co-parenting with an ex-wife either.

Why is it on OLD most women are ugly now though? Even in the crappy demographics area I live in I still see hotter women IRL out and about.

I'm not on the swipe apps. I enjoy my life without using swipe apps.

Women do hold the power in the early stages. After sex, they lose some bargaining power.

 

[MatureDJ]

If women had all the power, they would all be in relationships with "high value males" (which is what pretty much every woman ultimately wants). And yet, they are not. What women have is the illusion of power, not actual power. All those likes and messages on dating apps don't amount to much. It's kind of like politics, where in theory voters have all the power because they elect officials who promise to enact laws and implement policies to make voters' lives better. Of course, theory and reality are two different things.

Chief Justin make sense!

 

[The Duke]

Why is it on OLD most women are ugly now though?

The dating apps got busted too many times for fake profiles so they have removed them finally? Lol

 

[Solomon]

The point he is saying is there are no good women around for guys to date seriously since they are all hors. That is what people like @soulforge is also saying too in the other thread.

There are no good women for losers, men who are winning building, focused on their purpose are having the time of their lives!