Chick tells me, "you make my friend uncomfortable"

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This was a disco-bar in Eastern Europe. I had opened this group of 3 chicks (one was hot, but her biitch shield was like the shield around the Death Star), and I barely said anything to her friend (in fact the chick that told me this statement introduced me to the "uncomfortable" chick).

I suppose that it was possible that "uncomfortable" chick was pissed that I had barely spoken to her, but something tells me that she didn't want to make it look I was in her social circle. The "uncomfortable" chick was not fat, but she was rather hideous from her botox.

I should say that I was at this disco-bar as there was a Facebook group for Internationals that had its get-together there that week, and these chicks were not there for that. And yes, all the chicks were taller than me, probably even if they had not had heels.

It's OVER for MakesChickFeelUncomfortableCels.
 

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If the bitchshield broad has hideous botox, it's her not you. Obv she's got a reach exceeding her grasp if she's resorting to a botox addiction, or bitter about the botched job.

It's OVER for EurotoxDeathStarCels
 

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If the bitchshield broad has hideous botox, it's her not you. Obv she's got a reach exceeding her grasp if she's resorting to a botox addiction, or bitter about the botched job.

It's OVER for EurotoxDeathStarCels
No. the one I term the biitchshied chick did not have botox (the biitchshield one was the hot one).
 

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I had opened this group of 3 chicks (one was hot, but her biitch shield was like the shield around the Death Star), and I barely said anything to her friend (in fact the chick that told me this statement introduced me to the "uncomfortable" chick).
This sentence made *me* uncomfortable. Lol. So before I take some tylenol, the *third* chick who was neither hot nor uncomfortable "told you this statement"?

Any why would you open a group of 3 when 2/3 of them appear to be problematic?
 
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I’ll give you this, you’ve got balls, man. You wouldn’t ever catch me approaching a group of women. Ever. My ego is way too fragile and I’d find all sorts of excuses not to do it lol
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This sentence made *me* uncomfortable. Lol. So before I take some tylenol, the *third* chick who was neither hot nor uncomfortable "told you this statement"?

Any why would you open a group of 3 when 2/3 of them appear to be problematic?
There weren't any males talking to them, and like I had said, one was hot, and neither of the others looked problematic at the time - in fact one of the others looked Ukrainian (she said a lot of folks tell her that, LOL), and so I asked about that (it's always a good idea to try and build up social circles with women from a country with a male deficit :eek:).

Whenever I'm at a venue that is where this certain Facebook Group event takes place, I just presume that every woman there is there because of the Group, and I just go up to any woman that is attractive and doesn't have males around - heck, even if there are males around, I work myself into the conversation. Of course, the problem is that these Facebook Group events tend to be a bit sausage-festy. Maybe I've hit upon a new type of game: It'sANetworkEventAndI'mTalkingToEveryAttractiveChickHereGame. Now for this particular troika, I knew they weren't part of the Group, but I presumed it as a way to introduce myself.
 

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I’ll give you this, you’ve got balls, man. You wouldn’t ever catch me approaching a group of women. Ever. My ego is way too fragile and I’d find all sorts of excuses not to do it lol
If don't have the balls to approach, you might want to start hanging out at a different forum:
 

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Maybe you were subconsciously projecting resentment towards women and she felt it.
 

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This sentence made *me* uncomfortable. Lol. So before I take some tylenol, the *third* chick who was neither hot nor uncomfortable "told you this statement"?

Any why would you open a group of 3 when 2/3 of them appear to be problematic?
The hot chick told me that her friend - the one that had that hideous botox - said I made her uncomfortable. The physical lineup was me next to the botox chick, and the hot chick on the other side of the botox chick (the other chick was dancing with some older-looking gent). They were all taller than me.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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I don't know, I wasn't there. Not saying it is the case either. Just that not being successful and knowing female nature plus all the red meat available on this site and social media can make one resentful.
 

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Where is it written that you have to make 'chicks' comfortable? The sense of nervous anticipation just heightens the impact of the sex later, so she can be as uncomfortable as she wants to be.
 

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I think there are a new generation of people who struggle with in person communication so they feel uncomfortable when they get in social situations

i ran into something like this in the summer but chose not to post about it as i didnt want to repeat the bad memory. The guy who made a comment to me was basically trying to **** block me because he sucks at talking to women. It was ridiculous. He pulled that same line saying that “ i made his friends uncomfortable “
 

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Did you escortcel afterwards as you had an unlucky night?
 

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I’ll give you this, you’ve got balls, man. You wouldn’t ever catch me approaching a group of women. Ever. My ego is way too fragile and I’d find all sorts of excuses not to do it lol
Even when I'm drinking I'm still too afraid to approach a group of girls solo at the club so I can relate lol.
 
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