Chick says settling is a "slow death of your spirit"

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I'm sure she's an excellent starfish-sex partner, at least when she doesn't have a "headache". :rolleyes:
 

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The woman from that video looks like she was born in the 1990s. For women born in the 1980s-1990s, the idea of settling is considered disgusting.

Feminism has been telling women to "Never Settle!" since the 2nd Wave (1960s-1980s feminism). Gen Y/Millennials (1981-1996 births) were the first generation that truly took that message to heart. That's why marriage rates and fertility rates have been so much lower for the Gen Y/Millennial group, especially the White women with bachelor's degrees + from that generation.
 

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Dude, stop watching this videos and go outside.
Yep, Go outside...walk your dog, it's Spring and close to summer....buy an Ice cream or a Frosty from Sonics or something and enjoy the fresh air at a Park or at a nice scenery somewhere........Go sit down at a bench somewhere and ' Go fishing' and go wait and scope out some hot babes passing by and say hello
 

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Chick says settling is a "slow death of your spirit"


She's correct. That's why you work hard and don't settle for less than you believe you are worth. The important part is that you earn it.
 

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Dude, stop watching this videos and go outside.
Hi taijuu,
Were he able to chew through the leather thongs that bind him to the bedposts of a rather ugly svex crazed Asian Dowager Princess,he would gladly join you and your old Dog on a walk in the Park.
 

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When someone 'settles', what that means is that the things you like about someone marginally exceeds those things you do not like. Over time, those things you do not like become bigger, and those things you do like become expectations.

Gratitude drops: dissatisfaction increases.

This is why men need to make sure that the woman they attach themselves to, from the start are nuts about them.... because over time attraction and interest will drop over time. If you fall for a woman that is just 'settling' for you, you are in for emotional pain. You do this by setting aside your ego, and evaluate a woman on her actions. If you never find this woman... don't sweat it... you are better off alone than chained to a chick that blames you because she settled.
 
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