Chick on the "Rebound" after having a restaining order on LT BF

[Elimidate]

Here's the scoop:

I have a very high interest level from a HB 8.5.

She just broke up with her LT BF becasue he became majorly possessive to the extent she had to placed a restraining order.

I was aquintances with the previous BF and he seemd like a good guy but who really knows. I know I could take her up on her offers to go places and then have her chase me.

She''s already seen the other side of the spectrum from the BF who wouldn't leave her alone so I'm in a good position.

However, the last thing I want her to expect is for me to be the emotional tampon in her mind and Dr. Phil her past drama.

Any advice, this is something totally new to me.


Thanks,

Elimidate

 

[WaterTiger]

He "seems" like a nice guy? They say that about ALL serial killers! ( He was such a nice, quite man who kept to himself)

He's obviously mad at her, and wants her back. He has made her frightened enough to get a court order to keep him away from her. That means the police AGREE that he might be dangerous.

Do you want to be humping the woman of a man the police think is dangerous? Do you want to be there when he comes over to talk?

I think I'd avoid the situation. Maybe I watch too many TV Crime shows...but this is how all the double murders start out.

 

[becker]

This girl that I'm after seems to have had a pretty insecure AFC BF for 3 years before they broke up because his jealousy just got out of control. I'm going to do everything in my power to never be like that no matter how much I like the girl. Luckily I'm not too jealous by nature because I'm not having too much trouble with women. I'm sure many guys who are insecure also struggle to attract women, which is probably the source of their insecurity.

I found out yesterday that he still gives her clothes and stuff because he wants her back. He works at one of those trendy stores, like Abercrombie. She says there's no way she's taking him back, but she accepts the gifts. I don't know about this girl. She's hot as hell though, and no doubt has guys after her all day. So many freakin' issues though, it's borderline fiction.

Red flag?

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by WaterTiger
He "seems" like a nice guy? They say that about ALL serial killers! ( He was such a nice, quite man who kept to himself)

He's obviously mad at her, and wants her back. He has made her frightened enough to get a court order to keep him away from her. That means the police AGREE that he might be dangerous.

Do you want to be humping the woman of a man the police think is dangerous?

That's superstition. I seem like a nice guy too, I didn't kill anyone.

BTW: the police don't think. It's easy to get a restraining order when you're a girl. All you have to do is to create some drama.

Do you want to be there when he comes over to talk?

ROFL and violate the restraining order? I don't think so.

I think I'd avoid the situation. Maybe I watch too many TV Crime shows...but this is how all the double murders start out.

I agree with the crime shows part.

What I'd watch out for is the HB herself. If your relationship goes sour she might get a restraining order on you too. Bye bye clean record.

You don't know what actually happened. I know a few chicks who hated their BFs and got restraining orders just to mess up their lives.

Cheers