MatureDJ
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“My Boyfriend is a Sperm Donor and I Can’t Get Over It”
"I just learned that my 30-year-old boyfriend donated sperm after college for money, and could have dozens of biological kids out there."
dearwendy.com
I’ve done the research and some guys have 50 or more kids since not all banks are well-regulated. At 18 these biological children can request to have access to my boyfriend. I can only imagine they would want to have a connection with their biological father. Many do. I’m a very private person and would not be comfortable with strangers exerting some sort of claim to my partner and my future family. I know he didn’t cheat on me, but it somehow feels like he did. I can’t stop wondering every time I see a kid that looks a bit like him, and it makes me sad for some reason.