Chick I had a serious thing for that I accepted the "L" for and moved on regardless.

[9Volt]

Hot chick. VERY hot. Half Korean, half Irish. long black hair down to her azz. Perfect smooth legs, thin with a sweet gym azz. Very pretty chick with light almond eyes. Every dude I knew had the hots for her. Always talked with the chick as we worked in the same place, she gave me her number, but I'd been busy with work and never hit her up outside etc. At times heard her talk about her "friend" which I assumed was a FWB/ boyfriend. One time she suggested meeting up near where she lived as I go there a lot for seafood. Later on down the line she told me twice to text her. First time I'm thinking ok you could just text me. Second time I'm like ok perhaps the chick wants the dude to text her first. So I hit her up with small talk.

I had a thing I was going to with a friend and his girl and asked her if she wanted to come. I knew straight away she had no plans to go as when I told her I could pick her up as the texts were going back and forth they suddenly stopped on her end and she gave me the "I'll let you know" which from the stopped text for like 15 minutes and then the "I'll let you know" it double confirmed she wasn't going.

A week went by and I heard nothing from her nor expected to. Just before the day came she actually sounded sick but came up and said "I'm sick" to which I said Ok feel better. It was a real "excuse" but then again anyone with common sense would know the chick just gave a legit excuse. I went with friends regardless. Next day she came up and asked me how it was and I said we had a great time.

Later on I decided to give the chick one last chance and asked her to something else I was doing yet got no response. Needless to say I deleted her number and moved on with life.

Moral of the story: Sometimes you're going to "lose" in life yet win regardless IF you have your own life and accept others have theirs and they just might not really be into you like that.

 

[Roober]

You didn't lose anything. She did

 

[Milano]

Yeah I got "Im sick" also, thats a number right in the bin. If they have anything resembling a humane creature they at least come up with a crap story about how her dog died and her grandpa got in a car accident and her mom has cancer and she hopes for a second chance with you, but that pretty little "Im sick." Nah, garbage, done dealio, delete.

Last one I got was this, "I cant come, dont have time". FUNNY thing is, she was upset and wondered a few months later where I had been? haha, they still want the attention but dont understand they are acting like royal cnts. Found out later she went out with a guy I know at work and they had nice drunk s3x without a condom.

So try to think about your own dignity when they decline you disrespectfully, the SAME DAY when they are "sick" or "dont have time" they are having lots of time, just with some other loser. Drop them skanks asap

 

[btownbuck2012]

Yeah I got "Im sick" also, thats a number right in the bin. If they have anything resembling a humane creature they at least come up with a crap story about how her dog died and her grandpa got in a car accident and her mom has cancer and she hopes for a second chance with you, but that pretty little "Im sick." Nah, garbage, done dealio, delete.

Last one I got was this, "I cant come, dont have time". FUNNY thing is, she was upset and wondered a few months later where I had been? haha, they still want the attention but dont understand they are acting like royal cnts. Found out later she went out with a guy I know at work and they had nice drunk s3x without a condom.

So try to think about your own dignity when they decline you disrespectfully, the SAME DAY when they are "sick" or "dont have time" they are having lots of time, just with some other loser. Drop them skanks asap

What I find interesting is how these same women, when their interest level is high will profusely apologize and offer another day that they're free when they do genuinely have high interest and legitimately can't make a date. But yeah, once the interest level drops so do the manners and that's even after you've banged them. It's like they are so lost and caught up in this utter fantasy world that tons of male attention has created for them that they can't even put forth the slightest effort in nexting a guy who they have already been intimate with with some respect. I just can't imagine that this type of behavior won't bite them in the ass in some way shape or form down the line. But as we all know, we can't worry about that and we just have to move on.

 

[Milano]

What I find interesting is how these same women, when their interest level is high will profusely apologize and offer another day that they're free when they do genuinely have high interest and legitimately can't make a date. But yeah, once the interest level drops so do the manners and that's even after you've banged them. It's like they are so lost and caught up in this utter fantasy world that tons of male attention has created for them that they can't even put forth the slightest effort in nexting a guy who they have already been intimate with with some respect. I just can't imagine that this type of behavior won't bite them in the ass in some way shape or forum down the line. But as we all know, we can't worry about that and we just have to move on.

Yeah I just came home from the cinema with a girl I have layed a few times but she doesnt have feelings for me and I was stupid and thought I could play cool and it would eventually happen. She just rejected another sleep over and I came home with that ugly gut feeling lol

Should have deleted her months ago, but she seemed so inexperienced and innocent, not like the usual sluts so I got feelings. Man, those feelings have absolutely no use in todays society.

Makes me think of a quote from RSD Tyler when talking about guys getting onitis and how they convince themselves about a girl being special: "No, you dont understand, I REALLY like this girl." Might as well say "Im REALLY not gonna fock this girl" lol

 

[9Volt]

Yeah I got "Im sick" also, thats a number right in the bin. If they have anything resembling a humane creature they at least come up with a crap story about how her dog died and her grandpa got in a car accident and her mom has cancer and she hopes for a second chance with you, but that pretty little "Im sick." Nah, garbage, done dealio, delete.

Last one I got was this, "I cant come, dont have time". FUNNY thing is, she was upset and wondered a few months later where I had been? haha, they still want the attention but dont understand they are acting like royal cnts. Found out later she went out with a guy I know at work and they had nice drunk s3x without a condom.

So try to think about your own dignity when they decline you disrespectfully, the SAME DAY when they are "sick" or "dont have time" they are having lots of time, just with some other loser. Drop them skanks asap

Hilarious shyt was with the chick I was talking about she actually WAS sick when she walked past to tell me she was sick. That wasn't the issue. The issue was right off the bat when I was asking if she'd like to go she stalled in texting back for like 10 minutes. In that time I knew she wasn't going. She "confirmed" she wasn't going soon as she replied "I'll let you know". Which basically means NO.

On one hand I really liked the chick and we'd been bsing at work for a while. When she told me twice in two weeks to text her I'm thinking ok maybe the chick might want me to make a move. But then again all it was about was attention. Probably needed her ego stroked or some shyt as she had something going on that was shaky with some other dude. No other explanation since after she excused herself from coming along.

It kindof sucked at the time but I knew soon after I was better off without the chick as let's face it. Those "losses" can end up being the gain we may never realize.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Yeah I just came home from the cinema with a girl I have layed a few times but she doesnt have feelings for me and I was stupid and thought I could play cool and it would eventually happen. She just rejected another sleep over and I came home with that ugly gut feeling lol.

I think that's the strongest skank giveaway right there. Women who can stay detached or drop you in an instant after sex are mega *****s who have totally disassociated sex with any type of meaning or connection.

 

[9Volt]

What I find interesting is how these same women, when their interest level is high will profusely apologize and offer another day that they're free when they do genuinely have high interest and legitimately can't make a date. But yeah, once the interest level drops so do the manners and that's even after you've banged them. It's like they are so lost and caught up in this utter fantasy world that tons of male attention has created for them that they can't even put forth the slightest effort in nexting a guy who they have already been intimate with with some respect. I just can't imagine that this type of behavior won't bite them in the ass in some way shape or form down the line. But as we all know, we can't worry about that and we just have to move on.

Funny enough the next day when I saw her and she asked me how the event was she looked kind of shocked that I went. I was standing there thinking: "You didn't actually think that my going or these plans were dependent on you did you? LMAO"

 

[btownbuck2012]

Funny enough the next day when I saw her and she asked me how the event was she looked kind of shocked that I went. I was standing there thinking: "You didn't actually think that my going or these plans were dependent on you did you? LMAO"

Brother, I know that feeling. The arrogance and self centeredness of some of these women is just jaw dropping. And again it all comes back to male attention. They get so much of it they really do start believing they are God's gift and the best thing since sliced bread, even dumpy chicks.

 

[9Volt]

Brother, I know that feeling. The arrogance and self centeredness of some of these women is just jaw dropping. And again it all comes back to male attention. They get so much of it they really do start believing they are God's gift and the best thing since sliced bread, even dumpy chicks.

To be honest I probably wasn't her type. She gave me the vibe she's into the tatted up dudes.

She had a few of her own which is a complete turnoff but the chick was smoking hot and pretty cool.

Also was a weed smoker/ drinker and I'd heard from some other dude we worked with her parents had a bad marriage. Probably dodged a bullet but if a chick's hot enough they get so many dudes tripping over themselves for them they could care less about you. Knowing that and living my own life if some chick is like that I could care less about her to. Makes zero sense to chase or even waste your time with non-interested chicks, flakes, users, or plain toxic types. They can keep it movin IMO I don't care how "hot" they are. No joke.

 

[AttackFormation]

Brother, I know that feeling. The arrogance and self centeredness of some of these women is just jaw dropping. And again it all comes back to male attention. They get so much of it they really do start believing they are God's gift and the best thing since sliced bread, even dumpy chicks.

I think the level of supplication and validation that women receive today from OLD + social media + nights out + daily life (like this story right here, of stringing a guy along at work) combined with an absence of consequences and accountability creates pathology. The human mind just wasn't made for these conditions, and when the women are exposed to them it's like taking crack. It screws with their brains. It doesn't matter if she's short, tall, hot, average, fat, slim, whatever. Yes hot women receive the most attention, but all women except truly ugly ones receive some amount of easy attention and it goes to their heads.

 

[9Volt]

Brother, I know that feeling. The arrogance and self centeredness of some of these women is just jaw dropping. And again it all comes back to male attention. They get so much of it they really do start believing they are God's gift and the best thing since sliced bread, even dumpy chicks.

I look at it with chicks same with friends or anyone. They're no different. If I'm going someplace or think of a place I want to go those who are going are going. Those who aren't don't need to. My plans and going are already in motion. I treat chicks no different.

I never set up a meet or date to anyplace dependent on some chick. If it's a restaurant I want to try and she can't make it? I'll go with friends or by myself. You'd be surprised how shocked some of them seem when you go despite them and don't ask them again. I've done that with on the fence friends when they didn't have much going on but tried to make things dependent on them anyway. I left and went where I was going.

 

[9Volt]

I think the level of supplication and validation that women receive today from OLD + social media + nights out + daily life (like this story right here, of stringing a guy along at work) combined with an absence of consequences and accountability creates pathology. The human mind just wasn't made for these conditions, and when the women are exposed to them it's like taking crack. It screws with their brains.

IMO the chick was most likely involved with some FWB or some shyt that she probably wanted more from. Felt like shyt and decided that I would be the dude to stroke her ego. She found out different when my plans weren't dependent on her and I stopped bothering with her.

 

[AttackFormation]

IMO the chick was most likely involved with some FWB or some shyt that she probably wanted more from. Felt like shyt and decided that I would be the dude to stroke her ego. She found out different when my plans weren't dependent on her and I stopped bothering with her.

That brings me to something I've said before here, which is that women always (or I guess I should say "nearly" to avoid b!tching about how some guy's latest oneitis isn't like that) have other guys in the picture, in some way or another. Especially if she is active on OLD and/or social media.

 

[9Volt]

That brings me to something I've said before here, which is that women always (or I guess I should say "nearly" to avoid b!tching about how some guy's latest oneitis isn't like that) have other guys in the picture, in some way or another.

Though my, your or anyone's lives shouldn't be dependent on that. They've got their lives to live we got ours.

 

[Milano]

To be honest I probably wasn't her type. She gave me the vibe she's into the tatted up dudes.

She had a few of her own which is a complete turnoff but the chick was smoking hot and pretty cool.

Also was a weed smoker/ drinker and I'd heard from some other dude we worked with her parents had a bad marriage. Probably dodged a bullet but if a chick's hot enough they get so many dudes tripping over themselves for them they could care less about you. Knowing that and living my own life if some chick is like that I could care less about her to. Makes zero sense to chase or even waste your time with non-interested chicks, flakes, users, or plain toxic types. They can keep it movin IMO I don't care how "hot" they are. No joke.

I would love for anyone on this forum to find an attractive woman with tattoos that is a cute girl and not a slut. I have never seen one in my life, even girls with the smallest cutest tattoos I have seen being major sluts wtf lol.

Also, watch out for girls with piercing through the cl1t, also major red flag.

Edit: Really guys, I cant type cl1t without it being censored? What is wrong with this world lol

 

[Milano]

What do people get from deleting a phone number? Isn't deleting a phone equivalent to answering a nameless call and saying who is this? Who here blocks numbers instead?

You are doing it for your own good, self respect. Its like a ritual I guess, for keeping dough in the swagger account.

I am not sure when people say they delete a phone number if it means that they also delete this person from facebook as a friend and snapchat cause that really has a cool effect you should try out. If everyone did this after being rejected several times then we would teach women that there is a consequence to behaving like a royal cnt. What happens instead is that a woman gets to cherry pick ANY man she wants pretty much at any time she feels like it because men are so damn desperate they are willing to wait for years for a woman on facebook. I have sisters, you wouldnt belive how many YEARS guys wait and hope for girls to find time for them (probably after they got s3x) She had to get children for them to actually to stop trying. Desperation is unreal on their facebook and they love it.

 

[9Volt]

What do people get from deleting a phone number? Isn't deleting a phone equivalent to answering a nameless call and saying who is this? Who here blocks numbers instead?

Not just deleting off the cuff just knowing when to cut a loss and not waste your time.

they go their way and I go mine.

 

[JJMcLure]

You shouldn't have a "serious thing" for any girl you and not already having sex with, although if that's your way of saying you think she's really hot then that's different.

She gave you her number. Told you to text her twice. Suggested meeting up near her place. Doesn't mention a boyfriend, although you heard her mention a friend. Those are positive signs. If invitations like that are not acted on a girl assumes the guy not interested (and it will affect their ego, they are not used to rejection like guys).

So she said she is interested in meeting up with you near her place and you don't know her exact situation but she might have wanted to be discreet depending on what the situation with this "friend" is. However you then asked her out on a double date, presumably not "near her place" as she suggested, but not one on one as she might have had in mind.

She might have wanted a no strings hookup. Even if she didn't that would be the mindset to have gone in with. Now this is a different perspective to the one above assuming she just wanted attention, but every girl gets fvcked by someone.

 

[Roober]

What do people get from deleting a phone number? Isn't deleting a phone equivalent to answering a nameless call and saying who is this? Who here blocks numbers instead?

Girl's don't get in my contact list until we have had sex. Without sex, they are just a number!

I also put little tips to myself in the convo, like "being a teacher, I bet those 5-years old drive you crazy". If she drops and comes back, I can remind myself everything I need to know about her.