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Master Don Juan
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OK...I'm spinning plates with three girls. Maybe a 4th if I play my cards right. One of things I notice is that more you spin plates, the less time you have to pay attention to all of them, thus making you seem like you don't care, which drives them crazy.
So anyways, this one girl has a boyfriend. She is 25 and I'm 34. The thing is that her boyfriend lives two states away and travels, so she has Skype dates with this guy to make up for lost time. Yeah, that sounds like it's really going to last.
When I first met her, I thought she was sort of cute. We talked a little online and I secured a wine/movie date with her. Total FZ stuff, at least, that's how I came off to her. A few weeks later, her and I meet up and have coffee and have this long, drawn out conversation about relationships. I really showed myself and painted myself as valuable.
A week passes and I ask to meet her for dinner. I call her, she doesn't answer. She flakes and texts me that she can't. I don't respond.
My birthday was this past week, she texts me a birthday greeting and I tell her thanks...nothing more. This week, she starts liking my Facebook photos, posts, etc, but she can see that I have another girl who is blowing up my wall with sweet stuff and compliments. I am now valuable, but I'm giving her nothing back.
She just texted me tonight to talk about Boston Marathon tragedy....I haven't responded at all.
Now, it might be time to make a move and get this girl out of the friend zone.
Or --- what is girl trying to do with me if she has a boyfriend already?
Advice?
So anyways, this one girl has a boyfriend. She is 25 and I'm 34. The thing is that her boyfriend lives two states away and travels, so she has Skype dates with this guy to make up for lost time. Yeah, that sounds like it's really going to last.
When I first met her, I thought she was sort of cute. We talked a little online and I secured a wine/movie date with her. Total FZ stuff, at least, that's how I came off to her. A few weeks later, her and I meet up and have coffee and have this long, drawn out conversation about relationships. I really showed myself and painted myself as valuable.
A week passes and I ask to meet her for dinner. I call her, she doesn't answer. She flakes and texts me that she can't. I don't respond.
My birthday was this past week, she texts me a birthday greeting and I tell her thanks...nothing more. This week, she starts liking my Facebook photos, posts, etc, but she can see that I have another girl who is blowing up my wall with sweet stuff and compliments. I am now valuable, but I'm giving her nothing back.
She just texted me tonight to talk about Boston Marathon tragedy....I haven't responded at all.
Now, it might be time to make a move and get this girl out of the friend zone.
Or --- what is girl trying to do with me if she has a boyfriend already?
Advice?