Chick blocked me on instagram.

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Made friend with this cute army chick on instagram. Im friends with her on Facebook. A single mother whom I thought had another dude in the background. I guess I was careless and got too relaxed with my comments . I was laying down while messaging her on IG.

Me: Hey are you married? Just wondering.

Her: No

Me: oh ok. Thought you had a significant other.

Her: ( Blocks me)

Me: Hey, Im sorry for offending you, let’s start all over.

Lesson learned. Never get too personal real soon, always keep it casual and start off with a ‘ hey or hi’. I texted and apologized to her on Instant messenger, let’s hope she answers back.

This chick is latina, real fit and athletic lol. Loves to post work out selfie of herself on social media, I get back to the states in Thanksgiving, so would like to get a special friendship out of this one at the very least.
 

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She blocked you dude, find another Latina to be friend on social media. Don’t chase
 

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Don't even waste time on this one. She sounds like a real snob if she blocks you for asking a simple question. But if that's all you messaged her about (you suggest that you didn't even say hey or hi), then yeah, that's not the right way to go about it right off the bat. With anyone really. That's way too forward and personal when first meeting someone.
 

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sounds like maybe she was married or something if she responded that poorly to being asked. Yeah, don't waste time on that one, she'll make your life miserable if you do happen to get her.
 

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Why would you say you thought she had a significant other when she said no? Would that not make someone feel bad? Also you are here long enough to know in demand chicks always have guys in the background, exes, boyfriends, etc..... There is no such thing as a truely single woman like men are single.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Why would you say you thought she had a significant other when she said no? Would that not make someone feel bad? Also you are here long enough to know in demand chicks always have guys in the background, exes, boyfriends, etc..... There is no such thing as a truely single woman like men are single.
True. But I was wondering IF she was married. I sometimes see some middle age dude in her pics with her kids on facebook.

Being married is a deal breaker for me, I don’t want to deal with the drama.
 

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Made friend with this cute army chick on instagram. Im friends with her on Facebook. A single mother whom I thought had another dude in the background. I guess I was careless and got too relaxed with my comments . I was laying down while messaging her on IG.

Me: Hey are you married? Just wondering.

Her: No

Me: oh ok. Thought you had a significant other.

Her: ( Blocks me)

Me: Hey, Im sorry for offending you, let’s start all over.

Lesson learned. Never get too personal real soon, always keep it casual and start off with a ‘ hey or hi’. I texted and apologized to her on Instant messenger, let’s hope she answers back.

This chick is latina, real fit and athletic lol. Loves to post work out selfie of herself on social media, I get back to the states in Thanksgiving, so would like to get a special friendship out of this one at the very least.
Is she cooperating? No
So why deal with the biatch?
 

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It takes a lot more to get blocked than this, she may of blocked you because she wasn't single, told you she was, then got cold feet and blocked or knew a guy who asks this question isn't right to cheat with
 

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True. But I was wondering IF she was married. I sometimes see some middle age dude in her pics with her kids on facebook.

Being married is a deal breaker for me, I don’t want to deal with the drama.
But you then asked or implied to ask if she had any significant other and/or sounded surprized she did not.

Anyway one of the basic rules of game is to avoid the serious talk unless there is some rapport with the lady and she likes you. Can you imagine a cold approach where you ask people if they are married as the opener then you say "you should be"?
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Made friend with this cute army chick on instagram. Im friends with her on Facebook. A single mother whom I thought had another dude in the background.
Single mothers always have a dude in the background. The dad.

And you didn't "make friends" with her. She obviously had very, very low interest in you. The instant you gave your interaction a man/woman context, that was her exit. There was nothing remotely offensive or insulting about what you said. She simply had zero interest in interacting with you.

Simping after Instahos is very low-value behavior.

Is there any part of you that believes, that after blocking you, reaching out to her in other ways and apologizing to her will make her want to sleep with you?
 

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Simping after Instahos is very low-value behavior.

Is there any part of you that believes, that after blocking you, reaching out to her in other ways and apologizing to her will make her want to sleep with you?

Yes Im guilty of this, these past few weeks. I've been simping after these instahos a few times, glancing at their pics especially at night lol.

Look I'm just pretty rusty with this. I haven't been going out of the house these past few weeks and just kept to myself, I gotta just put myself out there. Maybe a weekend in Austin when I get back, go to 6th street and approach a couple of ladies with a wing man.
 

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Yes Im guilty of this, these past few weeks. I've been simping after these instahos a few times, glancing at their pics especially at night lol.

Look I'm just pretty rusty with this. I haven't been going out of the house these past few weeks and just kept to myself, I gotta just put myself out there. Maybe a weekend in Austin when I get back, go to 6th street and approach a couple of ladies with a wing man.
Or maybe move to Austin? Put yourself in a high-target environment.
 

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This chick is latina, real fit and athletic lol. Loves to post work out selfie of herself on social media, I get back to the states in Thanksgiving, so would like to get a special friendship out of this one at the very least.
Your Simping , she has no respect for you , scoop your balls up and move on
 

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Made friend with this cute army chick on instagram. Im friends with her on Facebook. A single mother whom I thought had another dude in the background. I guess I was careless and got too relaxed with my comments . I was laying down while messaging her on IG.

Me: Hey are you married? Just wondering.

Her: No

Me: oh ok. Thought you had a significant other.

Her: ( Blocks me)

Me: Hey, Im sorry for offending you, let’s start all over.

Lesson learned. Never get too personal real soon, always keep it casual and start off with a ‘ hey or hi’. I texted and apologized to her on Instant messenger, let’s hope she answers back.

This chick is latina, real fit and athletic lol. Loves to post work out selfie of herself on social media, I get back to the states in Thanksgiving, so would like to get a special friendship out of this one at the very least.


You never even met yet. Don't stress it. Online chicks will next new guys over nothing.
 

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Well I guess your question about if she would be receptive to your advances was answered. So anyway, moving along.....
 
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