So in my recent travels I reunited with an old friend from high school. she showed me around her town and introduced me to her sisters. One of them (the youngest one) age 23 is really cute but had a bf at the time. I didnt initiate anything since she was pretty hung up on her bf, but we spent a lot of time together and formed a close friendship. She recently broke up with her bf and she called me to tell me that she wants to come to Miami and work for 3 months and if she could stay at my place. Her parents have given her permission to come and now she’s looking for a plane ticket. I told her she’s more than welcome to come. But not sure if it would be the right idea. If she’s here I’m obviously gonna want to escalate things and in 3 months a lot can happen. However things are still in fiend zone. Thoughts ?
Think with your head first and as
@Billtx49 mentioned, set the logistics and expectations.
If your agenda is to bang this girl and your approach to this is that it might be easier if she lives with you then you're thinking with your penis. And as we all know, it often leads us astray.
Keep in mind that she will be in Miami regardless so you can still kick it with her and escalate. You don't need her living with you to do that. But if on the other hand you truly want to help her out then as mentioned, set the logistics first then take it from there.
Lastly, 3 months is a long time. Keep that in mind. I've had girls I connected really well with but after spending a weekend together I wanted to run for the hills.
Once she is moved in and if things get weird you'll feel inhibited in your own home aka your sanctuary.
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