justjosh47
Don Juan
This girl I knows guy wrote this on his Myspace page ...complete afc material , he does not even know me and he lives half way across the ****ry and was trying to tell my girlfriend that was a drugy because I smoke an accessional cigar.
Keep in mind this guy is twentythree and pretty much has no life .
ettiquette on how to treat a lady ladies please correct me if Im wrong
Current mood: content
first and foremost, I want to put any claim that may be going around about men lol certain jerks out there have given us guys a bad wrap, because of their crude, macho, and selfish attitudes and disrespectful nature towards women. I am writing this blog to tell you ladies that not all guys ( I shouldnt even call the above men they are more like childeren) are this way and I am putting to rest all things that pertain to how a woman is SUPPOSED to be treated. First off a woman is not a peice of meat, therfore stop looking at them like they are. Second they are not animals so stop making yourself look like one while hollaring out the window yelling "Hey baby" at the top of your lungs like you are giving some kind of mating call that sound absolutely rediculous. You are a human being start acting like one. Second a woman isnt there to be a footstoole for you, they are not here to walk behind you or in front of you ( ladies ) but beside you, stop thinking you are better than the other, and like you are something special and you deserve something from her, cuz in reality more than likely you are selfish and only care about yourself and what you can get from her. Thirdly, Love is not a feeling its a choice and being selfcentered and rude is not love, love is not selfseeking its just the opposite it is giving all you have away for the person you are with time , love , energy , ect. again its not about you, and what you can get, its what can I give without expecting anything in return? Agape Love is unconditional love, do it simply for the fact you know they love it, and it will brighten her day. Simply, drop off a bouquette of flowers at her work without saying a word and leaving so that she can spend the whole day at work thinking about how much you care about her and not get a kiss right then like hey look at me I did something nice now kiss me, just give it, and let her enjoy it trust me it will work out better for you in the long run. Make her dinner one night, have everything ready for her when she comes home( house cleaned dishes washed .... I know thats a lot to ask, but the woman you are with is more wonderful than any flower you can find on this earth..... and if you really truly mean when you say that you love her it would be well worth it just to see the smile on her face when she gets home and sees what you have done just for her)pull out her chair for her when she goes to sit down at the table and push her in and serve her dinner so that she doesnt have to do anything but relax. Then give her a foot massage after her long day at work. Hold the door for her if you get there first ... and only if she is willing to accept it , knowing and respecting the fact that she can and is perfectly capable of doing it herself but that you simply want to do something to make her life easier. When you are with her dont kiss her every 2 seconds or grope her every 5 seconds, try this go on a date take her to a fancy restaurant, and go for a walk under the stars at night without kissing her or even so much as holding her hand, but simply walking beside her and talking with her, making sure to look her in the eyes, or at least in her direction and (above the shoulder) to let her know you are truly interested in what she has to say, and really listen , not be so eager to get your word in........ How much do you just simply enjoy listening to the sound of her voice? Something else too is to take a portable radio and go somewhere thats quiet where you can see the stars and moonlight and just be alone completely, and dance with her under the stars to some classical music( when I say dancing I mean the way they did it in the olden days one hand on the side and the other holding her hand out to the side..... she will melt I promise lol. My dad did something that sticks with me that I am really honored to say that he is my father by this and something I learned myself.......... My dad drove 3 or 4 hours into the mountains just so that he could take my mother on a picnic that make me just about cry..... gentlemen, how far are you willing to go , how much are you willing to sacrafice, to make your love for the woman you say you love an action, and not just words? You dont expect them to do anything for you, you do things for them that will make them WANT to do those things. The bible says the woman is the glory of and shines the man, so if something is wrong in your relationship and there is something you dont like about her, guesswhat lol gentlemen its your fault lol hows that for a punch to the ego, so if you want her to do something for you, and if there are problems in your relationship you need to start figuring out what it is you are doing. Also, I know pet names are fun and even sometimes can tell the person how much you care, but she has a name boys, use it sometimes because a name is what makes a person unique an individual, special, it feels good when the man you love speaks to you by using your name doesnt it ladies, and when he says I love you .......... and your name it makes it so much more meaningful, cuz its directed to you as a person an individual.... who you are, and you alone. Last and certainly not least, respect her..... and I dont just mean not to treat her like a dog, that should be a given, but I mean she has opinions, wants desires, dreams views, respect them and encourage them, listen to them, care for them just simply because she does. In closing I will say boys and ask you ladies treat a woman like this and it will make a relationship so strong not even the winds could seperate it, a love so strong, not even the most difficult of trials in life could brake it, for love is not a feeling it is a CHOICE. So choose wisely, and go in the peace love and strength of the lord Jesus Christ cuz he loves you all like this.
God Bless,
Keep in mind this guy is twentythree and pretty much has no life .
ettiquette on how to treat a lady ladies please correct me if Im wrong
Current mood: content
first and foremost, I want to put any claim that may be going around about men lol certain jerks out there have given us guys a bad wrap, because of their crude, macho, and selfish attitudes and disrespectful nature towards women. I am writing this blog to tell you ladies that not all guys ( I shouldnt even call the above men they are more like childeren) are this way and I am putting to rest all things that pertain to how a woman is SUPPOSED to be treated. First off a woman is not a peice of meat, therfore stop looking at them like they are. Second they are not animals so stop making yourself look like one while hollaring out the window yelling "Hey baby" at the top of your lungs like you are giving some kind of mating call that sound absolutely rediculous. You are a human being start acting like one. Second a woman isnt there to be a footstoole for you, they are not here to walk behind you or in front of you ( ladies ) but beside you, stop thinking you are better than the other, and like you are something special and you deserve something from her, cuz in reality more than likely you are selfish and only care about yourself and what you can get from her. Thirdly, Love is not a feeling its a choice and being selfcentered and rude is not love, love is not selfseeking its just the opposite it is giving all you have away for the person you are with time , love , energy , ect. again its not about you, and what you can get, its what can I give without expecting anything in return? Agape Love is unconditional love, do it simply for the fact you know they love it, and it will brighten her day. Simply, drop off a bouquette of flowers at her work without saying a word and leaving so that she can spend the whole day at work thinking about how much you care about her and not get a kiss right then like hey look at me I did something nice now kiss me, just give it, and let her enjoy it trust me it will work out better for you in the long run. Make her dinner one night, have everything ready for her when she comes home( house cleaned dishes washed .... I know thats a lot to ask, but the woman you are with is more wonderful than any flower you can find on this earth..... and if you really truly mean when you say that you love her it would be well worth it just to see the smile on her face when she gets home and sees what you have done just for her)pull out her chair for her when she goes to sit down at the table and push her in and serve her dinner so that she doesnt have to do anything but relax. Then give her a foot massage after her long day at work. Hold the door for her if you get there first ... and only if she is willing to accept it , knowing and respecting the fact that she can and is perfectly capable of doing it herself but that you simply want to do something to make her life easier. When you are with her dont kiss her every 2 seconds or grope her every 5 seconds, try this go on a date take her to a fancy restaurant, and go for a walk under the stars at night without kissing her or even so much as holding her hand, but simply walking beside her and talking with her, making sure to look her in the eyes, or at least in her direction and (above the shoulder) to let her know you are truly interested in what she has to say, and really listen , not be so eager to get your word in........ How much do you just simply enjoy listening to the sound of her voice? Something else too is to take a portable radio and go somewhere thats quiet where you can see the stars and moonlight and just be alone completely, and dance with her under the stars to some classical music( when I say dancing I mean the way they did it in the olden days one hand on the side and the other holding her hand out to the side..... she will melt I promise lol. My dad did something that sticks with me that I am really honored to say that he is my father by this and something I learned myself.......... My dad drove 3 or 4 hours into the mountains just so that he could take my mother on a picnic that make me just about cry..... gentlemen, how far are you willing to go , how much are you willing to sacrafice, to make your love for the woman you say you love an action, and not just words? You dont expect them to do anything for you, you do things for them that will make them WANT to do those things. The bible says the woman is the glory of and shines the man, so if something is wrong in your relationship and there is something you dont like about her, guesswhat lol gentlemen its your fault lol hows that for a punch to the ego, so if you want her to do something for you, and if there are problems in your relationship you need to start figuring out what it is you are doing. Also, I know pet names are fun and even sometimes can tell the person how much you care, but she has a name boys, use it sometimes because a name is what makes a person unique an individual, special, it feels good when the man you love speaks to you by using your name doesnt it ladies, and when he says I love you .......... and your name it makes it so much more meaningful, cuz its directed to you as a person an individual.... who you are, and you alone. Last and certainly not least, respect her..... and I dont just mean not to treat her like a dog, that should be a given, but I mean she has opinions, wants desires, dreams views, respect them and encourage them, listen to them, care for them just simply because she does. In closing I will say boys and ask you ladies treat a woman like this and it will make a relationship so strong not even the winds could seperate it, a love so strong, not even the most difficult of trials in life could brake it, for love is not a feeling it is a CHOICE. So choose wisely, and go in the peace love and strength of the lord Jesus Christ cuz he loves you all like this.
God Bless,