check it not really a problem. but dose it matter if couple looks good tograther?

[cyp6]

Ok this is my issue. All my friends say we just don't look good togeather, I mean we are both good looking people but just not to geather. Not really that big of an issue but my image is very mporortant to me right so what do you think?

Here a pic, ill let you guys judge.
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b97/kasun/party.jpg

 

[ChrizZ]

she looks hot. It could be the Black & White thing...

 

[Charm&Style]

id tap it.



Not you, but the chick with the beer.



o wait, wats the question

 

[donjuanjovi]

I'd say it's a black and white thing. Who cares what your friends think? She's damn hot :box:

 

[Warboss Alex]

if your image is more important than a good looking girl like that, then you don't deserve her.

what would she say if she saw that you were reconsidering your relationship because of the way you look together!?!?

 

[Le Parisien]

I agree with everyone here, it's about the "black and white" thing. I'm not talking about race, but skin color.

From the picture, it doesn't look like you are "black" (I'm talking about race), but maybe latino or south Asian?

And also on this picture, you are dressed gangsta while she's not exactly looking like a ghetto queen. If it's just at a bar or a club for a fun night, then it's cool. If the "contrast" between you two is like that 24/7, then yeah, I can undertsnad why people say that. Just imagine if you see a preppy boy/ghetto queen type of couple, won't you find it "interesting" yourself?

But anyway, the bottom line is you two, whether you care or not, the rest is quite irrelevent...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You guys have a unique look, that's a good thing.

 

[Malaki]

No disrespect, but you look "Odd" and she looks great!..

 

[ChrizZ]

Are you Nick Cannon?

 

[cyp6]

You guys are def right it probely is the color thing, that was haloween. We both normally dress like your tipical college student... Its wierd though cause I usally date white girls. It could be becuase we have such classhing personlities though. She is way out going while I let things come to me in social situations... Though I am starting to be more pro active about insiating conversations. But the calm reseved thing has worked me.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Tograther?

 

[Cod3r]

Dude, you guys look great together ! You're both pretty hot (no homo), she's got a nice face and good body about a 8 and maybe more, you're also a good looking guy so what's the problem ??

You're style isn't ghetto, its unique and hers matches yours perfectly. She seems like a stylish girl and you a stylish guy, I wouldn't look at you two twice as in 'they don't go together' because you two fit to me...

I live in NYC and see these type of couples all the time and see white and black, black and indian, latina and white ect... all the time so maybe my opinion dosen't matter because maybe ur from like Tennessee where different colors don't mix or something.

I'm black and my girl is native Japanese and plenty of people tell me and her that we don't look right together, but if you're happy with your partner it shouldn't matter because you look right to EACH OTHER, I care about my image as well, but grow up a bit bro... its about you and HER, not just you. You'll see looks fade man, ur image will fade and so will hers, after tat do you just leave or do you have something real ?? That's the real question !

Sometimes do I want a hotter girl ?? Of course, it'll make me more valuable and boost my little ego, but what if I get a hotter girl and she's worried about how I look and she dumps me ?? Sucks huh ?? Fvck this fake 'looks' crap, if she's attracted to you and ur attracted to her, who cares about your image.. if you're happy with her and her you, you'll both look better to the outside anyway, happy couples always look good... good luck bro !

Me & Mines (im 22 vs shes 29, see how wierd we look, who cares!)

-Cod3r

 

[Warboss Alex]

Sometimes do I want a hotter girl ?? Of course, it'll make me more valuable and boost my little ego, but what if I get a hotter girl and she's worried about how I look and she dumps me ??

I'm sorry, but that is f-u-c-k-e-d-u-p.

does she know that's your opinion?

 

[cyp6]

awsome feed back! thanks for the post!

Your thoughts just validated my feelings on this issue. The homies just talk to talk I think, haha. And and your girls look good togeather too. I think I need to just forget about my ego. She is a way dope girl!!!!

 

[Cod3r]

I'm sorry, but that is f-u-c-k-e-d-u-p.

does she know that's your opinion?

^ ^ Wat you mean ??

Maybe you misinterpreted what I said, I'm perfectly happy with my girl both in looks, personality and whatever else. Just saying sometimes I see hotter females and say to myself, 'wow I could have her' but my love for my girl keeps me with her. I have no complaints, don't get it twisted bro, we've got a long future together, first girl i never cheated on, don't question my relo with her, i'm not fvcked up at all, just being human...

The point of my post was that if YOU are happy with your partner and her with YOU, the way you look to others should not matter. If people say ur ugly or ur girl is ugly or u two don't look right together whether poor vs rich or ugly vs model or class vs trash ect... it dosen't matter if you two see each other and are attracted... get it ??

Your thoughts just validated my feelings on this issue. The homies just talk to talk I think, haha. And and your girls look good togeather too. I think I need to just forget about my ego. She is a way dope girl!!!!

Exactly man, I feel the same way sometimes. We can't help but be influenced by peoples thoughts about us or whats connected to us, but u juss gotta realize that they have NOTHING to do with YOUR relationship and most time people are hating on you anyways. Good luck in your relationship bro.


-Cod3r

 

[Warboss Alex]

^ ^ Wat you mean ??

Maybe you misinterpreted what I said, I'm perfectly happy with my girl both in looks, personality and whatever else. Just saying sometimes I see hotter females and say to myself, 'wow I could have her' but my love for my girl keeps me with her. I have no complaints, don't get it twisted bro, we've got a long future together, first girl i never cheated on, don't question my relo with her, i'm not fvcked up at all, just being human...
-Cod3r

I agree entirely with your post except... there shouldn't be anyone hotter than your girlfriend.

In my eyes, there is NO-ONE hotter than my missus. No actress, singer, pornstar, whatever. I just think everyone should think that of their partner..

Just a personal thing I guess. Glad you're happy.

 

[Le Parisien]

I agree entirely with your post except... there shouldn't be anyone hotter than your girlfriend.

In my eyes, there is NO-ONE hotter than my missus. No actress, singer, pornstar, whatever. I just think everyone should think that of their partner..

Just a personal thing I guess. Glad you're happy.

I side with Cod3r on this one.

Of course there are girls who are hotter, if you live in a big city, chances are that you will see hotter girls to whom you will be more physically attracted to everyday. But that's irrelevent. If you are genuinely with a girl, it goes way beyond just the physique.

However it doesn't prevent us from recognizing the reality. And personally I think this honesty towards yourself regarding the relationship and her would only make it stronger, not weaker. It would just mean how much you love her.

Unless of course that your girl is so model hot that it is actually hard to see anyone hotter than her, or maybe it's just infatuation...

 

[Cod3r]

Of course there are girls who are hotter, if you live in a big city, chances are that you will see hotter girls to whom you will be more physically attracted to everyday. But that's irrelevent. If you are genuinely with a girl, it goes way beyond just the physique.

However it doesn't prevent us from recognizing the reality. And personally I think this honesty towards yourself regarding the relationship and her would only make it stronger, not weaker. It would just mean how much you love her.

That's my view of things, I love my girl but just pure facts that I see females who are hotter and more physically appealing ya know ?? I live in NYC, hottest girls from around the planet are walking around here, I don't think its a bad thing to recognize my humanity....

Me and my girl actually had a long talk about this, about how its not wrong to have human desires, what makes YOU, YOU, is the action after the desire. It's not wrong to want to fvck the HB10 that just walked past you while you're hand and hand with your girl, its human, but its wrong if you continue to harbor that thought and eventually act on it or disrespect your girl in anyway. It's your decisions that make up your personality, not your general humanity to which we all know is fvcked up ya know ??

I understand what you're saying though and if its possible to view my girl in a light where she's the hottest girl on the planet, then I hope to be where you're at someday, but sitting here right now I've gotta admit the HB10 at the mall today has my girl beat physically, but that don't mean as soon as i'm done here I'm not getting on the phone and talking to the love of my life


-Cod3r

 

[sh4rk b1t3]

You look fine together. Next time someone says **** like that, just beat them up.