Cheating Woman

[nick_360]

Ok i need some advice on what to do...

Recently a couple of friends and I were camping and i had decided to take my girlfriend along. Like the usuall campout there was alcohol and everyone was drinking up.

As the night went on i found out that my girlfriend was missing along with one of the guys there.

Like usuall i was worried and pissed off, but about 15 min later they both showed up (not together) and I had asked her what was up. Like suspected she denyed doing anything with anyone and acted weird and not interested in me anymore.

Come to find out about 5 days later her and that guy had been making out in the bushes.

The same day I found out I confronted her saying that I knew what happened. She strait up told me she f***ed up. She said she didnt know why it happened and that she was pretty trashed. And she really did act like she meant it. I dont know what to do...

I havnt talked to her in about 2 days now and its killing me. I dont think i could just let go. Is there anything that I could do to solve this?

 

[DJoneday]

Cheating is never alright, next her. Also, think about what kind of "Friends" you have that would actually make out with your girl, doesn't seem like a great one to me... it's been my experience that if a girl is willing to cheat once, she'd do it again. Especially if you let it just slide, why wouldn't she? You were THERE at the camp and she went off and did it, what do you think she'll do when she's at a party without you and the opportunity comes up?

 

[oakraiderz2]

She got boned by someone other than you and you dont know what to do? Cheat on her and get your revenge!!! Bwaha..or just kick her to the curb.

 

[jonny football hero]

One of the laws dude.

If a girl cheats on you, she is gone, no exceptions

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by nick_360
She strait up told me she f***ed up. She said she didnt know why it happened and that she was pretty trashed. And she really did act like she meant it.

Yeah, right. She knew exactly what she was doing, drunk or not. What you need to do is move on and find out what YOU did to make her cheat. That's right, look in the mirror, find out what you did wrong. Girls that are satisfied physcially and emotionally don't cheat, 'especially' with you're right around the corner.

 

[DJBen]

Look at what you were like. Did you drop things for her? Cling to her? Get too serious too soon? Evaluate yourself.

Amusingly enough, I believe in karma. Going and screwing someone just to get to her would probably piss her off - and it'd be beneficial to you too. Even if she doesnt care much about you, it'll get under her skin.

Treat her like a hot plate. Drop her the f*ck down, this second.

 

[Jester]

Alright heh. Listen everybody, some of you have kinda the right idea, but most of u are friggin lost, especially the poster.

You shouldnt need to follow a rule to dump a hoe girlfriend. You get dissed, you dump the b1tch in any situation. This is just another dis nothing special about it except that it shows that the girl is a hoe.

Biker gixer and Djben, you guys dont have a ****ing clue, especially you biker. This didnt have anything to do with him. There is such a thing called character, and drunk or not, character is there. This girl had no character and so she cheated on him, regardless of how "good" of a dj he is. And revenge is for women and AFCs, a DJ does not feel bitterness. Understand that.

A hoe is a hoe and you cant call it anything but.

Ditch the b1tch...or dont come back.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by Jester
Biker gixer and Djben, you guys dont have a ****ing clue, especially you biker. This didnt have anything to do with him.

Well thank you Jester for putting it so eloquently. I'm glad to see with your limited vocabulary you still have the mental capacity to post. Now, on to my 2 cents.

You say it's got nothing to do with him? I disagree 100%. Scratch that, 101%. You can't honestly tell me it's got to do with character and nothing more. I have yet to meet a girl that cheats on someone she respects and who is totally satisfied with, regardless of character. From what I can see, she had no respect for him, none. Now, explain to me Jester, with all your wisdom. If a girl doesn't respect a guy, who's fault is it, his or hers?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Well thank you Jester for putting it so eloquently. I'm glad to see with your limited vocabulary you still have the mental capacity to post. Now, on to my 2 cents.

You say it's got nothing to do with him? I disagree 100%. Scratch that, 101%. You can't honestly tell me it's got to do with character and nothing more. I have yet to meet a girl that cheats on someone she respects and who is totally satisfied with, regardless of character. From what I can see, she had no respect for him, none. Now, explain to me Jester, with all your wisdom. If a girl doesn't respect a guy, who's fault is it, his or hers?

He does have a valid point. If youre gonna cheat on someone it doesnt matter what they do. If you see something else youre gonna do it. To some minor extent it could have something to do with him, but most likely not.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
He does have a valid point. If youre gonna cheat on someone it doesnt matter what they do. If you see something else youre gonna do it. To some minor extent it could have something to do with him, but most likely not.

Possibly. I see you're point oak, but I can't agree with it totally. I'm not saying it's got 'nothing' to do with character, I just feel it's the other way around, mostly 'him'. I've known guys who were DJ's that never got cheated on. Their women totally respected them and would never get out of line. The ones that did get cheated on, were usually clingly, needy, etc.

Let's say, for argument sake, it's got everything to do with character. Well, guess what, it's still his fault anyway because he chose a girl with a crappy character that obvisouly can't be trusted.

 

[DJBen]

Firstly you say the poster has gone no idea what the hell he's talking about. Then you say me and biker are '****ing clueless'.

After every break up, or after everytime someone ever cheated one me, I looked back on it. I tried to see IF I'd gone wrong and WHERE I'd gone wrong. Most of the times it wasnt me, but a couple of times I noticed I wasnt giving ENOUGH of a **** and other times I was caring a bit too much about pleasing her.

So you're saying not to take a look at yourself and evaluate your friendships once in a while? Well by that mentality, all of us on this board will still be an AFC. And without evaluating things, and yourself, in this way, you dont get to grow your own UNIQUE CHARACTER and PERSONALITY.

As for doing something to get back at her, and DJ's not getting revenge. Meh. Sometimes I feel the particular need to, just to keep myself mildly amused, but also to get back into the game right away. It works for me to get a vengeful **** every now and then, because sometimes it's the only thing that motivates me to actually get back out there.

never said I was the best DJ, but what? you're the biggest badest ****er to bless this site? and it gives you a good reason to knock someone who's learning all this out for himself for telling him to drop the girl and look to see if theres anywhere he ****ed up? Get real. I dont know it all, no one knows it all, but I'm certainly not clueless.

 

[biker_gixxer]

but what? you're the biggest badest ****er to bless this site?

HAHA, Now THAT is funny.

 

[Jester]

unf unf.

A hoe is a hoe is a hoe my friends. If a girl cheats on you, she is a hoe. What you have done in the relationship did not make her a hoe. She was always a hoe. Not all girls are hoes. There are girls who will not cheat no matter what. It also isnt necessarily his fault he picked one. They can be tricky. Now i hope he will be able to see through bullsh1t more easily and therefore detect hoes more easily. Now the more you may apply the DJ stuff the less the hoe may be inclined to cheat, but if the opportunity arrives believe me she will not resist it. That is the nature of the hoe.

I am giving the poster the truth of the situation and nothing more. I do not know how much of a DJ he is and i really dont give a sh1t. I reply to these posts more for the benefit of those who read them than for those that actually ask the question.


Truth.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

I'm going to go along with Jester on this one. A hoe is a hoe, end of story.











YEP.

 

[Ratman]

read the bible man if she cheats it aint acceptable you finish her.

what i would do to get my own back is say your forgiven get one last screw out of her and say f**k off

 

[biker_gixxer]

What you have done in the relationship did not make her a hoe. She was always a hoe. Not all girls are hoes

What's the difference between a hoe and a b1tch? A hoe fuks everyone, a b1tch fuks everyone but you. haha. Got off track for a sec, couldn't resist.
Anyway, I disagree with this one. What you do in a relationship has allot to do with what happens. Does it make her a hoe? Maybe not, but it may make her cheat, or not. I've known girls that were slutty as hell, who love to F, but once they got in a relationship with a, dare i say 'MAN', they knew better. See where I'm getting at?

There are girls who will not cheat no matter what

I agree.

It also isnt necessarily his fault he picked one. They can be tricky. Now i hope he will be able to see through bullsh1t more easily and therefore detect hoes more easily.

Holly $hit, we're seeing eye to eye.

the more you may apply the DJ stuff the less the hoe may be inclined to cheat, but if the opportunity arrives believe me she will not resist it.

Disagree, see begining of post.

 

[Jester]

Youre disagreeing without a logical arguement my friend.


I am wasted right now, but do you really think there isnt such a thing as character? I can not conceive of a person that actually does not believe in character. That is the soul, the inner you, what personality can not display.

I dont wanna call you stupid man, but what are you thinking lol. ever see someone get drunk or stoned? Thats called character what comes out. The person without inhibitions. Geese man i dont even know what to say to you cept go out to a party and you might see whats what hahaha.


ahh anyway, jsut cause a girl likes to fu8ck doesnt mean she will cheat on her boyfriend. thats where character comes in. i love to f8ck but i would never cheat on any girlfriend i have. i question your real life experience.


Anyway its all a question of value.

In regards to the hoe. If she highy values her boyfriend she will be less inclined to cheat unless she thinks she can get away with it or she is drunk or stoned and her inhibitions are out the window. Which i believe is what happened in this gentlemans case. It looks like his girlfriend valued him highly, but she was a hoe without character, and probably banged this loser kid because of that. The girl with character will not cheat regardless of value. the girl with character much like the man with character will dump the boyfriend / girlfriend before moving on to other people.



yehhhh.

 

[DJBen]

A hoe is a hoe is a hoe agreed. Also agreed is the fact that it probably wasnt much to do with him. But to say 'she was a hoe, next' to a newb probably isnt the best idea. Maybe telling him to think about what happened and if it was his fault would be more logical. THEN a hoe is a hoe is a hoe

 

[biker_gixxer]

I'm not disagreeing without a logical argument (watch your spelling ), I'm just disagreeing. It's o.k., though, I don't expect to change your mind, or vice versa. We'll just agree to disagree.

I don't prefer to be called stupid, but you can call me 'Mr. Big Daddy MAC'.

I'm not saying that there isn't such a thing as character. Come on man, pay attention, lol. I'm saying that how you handle a relationship has more to do with what happens, regardless of character. This is what I believe based on my 'life experiences', which are in no way manafactured, produced or made up. Promise, scouts honor (whatever the hell that means).


And thank you for spelling out what 'character' is. I guess I can throw out my thesaurus now. lol

Anyway, regardless of the 'reasons' why she cheated, he needs to dump her and move on. Can I hear an Amen?

 

[DJBen]

He's not done that already?

Amen!