Phenomenal One said:
finding out how they became friend could say alot about their "friendship".
alot of male-female friendships are based on circumstances.
where if that circumstance was'nt there they would'nt be friends or even know each other.
i did'nt think about future situations so when you think about it,
something could happen.
It doesn't matter how they became friends because its usually under the guise of friendship that most cheating occurs.
Take for an example a man in a relationship, now a man has no problem to cheat on his girlfriend with a female friend of his or finding a ONS that can develop into long term cheating. A woman in a relationship on other hand, doesn't seek out ONS as readily but goes after guys whom she already knows about and whom she can call "friends".
Phenomenal One said:
i don't understand sum guys on this site that talk about how they got all these female friends, when there anything but.
- they flirt with these girls, kino them.
- gettin with these girls is'nt about if, it's WHEN.
- they say the top benefit of havin them is that they hook them up with more girls.
these are'nt female friends but female aquaintances..
That's right there is a difference between having female friends and having female aquaintances. A female aquientence is a female you know about, a female you talk to on occassions but you always keep her at arms length.
A female friend on the other hand:
- Is comfortable in calling you to chit chat on the phone sometimes for hours.
- Invites you to hang around her and her girlfriends and you sit there like an idiot listening to their fvcking problems, whining and fantasies.
- Cries on your shoulder when she feels sad and tells you about her relationship problems
- Asks you to do sh1t for her like drive her places or go shopping with her. Essentially every interaction with her feels like you are dating her except for getting physical with her.
- Basically you are like a guy with no balls, if you did everything mentioned above it is very likely (but still possible) that will never see her naked.
Phenomenal One said:
she's the only example of a chick i can see never being single.
Most hot chicks are natural branch swingers. See they don't wait until their relationship with their men is over with, if they fancy someone better they just upgrade quickly by cheating on them with the new men and once they are sure that they have them, they drop their current men like sacks of potatoes.
Phenomenal One said:
i know a few average and fugly chick that get attention from guys
(these guys have the mindset of p*ssy is p*ssy)..
In the game of dating, a pvssy is always worth more then a d1ck. An average looking girl will always do alot better then an average looking guy because the demand for an available pvssy is alot higher (not easy to acquire) as opposed to a woman wanting some d1ck (in which case a woman can get laid very quickly if she desired too).
Phenomenal One said:
the more i think about it,
i think the only problem would be if she accepts their advances and then when you find out you simply dump her a$$.
But the thing is she had already accepted his advances by agreeing to be his friend. Chicks with male friends always act gullible when it comes to the intention of their male friends. The truth always unravel when you begin to probe their relationship with their current male friends. Most will be in denial and tell you that its impossible that their male friends want nothing more then just being good friends. In which case I always call bullsh1t on that and tell them to test this theory out:
"Why don't you invite your male friend over to your house, take off all your cloths in front of him and tell him that you want him to fvck you! surely if the two of you are ' just platonic' and 'good friends' as you say you are, he wouldn't want to fvck you for the sake of the friendship."
heh that normally shuts them up good because they know I am right.
