cheated

[Rejected123]

My girlfriend went away for 5 weeks after wed only been going out for a month. We didnt even go farther then just like kissing but i cheated on her a week before she gets back. I feel like a ****head. I really like her. What should i do to keep her?

 

[KontrollerX]

The same thing she would do to keep you.

Keep quiet.

 

[LordGrin]

i say kontroller is rite, just 4get abt it
...afterall u liked it wen it was happening, didn't u??
(atleast be honest to urself)
just move on, dont worry abt it

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

She deserves to know.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

No, you keep your mouth shut. Do you think a girl would come out and tell you she cheated on you? It's highly doughtful, unless she wan'ts you to dump her.

 

[Rejected123]

ya... the problem with keeping quiet is that i felt really bad and told her. ^his is wat happend. This girl friend of mine came over and as a joke started to give me a handjob outside my clothes... and i felt her up and stuff but after like 5 minutes i told her that it was wrong and i couldnt do it and we had to stop. My girlfriend knows this.

 

[jtrain 289]

but you did it you cant reverse the past move on. If you want to keep your girl dont tell her

 

[Rejected123]

already told her...

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

what happened after you told her?

 

[Rejected123]

well
i told her on facebook
and she didnt reply
she signed on msn later
and im like u didnt reply...
and we havent talked in 3 days

 

[Axcell]

Whoah, bad move my friend!
You should have told her in person. They tell you that advice for a reason, even though it may be harder, there are MANY benefits.
For starters, since you told her on facebook or on MSN, SHE has an option to reply to you or not. If you call her, SHE has the option to say "Oh listen, I have to go." And all three of those instances, you don't know what is going on.
If you saw her in person and explained to her the situation, you could actually see how she reacts and be able to talk to her about it.

So what do you do now? Let it go. If it is anything I have learned about women, it is that the harder you try to get them back, the more it does the total opposite.

 

[cmg113]

you told her on facebook... if you have been going out with this girl for a month you should have called her and told her via phone or had her meet you somewhere

 

[Dank Juan]

At least advice is Readily Considered.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

via internet... jajaja idiots.

 

[Stacks Of Terror]

well
i told her on facebook
and she didnt reply
she signed on msn later
and im like u didnt reply...
and we havent talked in 3 days

What did everyone just get finished telling you?

No, you keep your mouth shut. Do you think a girl would come out and tell you she cheated on you? It's highly doughtful, unless she wants you to dump her.

Stop thinking like this.

She deserves to know.

 

[wjh]

At least advice is Readily Considered.

lol

 

[KnockoutJM]

Stuff like that, if said must be said in person.

And if all you did with your "gf" after a month is kiss her what do you think constitutes cheating?

 

[bigjohnson]

Sounds like you need to next the GF and make the other one a FB.

 

[Rejected123]

She gave me a hand job. She's still away so i couldnt have met her. Ive decided that since i stopped in the middle, she should be complimented. If she wants to be stupid about it and ignore me and not reply thats her problem. I can get better. Thanx guys for the advice

 

[Dank Juan]

You can never.

Have your Cake.

And Get HJ's Too.