Razor Sharp
Senior Don Juan
Not only should you leave her, but you should get the ultimate revenge by pouring all that strife and anger into a job, or your own productive business. Make some dough and invest in your future. Start working out and dressing sexy too - that will mess her up good. Make new friends, LJBF a few hotties who you actually enjoy being with. That will make her head explode
Honestly though, I would not advise you to bone other women. Clearly there are a few fundamental things you have to sort out by yourself before you can step to any plate. Things like
- why you feel you deserve this kind of punishment
- why you permit people to walk on you
- why you ever decided to marry a cheater
- why you are afraid of change
and most difficult,
- how the hell you can forgive yourself for f*cking up so bad
Take it in stride - I'm not coming down on ya. I know you feel attached to her right now, but put your feelings on the table and really think about what you are tied to - a sinking ship.
This will not get better. She will never give you the type of love you need. There is no happy ending for you if you try to "work things out".
Don't you see you are trying to salvage the corpse of a relationship? It's like a smelly rotting, gangrenous foot hanging off your leg, and you refuse to amputate, knowing full well it may consume you whole.
This is the reality. Sorry it's not pretty but the outcome is inevitable
And f*ck that "oh what will my family think" BS too. Who are you livin your life for, you or them?
Talk to your lawyer. Not tomorrow, not next week - but f*cking yesterday. Get the divorce in motion and then get away from her as soon as possible.
This is no wife my friend. She is a wh*re in wife's clothing
Beware, for this is dangerous ground upon which you tread
Honestly though, I would not advise you to bone other women. Clearly there are a few fundamental things you have to sort out by yourself before you can step to any plate. Things like
- why you feel you deserve this kind of punishment
- why you permit people to walk on you
- why you ever decided to marry a cheater
- why you are afraid of change
and most difficult,
- how the hell you can forgive yourself for f*cking up so bad
Take it in stride - I'm not coming down on ya. I know you feel attached to her right now, but put your feelings on the table and really think about what you are tied to - a sinking ship.
This will not get better. She will never give you the type of love you need. There is no happy ending for you if you try to "work things out".
Don't you see you are trying to salvage the corpse of a relationship? It's like a smelly rotting, gangrenous foot hanging off your leg, and you refuse to amputate, knowing full well it may consume you whole.
This is the reality. Sorry it's not pretty but the outcome is inevitable
And f*ck that "oh what will my family think" BS too. Who are you livin your life for, you or them?
Talk to your lawyer. Not tomorrow, not next week - but f*cking yesterday. Get the divorce in motion and then get away from her as soon as possible.
This is no wife my friend. She is a wh*re in wife's clothing
Beware, for this is dangerous ground upon which you tread