ONCELOVED
New Member
i disagree with you guys. charm is a state of being within yourself . regardless of whether you leave people feeling "happy and warm". i know many a person that would fit into what you describe. they are extremely kind people and have never had a cross word for anyone ( at least not in my presence). although they happen to be extremely decent folks they seem to be severely lacking in the "charm" department. charm basically boils down 2 confidence. you can be the warmest, kindest, most generous of people, but if you lack the ability to speak confidently while still being casual. then 'charming" just wouldn't apply