Chapters of a Comical Life

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I have been a member of this website for quite a long time now and I've speculated with the idea of creating a journal since joining SoSuave. Since i discovered this website in 2010 it has helped me immensely with self-confidence issues and the anxiety that I suffer from. This website guided all the way from my first kiss to losing my virginity a year later, with a whole load of girls and hook-ups in between. I'm laying in my bed right now finally deciding to start my journal, finally deciding to make more improvements in my life to lead my teenage self into the the great road ahead. From high school parties to applying for college I'm going to blog to my very best seeking opinions and help from all the other teenagers on here trying to reach their goals on this awesome forum.

I'm 17 years old (High School Junior). I used to be the scrawny little pizza faced kid that every girl laughed at. I cleared up my acne, started hitting the gym a bit and improved my looks. I started acting a lot more outgoing and started talking to a lot more girls. I now go to multiple parties every weekend rather than staying at home playing video games like I used to. I have been on a bit of a slump lately with the girls. I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 months a couple of weeks ago. I lost feelings for her, shes in love with me and still converses with me daily. I mainly use her as a booty call and I feel absolutely terrible about it. On a weekday basis I chill with my boys, smoke some weed, go to the movies, chill with ladies and just have a good time. On a weekend basis I chill with my boys even more! We find as many parties as possible, find rides to them, get ****faced, party it up, and sleep it off until the next day.

Writing all this and re-reading it makes me think off how awesome this teenage lifestyle is. Even it gets boring. That's why I'm starting this journal and creating some goals that'll make me the superb alpha-male in the years to come. It'll be a lengthy road but with some help from the people here on SoSuave, I think I can get through it.

My Current Goals:
- Reach 170 lbs by 2013 (Currently 140)
- Get a Job
- Pass all my classes this semester (Currently failing 2)
- Approach more girls
- Improve my relationship with my parents
- Train hard for the fall Football and Wrestling seasons
- Party harder than ever!

Seems like a lot to balance, but I'm sure with the help of this site and the incredible community surrounding it, I will prevail. New goals will arise and old goals will be met. I will try to update my journal every other day. I hope this works out!

 

[DJ Bax]

Im in a similar situation, 17 year old senior who chills with friends, parties, smokes weed, I weigh around 145 with very similar goals, Good luck bro!

 

[LearningSlowly]

Yay more journals!

Sounds like you already have some social skill. It's going to be interesting to read your posts. And you have a whole year left, start looking forward to college, senior year is just long enough to prepare for it.

As far as your continued relationship with an ex. Break it off as soon as you can. I kept having sex with my ex-LTR (dated over a year, got close to 2 if you count the times we were unofficial), and it ended very badly. The best thing to do is to leave her alone, so you don't suddenly discover some residual feelings when she blows some other dude.

Write about your parties. If you're a party man, I want to see your angle. I'm definitely a party-man, maybe we can create some little competitions. I king-pin parties, never just tag along.

 

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Ive decided to have a weekend and a school week edition. I'll update twice a week. Right I'll just do an edition for the long 4-day easter weekend.

Thursday:
Today was the first day of the long weekend. I started out the day smoking a bowl and a joint in the schools parking lot. Teacher caught us with the joint, he laughed and walked away. One of the funniest things I've seen in quite a while, we just kept smoking it. I blazed about 4 times that day, was pretty stoned by the end of the night. Me and the boys went to a local party that night. We had to leave early because my buddy J tried fighting 3 people including the hosts neighbour. We got the cops called on us and had to dip home before they got there. Fun night.

Friday:
Drove out to a city party this night. It was practically in the ghetto. But it was an awesome night. We knew noone at the party so we walked into an apartment of 30-40 random people hooting the bong and taking shots. We met a drug dealer that looked like Jesus. We got pretty baked, wondered around and talked to girls before the cops broke it up. We all ran out the back, hopped a few fences and safely got to our van. My buddy brought 2 girls to the van. One had an apartment to herself for the night and we chilled there for a few hours. 2/6 of us got laid. Wasn't me unfortunately! We ended up getting home at 4:00, got 2 more girls to chill, but they left 15 mins later and we all just crashed for the night. Awesome time!

Saturday:
Four of us went to go see the new American Pie movie. Got baked, laughed our asses off and called it a night at about midnight. Great movie, I highly recommend it!

Sunday:
Didn't do much. Had a sore throat throughout the day. I hung out with my ex for an hour. I ****ed her then went home and retired.

Monday:
Six of us pitched in on a nick. We smoked about half of it and walked through a trail stoned and climbed trees. Drove back to town played a bit of basketball and got more stoned. Walked home and called it a night. Back to school tomorrow. What a great long weekend!

@LearningSlowly, do you have any suggestions for breaking it off for good considering she thinks were still together and seeing each other :/

 

[LearningSlowly]

Monday:
Six of us pitched in on a nick. We smoked about half of it and walked through a trail stoned and climbed trees. Drove back to town played a bit of basketball and got more stoned. Walked home and called it a night. Back to school tomorrow. What a great long weekend!

@LearningSlowly, do you have any suggestions for breaking it off for good considering she thinks were still together and seeing each other :/

6 of you split a 5-sack? 5 dollars is the tiniest bit of weed, how did you only smoke half of that?

Just tell her straight up, "I'm ready to move on." Or next time you see her and she tries to hook up with you, just be like "I'm not looking to do that anymore."

 

[Comic]

6 of you split a 5-sack? 5 dollars is the tiniest bit of weed, how did you only smoke half of that?

Just tell her straight up, "I'm ready to move on." Or next time you see her and she tries to hook up with you, just be like "I'm not looking to do that anymore."

I don't know what the weed classifications are everywhere else but where I live a nick is 7 grams, so we each got a little over a gram for everybody overall and about .5 today. But thanks for the advice man, I think I'm gonna try and be blunt like that.

 

[LearningSlowly]

I don't know what the weed classifications are everywhere else but where I live a nick is 7 grams

That's a quarter here, since its a quarter of an ounce.

So if that's a nick, you spent $50 on it? Makes more sense, but still not expensive bud.

 

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That's a quarter here, since its a quarter of an ounce.

So if that's a nick, you spent $50 on it? Makes more sense, but still not expensive bud.

It was $10 each because we got it for $60 and we each got over a gram each. Where I live its $10 a gram. Its not a lot of money to some people but when you don't have a job 7 grams is a lot.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Common price here is $20/g. It's so expensive.

Quality for that price varies, but after 4 years, I know where to look.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I believe R20 - R180 here. Basically $3 - $25

 

[Comic]

Wow, its kind of cool hearing the other prices around the globe, I thought we had it bad at $10/g. Anyways, on to this weeks journals!

Tuesday:
I had a couple of buddies over this night. We smoked the rest of what was in the bag from Monday and played a lot of Xbox! I also decided to text 6 or 7 girls in my phone because I was bored. I carried conversations on well and I'm glad I balled up and texted that many girls.

Wednesday:
A productive day to say the least. I woke up extra early and cleaned my room. I now have two televisions! One 32 inch LCD for Xbox and a 20 inch LCD for cable. Its a pretty sick setup and I'm pretty proud of it. Anyways, McDonalds was having a National Hiring Day campaign and me along with 60 other applicants got interviewed. The chances are slim of getting a job, but my fingers will be crossed! I also handed out 7 more resumes. Very productive for a guy like me.

Thursday:
Today wasn't anything special. Although I did get a haircut! We'll see how the ladies react. I hung out with some buddies, watched playoff hockey and then called it a night.