Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
Ive been in two minds whether to post this story on here as its still raw and actually quite painful to think about
But this was certainly the last time i will ever place any amount of hope or faith in a woman (not that i had much to begin with) and hopefully this will show a few guys around here exactly how brutal women are capable of being if given an inch
So here we go
For the last month or so ive been casually dating this chick we’ll call her Natalie.....weve known each other a lot longer than that but finally things had started progressing lately ....I’ve always been crazy about her but always managed to keep myself in check around her always letting her give an equal amount of effort as me
Ive been warned about her a couple of times in the past but chose to ignore the warnings because i liked her (first critical error)
My gut always told me she was a player but i figured my game was good enough to negate it (second critical error)
So on Saturday we are meant to be having a date, but she gets called into work (genuine excuse) and we have to cancel no biggie ......i leave it at that and go chill with my boys
The next day (Sunday) and it’s a bank holiday weekend so everyone is hyped to go out and get smashed , i don’t bother texting Natalie as i know shes going out and il probably hook up with her later anyway
Sunday afternoon she texts me out of the blue telling me to ring her when i get out and meet her ......i wasn’t expecting this as its usually me arranging to meet and i felt pretty good after it
I reply and say yea sure i have vip in the club so ring me before you get here and il get you in
So the night rolls on and i get absolutely smashed on vodka probably doesn’t help i haven’t been out in a while and seem to be even more drunk than usual
I arrive at the club and after a little confusion finally get in , by which point Natalie is calling me to come get her .....Back out i go she’s with her friend Katie, who i sense takes an immediate disliking to me but whatever im too drunk to care
So i get them in and take them to VIP where i find the rest of my boys have caused too much trouble and have been asked to leave.....great
Me Natalie and Katie have a drink in vip anyway and a chat in vip and everything seems to be going great
My primary concern at this point is getting rid of Katie as i know full well she’s going to attempt to CB me so i try to split them up by attempting to take Natalie to the smoking area ,Where she bumps into a group of guys she knows, i aint really interested in them and don’t want to be hanging about she says she wants to stay to speak to them (blatant disrespect) i get annoyed and tell her i aint fighting over her and leave her there,
(i very much doubt any guy has ever spoken to her like this before as she’s so used to guys running around her and she’s p1ssed off)
As if things couldn’t get any worse at this point i then have a team of bouncers approach me about the damage caused to VIP
Im in a bad mood now and my fuse is short ....i argue with the bouncers and get escorted off the premises
As im outside dealing with the bouncers and now police who have arrived to take statements ....i catch Natalie walking out of the club with another guy on her arm She saw me and ignored me
At this point i was literally lost for words, how much bad luck can one guy take lmao
I was in two minds yesterday about whether to contact her and call her out on her absolutely disgusting heartless behaviour.....but i eventually concluded it wouldn’t actually gain me much as i would never be able to forgive her now and any attraction i had towards her has been destroyed
Decided to take the high route and Proceeded to removed the toxic biatch from my life instead as a friend said yesterday if she had an ounce of a morale compass she would contact me to at the very least apologise but i wont be holding my breath
Despite having one of the worst weekends of my life i have decided to take some positives from it
1) She is now someone else’s problem
2) Once this is forgotten about and dusted under the carpet i will be near enough emotionally indestructible
3) Everything happens for a reason and i guess i needed to see this side of her now before things started getting REALLY serious so for that i am greatfull
4) My luck has to change eventually
5) After the way i have treated some women in the past i probably deserved every ounce of what i got you cannot hide from karma
6) Never underestimate anyone or anything people are not as dull at they look
I’ve been as honest as i can here and i haven’t pulled any punches i got played...... but all i can do now is take the experience and run for the hills with it
Il be back
But this was certainly the last time i will ever place any amount of hope or faith in a woman (not that i had much to begin with) and hopefully this will show a few guys around here exactly how brutal women are capable of being if given an inch
So here we go
For the last month or so ive been casually dating this chick we’ll call her Natalie.....weve known each other a lot longer than that but finally things had started progressing lately ....I’ve always been crazy about her but always managed to keep myself in check around her always letting her give an equal amount of effort as me
Ive been warned about her a couple of times in the past but chose to ignore the warnings because i liked her (first critical error)
My gut always told me she was a player but i figured my game was good enough to negate it (second critical error)
So on Saturday we are meant to be having a date, but she gets called into work (genuine excuse) and we have to cancel no biggie ......i leave it at that and go chill with my boys
The next day (Sunday) and it’s a bank holiday weekend so everyone is hyped to go out and get smashed , i don’t bother texting Natalie as i know shes going out and il probably hook up with her later anyway
Sunday afternoon she texts me out of the blue telling me to ring her when i get out and meet her ......i wasn’t expecting this as its usually me arranging to meet and i felt pretty good after it
I reply and say yea sure i have vip in the club so ring me before you get here and il get you in
So the night rolls on and i get absolutely smashed on vodka probably doesn’t help i haven’t been out in a while and seem to be even more drunk than usual
I arrive at the club and after a little confusion finally get in , by which point Natalie is calling me to come get her .....Back out i go she’s with her friend Katie, who i sense takes an immediate disliking to me but whatever im too drunk to care
So i get them in and take them to VIP where i find the rest of my boys have caused too much trouble and have been asked to leave.....great
Me Natalie and Katie have a drink in vip anyway and a chat in vip and everything seems to be going great
My primary concern at this point is getting rid of Katie as i know full well she’s going to attempt to CB me so i try to split them up by attempting to take Natalie to the smoking area ,Where she bumps into a group of guys she knows, i aint really interested in them and don’t want to be hanging about she says she wants to stay to speak to them (blatant disrespect) i get annoyed and tell her i aint fighting over her and leave her there,
(i very much doubt any guy has ever spoken to her like this before as she’s so used to guys running around her and she’s p1ssed off)
As if things couldn’t get any worse at this point i then have a team of bouncers approach me about the damage caused to VIP
Im in a bad mood now and my fuse is short ....i argue with the bouncers and get escorted off the premises
As im outside dealing with the bouncers and now police who have arrived to take statements ....i catch Natalie walking out of the club with another guy on her arm She saw me and ignored me
At this point i was literally lost for words, how much bad luck can one guy take lmao
I was in two minds yesterday about whether to contact her and call her out on her absolutely disgusting heartless behaviour.....but i eventually concluded it wouldn’t actually gain me much as i would never be able to forgive her now and any attraction i had towards her has been destroyed
Decided to take the high route and Proceeded to removed the toxic biatch from my life instead as a friend said yesterday if she had an ounce of a morale compass she would contact me to at the very least apologise but i wont be holding my breath
Despite having one of the worst weekends of my life i have decided to take some positives from it
1) She is now someone else’s problem
2) Once this is forgotten about and dusted under the carpet i will be near enough emotionally indestructible
3) Everything happens for a reason and i guess i needed to see this side of her now before things started getting REALLY serious so for that i am greatfull
4) My luck has to change eventually
5) After the way i have treated some women in the past i probably deserved every ounce of what i got you cannot hide from karma
6) Never underestimate anyone or anything people are not as dull at they look
I’ve been as honest as i can here and i haven’t pulled any punches i got played...... but all i can do now is take the experience and run for the hills with it
Il be back