Cat & Mouse or Not Interested?

[BxPrince24]

I just wanna say first, yesterday I met over 70 new ppl. Didn't have a long convo with them, just worked on approaching ppl. It was great .


Ok, now to the topic. Yesterday I also spent most of the day with this girl. Right now, we're very open with eachother, I can say what ever I want to her and vice versa, we can talk about anything, when I bust on her she'll follow up on me, she's starting to get more comfortable holding hands, and a few times during the day we found ourselves just looking at eachother like there was some form of attraction.

We were inside a jewelry store and I said what earring are u gonna buy me? She said "hmmm.... are there any that says a$$h0le?" and she started laughing, so I hugged her saying "That's the nicest thing I've heard all week" then we wrestled for a bit. Then we walked out and I saw this hot girl and said "Man, I'd **** the sh*t outta her!" She asked "who?" I told her the girl that just past then I asked "what? You want a night you'll never forget too?" She said "not from you" and smiled then I said "sure, my lips aint big for nothing" she started laughing etc...

When we were leaving though, I went to give her the normal goodbye kiss on the cheek but this time I turned her face so her lips were toward mines, then she pulled away and laughed. Do you think she's playing hard 2 get or just not interested?

 

[spider_007]

sounds like not interasted, but enjoyes having fun with you

 

[flexion_]

Try kissing her on the lips.

 

[comote]

Flipping the script

Oh this situation, I know it well. This is normally how I play it.

I assume that this is a girl you kind of know from around and if you cut her off and don't contact her you will still see her around. If not correct me.

I make my move, if she turns it down(which invariably happens for me on the first try, it has just become a standard part of my game to expect to be turned down a couple of times before she starts to give) she loses her "special status" among the girls I know. As a parting shot I tell her the option is always open if she changes her mind.

I still treat her fine but the ****y and funny towards her is taken away. On top of that I make a point of finding another attractive girl to direct my energy towards. I feel no guilt about doing this in front of her, why should I, she turned me down?

I don't do this with the intention of getting the first girl, I actually do it with the intention of moving on if it doesn't work so pick another girl that you like.

It particularly helps if the new girl is someone that the first girl would find "exotic" someone crazy hot in a completely different way than the first girl is hot.

In general people are afraid of making wrong choices, when you go in for a move and the girl feels chemistry it actually scares alot of girls, they feel safer thinking oh he's cool and would be good friend when I need a laugh.

Thing is you have no interest in being her friend. After she has turned you down you have forced her to make a choice. When you left the door open she gets this sense of security that oh I made a choice but it doesn't really have consequences because he left the door open. This is important because the more time she spends afterwards thinking about her choice the more she will create reasons to believe it was the right one. By leaving the door open she doesn't have to justify it to herself.

Then when she sees you moving on you essentially have pulled the rug out from under her. The option she had waiting for her is being taken away from her. She will fight to keep that option and if she doesn't you don't want her.

 

[Black_Italian]

i got a feeling that ur slowly slipping into the friends zone. More info is needed to make a proper eductaed analysis of your situation.

But i will give you a tip tell her that your a Ninja. After you tell her she wont be able to resist you.

 

[BxPrince24]

Correct in the fact that I'll still be seeing her reguardless. I'll definately be doing what you said comote, thanks.