Casually dating a BPD

[Blue Phoenix]

Yeah,

I know one (via mutal friends). She was dating a guy (a nice guy literally) and cheating the hell out of him. When he got tired of that, he dumped her. Until nowadays she chases him, calls him and begs to go back (still seeing other guys). It really doesn´t make sense at all. It seems it´s all about control, she said she plans to marry him!! :crazy:

She jumped the motorcycle once when he tried to break up with her.
She jumped out of the apt once.
The list goes on.

What is tricky is how they play with appearances. If you don´t pay enough attention you can be easily fooled by their words (even their actions). Normally they had a horrible mother at home...

 

[Love Me Do]

Crazy stories

 

[Johnnyventana]

And if you are going to "toy" with this crazy b for a bit, forget all the "validation" and other techniques for dealing with an LTR or married BPD broad.

Instead, continuously F with her by dating other hot chicks and ignoring her whenever possible, only occasionally being nice.

But remember. This is for your amusement only. Don't be one of the million's of dudes who thought they could somehow tame this mental illness, even though NO one else ever could. In other words, get over yourself. And only play to F with her. Her whole goal is to get you to fall in love so she can then unleash her true and massive craziness and mind fk on you.

 

[Zodiac]

So what is the problem with having fun until the honeymoon period is over? Why not have fun and have great sex until unwanted behaviors arise and using as that as your reason to bounce?

Because in her mind she is doing nothing wrong and you are a horrible person for leaving her for no reason which in her mind justifies treating you horribly to the point she wouldn't have any problem if you committed suicide due to her actions because remember you are the bad guy that started all this and she is just giving it back as much as you gave to her.

Remember in their mind its always someone else that wrongs them. They cant ever take responsibility for their actions.