JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
I see a lot of guys on the board asking for opinions about contrived lines when meeting girls. Doing this will seriously set you up for failure and discouragement.
Never go up to a girl with a line that seems contrived or rehearsed. A lot of times a guy will see a girl that's hot, get nervous as hell, build up his courage and then say something like, "I saw you from across the street and I just had to talk to you to see if you're as interesting as you are beautiful." This is terrible and will usually do nothing but bring a girl's b1tch shield up.
Instead, make a casual comment about the environment you're in to the girl you want to talk to. Simple casual conversation!
For example, I hit up this cute girl at the GAP simply by asking her if they had a certain size of jeans. Then I said, "Are they making jeans bigger but keeping the size smaller just to make people feel better about getting fat?" She giggled and said, "Yeah... I've been thinking the same thing." Then I continued to ask how long she worked there, where she's from, etc.
The other week I was in Border's and saw the girl working there scanning the barcodes of magazines. This girl had an awesome body and was really really cute (HB8.8). So I just said non-chalantly, "Do you guys still rip the covers off the magazine?" She said, "No, we stopped doing that, blah, blah, blah." We talked for a good 10 minutes - I got her number and we hooked up later on that week.
Essentially, don't make a big deal out of the conversation trying to come off as a romantic or anything like that. For every 10 girls using this method you should yield a 4/3/3 result. Meaning 4 girls will not engage you for long (maybe short answers meaning you just politely keep going about your business). 3 girls will talk to you in a friendly manner but the opportunity to number close won't arise. And 3 girls will be friendly, open and talkative just like the two girls mentioned above where after 5-10 minutes (TOPS!) you can ask for her number.
Ok, now you have to trust me on this one: If after a 10 minute conversation (remember, no more than 10 minutes! because it will look like you have nothing better to do) she does not mention once the word "boyfriend" then it's a 90% chance she doesn't have one and you can number close. Women aren't stupid and will quickly catch on that this casual conversation might turn into a pickup. The easiest way for a girl to let you know that she's not interested is to bring up a boyfriend.
Hope this helps.
Never go up to a girl with a line that seems contrived or rehearsed. A lot of times a guy will see a girl that's hot, get nervous as hell, build up his courage and then say something like, "I saw you from across the street and I just had to talk to you to see if you're as interesting as you are beautiful." This is terrible and will usually do nothing but bring a girl's b1tch shield up.
Instead, make a casual comment about the environment you're in to the girl you want to talk to. Simple casual conversation!
For example, I hit up this cute girl at the GAP simply by asking her if they had a certain size of jeans. Then I said, "Are they making jeans bigger but keeping the size smaller just to make people feel better about getting fat?" She giggled and said, "Yeah... I've been thinking the same thing." Then I continued to ask how long she worked there, where she's from, etc.
The other week I was in Border's and saw the girl working there scanning the barcodes of magazines. This girl had an awesome body and was really really cute (HB8.8). So I just said non-chalantly, "Do you guys still rip the covers off the magazine?" She said, "No, we stopped doing that, blah, blah, blah." We talked for a good 10 minutes - I got her number and we hooked up later on that week.
Essentially, don't make a big deal out of the conversation trying to come off as a romantic or anything like that. For every 10 girls using this method you should yield a 4/3/3 result. Meaning 4 girls will not engage you for long (maybe short answers meaning you just politely keep going about your business). 3 girls will talk to you in a friendly manner but the opportunity to number close won't arise. And 3 girls will be friendly, open and talkative just like the two girls mentioned above where after 5-10 minutes (TOPS!) you can ask for her number.
Ok, now you have to trust me on this one: If after a 10 minute conversation (remember, no more than 10 minutes! because it will look like you have nothing better to do) she does not mention once the word "boyfriend" then it's a 90% chance she doesn't have one and you can number close. Women aren't stupid and will quickly catch on that this casual conversation might turn into a pickup. The easiest way for a girl to let you know that she's not interested is to bring up a boyfriend.
Hope this helps.
Thanks
