We are not concerned about 99% of people, just hot women working as cashiers. That would reduce the percentage.
Do you like the cashier?
It doesn't matter what the odds are. Your attitude will continue to turn women off so long as you keep considering yourself to be a victim of reality and taking negative outcomes personally. This is what feminists do and it's just as unattractive when they do it.
What are you talking about? Where were we discussing odds again? That's a loaded statement for a cashier interaction. So, as a customer, it is wrong to have an attitude that I'm entitled to good service?
That is not the point the OP is making. He's saying this comes like the straw the breaks the camels back. It bothers him he's failing to get traction and even cashiers, who you would think SHOULD be nice to him because THEY ARE PAID TO BE NICE TO PEOPLE, is even failing out there too, and that would be hard to anyone whose not getting traction out there. The OP should say "You look tired. Are you tired?" like some subtle neg-hit like that to control the frame.
That's what does me in too.
When I say grocery stores, there is no better target. I got picked up at the checkout lane. The one with limited items. She had her phone ready to go. It was funny. I am not saying that this is the norm. I am saying, I put work in everywhere and I am not kidding when I say that every set is practice.
There is a old rsd Julien free tour vid long since banned. He was telling the tour that the majority of times people were just stuck in their head. What most guys think is an approach is laughable in the modern era. Like she is likely so checked out of the universe, it's not you.
I've been to some countries where this is quite normal. Standards of politeness are not universal. In the USA, I was totally startled at first by cashier's asking me how my day was going. It felt as if a random stranger had just come up to me on the street and said "hey, do you want to be friends?" Later I got used to it and realised that it's just convention.
AND THAT is when being warm and outgoing really surprises women and makes them reciprocate.
It's a loaded statement because you loaded it yourself. You already said you'd rather not have any kind of customer service when it's a dude helping you. That tells me you don't actually care about customer service, you only care when it's a hot woman and she doesn't pay attention to you.
People who are paid to be nice are not actually being nice to you, they're just faking it and reciting the same lines to everyone that comes across their path.
Lol that piss her off daaaammn hahahaha
No I did not say that. I said I dont hold guys to account if they provide bad service or are discourteous. They just get a pass. Same thing with a very old woman or some women I do not care about. You need to actually like the cashier to be sensitive to her.
That is debatable. I dont believe such interactions are 100% fake and even taking your apples and oranges compaison makes no sense. A hor will be very mechanical.and rushed and have restrictions with someone she does not like but be very spirited, less or no restrictions and even bearback with someone she likes. Two people laying the same $200 can get drastically different levels of servicw. The point is if you are treated poorly by women then it across the board. Its not only romantic, its on the job, its at a line in a grocery store, hors, you name it. So your defination of fake does not mean anything in that sense.Koatix said:
Those interactions are fake until you make them not fake. You make them not fake by being genuine and getting her to abandon her script and smile. I've even had success doing this by asking cashiers if they end up saying their lines in their dreams.
You are chadsplaining.
