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Hi there fellow DJs I'll sleep with a precious woman who clearly dislikes me, she is my ex friend and she has a 4+ years semi-long-distance relationship by now. I pretend to give a piece of study for your craziest thoughts and hopefully analyze together what's happening. We could learn a lot for our future pick up ventures.
NOTE:
There is a trend to think that a DJ shouldn't pursue a woman. I don't think so. We are men and if we want a girl, we simply get that girl (well not always but you get what i mean). Frequently we need to date several girl at a time to keep our level at top avoiding oneitis. Keeping a busy, productive and self-fullfilling life is a must too or you will screw it up with women. And there is a diference between beg someone to be with you and persist confidentely. How many of your friends after some time finally got the girl?
So further discussion about this could be done, too. Specifically, have you think about if we are the prize or we are high skilled wolfs who gets the girl they want?
So, a quick review:
- Developing country.
- She is in freshman year.
-She's the HOTTEST girl in that college's major.
- I already finished college (last semester) but i'm doing a thesis now.
- I'm 26. I make a living with my own business. I'm not rich or something like that, i make a normal salary.
-Our major is full of nerds and it's separated from the rest of our college so they see the same 100 people over and over again everyday.
-She is rich, has a rich boyfriend
-She is a ex cheerleader and love everything about gymnastic, etc.
-Her relationship has lasted 4 years by now but i added her to my facebook profile and she seems partying only with her girl friends and all that stuff. A lot of frictions with her former boyfriend arise every now and then. It's a long distance relationship (high school boyfriend from her hometown a couple of hours away. She visits that city every weekend).
-She apparently hates me: My ex is her friend (not that close) and she avoids eye contact with me and when we establish eye contact she make a "you are disgusting" face. Sometimes when i'm talking with a friend of her she stares at her, with a angry face moving her head from left to right with a "No,no". My ex has an antecedent with girls i like: She said to one girl i was trying to hoop up i said i slept with her (i never said that). It sounds weird but it's a nice move if you consider the girl i liked was insecure if it was true or not and if that was true she didn't want to involve with someone who says that kind of lies about their relationship. Maybe she made this move again with her?
- I saw her dating another guy a couple of months ago. I know that guy and he is somewhat good with women, he has a girlfriend by that time. They are not dating anymore.
PLAN:
1.- Date another girls while i hit on her, that way i keep my game at top of its level. Currently i date two girls, one long distance and one here but i'll cut ties with local girl. Hopefully i'll know plenty of nice girls this month
What will i do to date various women? I'll hit on girls i already know or i already ****ed and i will go out every time i can with my friends to know new people.
2.- Approach:
2.1.-Every Sunday she has to pass trough certain street at evening (i know it because sometimes i visit a friend of mine who has a business in that street and often i see her passing by, coming back from hometown). I could talk to her when she is coming back.
2.2.- She is neighbor of a friend of mine. I just can knock her door and introduce myself.
2.3.- I could have access to her class schedules (every one in fresh year take the same classes at same hour) so i can approach her at school.
3.- Opener:
I don't want to use a canned opener (how: "What do you think about...?"). A lot of girls smells when you are trying to sleep with them and won't respect a liar. I don't want to take enormous risks so:
3.1.- GOING WITH A SELECTED TRUTH:
"Hey! Well listen to me, i know it sounds crazy but my high school girlfriend was a cheerleader. She was my world by that time and i'm very intriguing to know you, not a lot of cheerleaders decide to study economics. Tell me three attractive things about your personality so we can find if you got something more than your look"
Straight to the point. It's true by the way. I can visit her and tell her it or approach her at the street/school.
Remember this girl apparently dislike me so i don't expect her to talk to me. I expect her to send me to hell, no problem i'm prepared to insist... some flaky girl attitude won't stop this case study.
3.2- GOING WITH THINGS RELEVANT TO HER:
"Hey! Listen to me, i need your [INSERT CLASS HERE] notes. Can i borrow them from you? Please it's an emergency, i just copy some some things i need and bring you back it in an hour top. Be a good samaritan and help this man from a huge problem."
If she asks her what problem is it i could tell her i can't say it because it involves professors or it's for my thesis presentation later that day or tomorrow.
After i bring back her notebook i could say something like:
"OMFG! Thanks a lot you saved my life. I gotta do something to get you back your favor, i invite you to dinner. Trust me, i know a place where you can eat deliciously. It's the less i can do so i won't accept a no as an answer."
From there i insist. I don't like this opener for her because is she doesn't borrow you anything then you will hard a time figuring out another opener. Remember, this girls apparently dislikes me so i don't expect her to help me.
However, i've used this opener before with good results in girls with some physical interest on me.
4.- WORKING FROM THERE.
There are three scenarios:
- She seems open to contact with me: It would be great. From here, we'll have casual encounters in town popular bars. I can recognize what bars she visits (most snob ones) by her facebook photos and i know what hour "is good" to find the crowd in those places. So we'll "casually" hang out a lot until enough comfort is built to invite her to hang out with a pre-arranged plan. Eventually i expect to build enough comfort to invite her to my place and seduce her.
-She sends mixed signals: I'll keep a few facebook contact. If things doesn't warm up after 2-3 contacts i'll try 2-3 short but intriguing casual encounters in bar, college and street. If that doesn't work, i'll move onto the next plan.
-She has a ***** shield bigger than her boobs: If after 2-3 facebook contacts and 2-3 short but intriguing casual encounters she doesn't warm up then drastic measures must be taken. Sure, if i keep doing it after months she will warm up but it's for this month, remember?
It's hard to define best strategy at this point, but my instinct says it's something that would separates my approach from the rest. Something a dog never did when he hited her, something she has never seen. Hard thing to think about because she has seen a lot of crazy ways to hit her for sure xD. I'm not talking about buying her with flowers or something like that, i prefer to think about it only if it happens, that way i invest my time in most productive tasks.
So this case study starts Tomorrow (Sunday, she pass trough that street). I'll camp in my friend's business and see what happens.
I wanted to start this case study today for feedback, particularly in:
- Openers.
-How to handle the fact that maybe my ex got trash about me inside her mind. <--- VERY IMPORTANT!
And, obviously, i made this thread to learn too. I think that everyone can learn from this case study!
So please my fellow DJs, share with me your thoughts, comments and answers.
NOTE:
There is a trend to think that a DJ shouldn't pursue a woman. I don't think so. We are men and if we want a girl, we simply get that girl (well not always but you get what i mean). Frequently we need to date several girl at a time to keep our level at top avoiding oneitis. Keeping a busy, productive and self-fullfilling life is a must too or you will screw it up with women. And there is a diference between beg someone to be with you and persist confidentely. How many of your friends after some time finally got the girl?
So further discussion about this could be done, too. Specifically, have you think about if we are the prize or we are high skilled wolfs who gets the girl they want?
So, a quick review:
- Developing country.
- She is in freshman year.
-She's the HOTTEST girl in that college's major.
- I already finished college (last semester) but i'm doing a thesis now.
- I'm 26. I make a living with my own business. I'm not rich or something like that, i make a normal salary.
-Our major is full of nerds and it's separated from the rest of our college so they see the same 100 people over and over again everyday.
-She is rich, has a rich boyfriend
-She is a ex cheerleader and love everything about gymnastic, etc.
-Her relationship has lasted 4 years by now but i added her to my facebook profile and she seems partying only with her girl friends and all that stuff. A lot of frictions with her former boyfriend arise every now and then. It's a long distance relationship (high school boyfriend from her hometown a couple of hours away. She visits that city every weekend).
-She apparently hates me: My ex is her friend (not that close) and she avoids eye contact with me and when we establish eye contact she make a "you are disgusting" face. Sometimes when i'm talking with a friend of her she stares at her, with a angry face moving her head from left to right with a "No,no". My ex has an antecedent with girls i like: She said to one girl i was trying to hoop up i said i slept with her (i never said that). It sounds weird but it's a nice move if you consider the girl i liked was insecure if it was true or not and if that was true she didn't want to involve with someone who says that kind of lies about their relationship. Maybe she made this move again with her?
- I saw her dating another guy a couple of months ago. I know that guy and he is somewhat good with women, he has a girlfriend by that time. They are not dating anymore.
PLAN:
1.- Date another girls while i hit on her, that way i keep my game at top of its level. Currently i date two girls, one long distance and one here but i'll cut ties with local girl. Hopefully i'll know plenty of nice girls this month
What will i do to date various women? I'll hit on girls i already know or i already ****ed and i will go out every time i can with my friends to know new people.2.- Approach:
2.1.-Every Sunday she has to pass trough certain street at evening (i know it because sometimes i visit a friend of mine who has a business in that street and often i see her passing by, coming back from hometown). I could talk to her when she is coming back.
2.2.- She is neighbor of a friend of mine. I just can knock her door and introduce myself.
2.3.- I could have access to her class schedules (every one in fresh year take the same classes at same hour) so i can approach her at school.
3.- Opener:
I don't want to use a canned opener (how: "What do you think about...?"). A lot of girls smells when you are trying to sleep with them and won't respect a liar. I don't want to take enormous risks so:
3.1.- GOING WITH A SELECTED TRUTH:
"Hey! Well listen to me, i know it sounds crazy but my high school girlfriend was a cheerleader. She was my world by that time and i'm very intriguing to know you, not a lot of cheerleaders decide to study economics. Tell me three attractive things about your personality so we can find if you got something more than your look"
Straight to the point. It's true by the way. I can visit her and tell her it or approach her at the street/school.
Remember this girl apparently dislike me so i don't expect her to talk to me. I expect her to send me to hell, no problem i'm prepared to insist... some flaky girl attitude won't stop this case study.
3.2- GOING WITH THINGS RELEVANT TO HER:
"Hey! Listen to me, i need your [INSERT CLASS HERE] notes. Can i borrow them from you? Please it's an emergency, i just copy some some things i need and bring you back it in an hour top. Be a good samaritan and help this man from a huge problem."
If she asks her what problem is it i could tell her i can't say it because it involves professors or it's for my thesis presentation later that day or tomorrow.
After i bring back her notebook i could say something like:
"OMFG! Thanks a lot you saved my life. I gotta do something to get you back your favor, i invite you to dinner. Trust me, i know a place where you can eat deliciously. It's the less i can do so i won't accept a no as an answer."
From there i insist. I don't like this opener for her because is she doesn't borrow you anything then you will hard a time figuring out another opener. Remember, this girls apparently dislikes me so i don't expect her to help me.
However, i've used this opener before with good results in girls with some physical interest on me.
4.- WORKING FROM THERE.
There are three scenarios:
- She seems open to contact with me: It would be great. From here, we'll have casual encounters in town popular bars. I can recognize what bars she visits (most snob ones) by her facebook photos and i know what hour "is good" to find the crowd in those places. So we'll "casually" hang out a lot until enough comfort is built to invite her to hang out with a pre-arranged plan. Eventually i expect to build enough comfort to invite her to my place and seduce her.
-She sends mixed signals: I'll keep a few facebook contact. If things doesn't warm up after 2-3 contacts i'll try 2-3 short but intriguing casual encounters in bar, college and street. If that doesn't work, i'll move onto the next plan.
-She has a ***** shield bigger than her boobs: If after 2-3 facebook contacts and 2-3 short but intriguing casual encounters she doesn't warm up then drastic measures must be taken. Sure, if i keep doing it after months she will warm up but it's for this month, remember?
It's hard to define best strategy at this point, but my instinct says it's something that would separates my approach from the rest. Something a dog never did when he hited her, something she has never seen. Hard thing to think about because she has seen a lot of crazy ways to hit her for sure xD. I'm not talking about buying her with flowers or something like that, i prefer to think about it only if it happens, that way i invest my time in most productive tasks.
So this case study starts Tomorrow (Sunday, she pass trough that street). I'll camp in my friend's business and see what happens.
I wanted to start this case study today for feedback, particularly in:
- Openers.
-How to handle the fact that maybe my ex got trash about me inside her mind. <--- VERY IMPORTANT!
And, obviously, i made this thread to learn too. I think that everyone can learn from this case study!
So please my fellow DJs, share with me your thoughts, comments and answers.
