Zircon916 said:
So this chick sent me a pic of her and from the pic its really hard to tell if shes fat or not. It's not really a myspace angle, its just it looks like she might have a little chub shes hiding behind her arms and her decently sized tits. I can handle a bit of chubbyness, but straight up fat I don't do. She can be +/- 25lbs or so from the pics. So I decied to say **** it and go all in and meet her tonight.
What do you guys usually do in my situation, meet anyway and make an excuse if shes fat? It seems like that would be really hard to get away with and not look like a complete *******. Or do you ask for more pics? It seems like asking for more pics is kinda ******* too.
Question: Why do you care about looking like a complete *******?
Too many guys are obsessed about looking like a jerk. Who cares? Not the self-posessed, self-realized man. Seriously, read that question objectively and tell me it doesn't reek of emasculation. Rant over
In all practicality; If you ask for more pics and she's trying to downplay her negatives (her heftiness)and focus on her positives(the breats that typically accompany such heftiness) then any more pictures you'd recieve would be more the same. And assuming she did try to pull a bait-and-switch, I guarantee that she's been there before. The worst you're going to do is reaffirm her paradigm that all guys are superficial jerks (which will get you off the hook) and set up that one pathetic AFC who'll sweep her off her feet and prove the exception to the rule.
Here's the main thing you need to take away from this post: Wasting time does nobody any favors.
