cant pull the trigger.

[garruk]

so i was at a college party tonight and this girl was totally on my jock. ready to bone and just waiting for me to ask.

we talked, we danced, and talked more. but i just couldnt pull the trigger. whats up? anyone else ever have this? im sitting here feeling like an idiot and wondering to myself why the hell i didnt bone this girl..

fyi, ive never had a ONS, had 2 gfs before but its been awhile.

 

[PlayCold]

so i was at a college party tonight and this girl was totally on my jock. ready to bone and just waiting for me to ask.

we talked, we danced, and talked more. but i just couldnt pull the trigger. whats up? anyone else ever have this? im sitting here feeling like an idiot and wondering to myself why the hell i didnt bone this girl..

fyi, ive never had a ONS, had 2 gfs before but its been awhile.

Well you say you had 2gfs before.... This girl is NOT going to be your girlfriend dude! You just want to f*ck her! Just get everything out of your head and keep the "screw this, what the F can go wrong?" in your head all the time. Just party do weird **** you never did before and just go for it.

 

[f283000]

garruk, next time you go to a party take condoms with you. Knowing you got protection ready will ease some of your fears.

 

[Nutz]

It took me a full year of troubleshooting this issue to realize it's something you can't work out with gimmicks or routines. You just have to finally be honest with yourself and realize you're a pvssy about it so when the time comes again you actively decide not to be a pvssy and have some balls and go for it. In fact that's sorta what I tell myself in my head when I feel the moment is there and need to act on it.

 

[DanelMadr]

It took me a full year of troubleshooting this issue to realize it's something you can't work out with gimmicks or routines. You just have to finally be honest with yourself and realize you're a pvssy about it so when the time comes again you actively decide not to be a pvssy and have some balls and go for it. In fact that's sorta what I tell myself in my head when I feel the moment is there and need to act on it.

EXACTLY. Don't be a PVSSY. That's what ALLl this is about. The rest is just details.