Cant make her orgazm

Ll Principe

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Hello all...

Last night my girlfriend and I had just gotten back from a movie and were both looking forward to bed time .. she than pleasured me and afterward i proceeded to finger her.. she cudnt orgazm.. i tried both hands, did it the same way i always do, kissed her etc to even get her more horny.. etc etc.. than... on fri nite aswell she cudnt orgazm..I have been with her for over a year now and..

The last time this happened was over a year ago when she said she had a mental block cos she and her boyfriend ( x ) had just ended so i understood... so for the last year she been loving being fingered etc and orgazming easily etc

all of a sudden the last 2 times ive tried, not working. I asked her what the issue is, if she is stressed or thinking of something or not keen or what etc etc... she said "i dont kno wat it is." --- what am i ment to make of this?
 

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Take a break from the sex/foreplay. The next time she wants it just say something "like not now babe." Make her wait a week or two, eventually she is going to crave it. Tease her a bit and then go in for the kill.
 

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Ok? Do u think she might be with another guy that she getting it elsewhere?

Is there something on her mind that she isnt orgazming all of a sudden?

what could it be?
 

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So I shouldnt think she is with anyone else or think that she has things on her mind like she did a year ago wen we first met?

I should mix it up by giving her oral and also making her wait a week or so for the next time I touch her?
 

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Do you sleep with her? Or only finger her? Like Captain said: you should do oral sex and well.... intercourse, while fingering her at the same time. Don't be so affraid. If you're affraid it's more difficult to make her horny. She has to be relaxed completely. If she's uptight she can't orgasm. Same goes for you probably.
 

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Captain said:
Mix up what you do, don't do the same thing every night.
Right here's your answer... :yes: Do this and you'll fix the problem
 
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