Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Easy to say
It's so easy to say "forget about her," but so much harder to do. My suggestion is to devote a bit of time regularly to just obsess about her -- with your phone turned off and put way away so you can't call her -- and get it out of your system. Maybe get a dart board and draw a picture on it of her. Hit a punching bag and imagine it's her face. Whatever it takes.
Then if you pass her way, just act as if you've never shown any interest in her. Don't be obvious about avoiding her, but don't acknowledge her either, especially if she somehow tries to bait you. If she really tries to get in your face, just tell her to grow up already, it's not 5th grade anymore. Don't show any sign of concern, or they'll rub it in your face.
I agree that the best thing to do is involve yourself with other women, even if they're not quite so hot looking as the evil one.
Meanwhile, stick around here and develop the kind of traits that will attract hotter and better women to you, and hone your game so your future girlfriends will erase the memory of her for good. And when you do find a gal to date, keep dating others until it's really clear you're a "couple." No better antidote to obsession (unless it's a genuine mental health condition) than options.
It's so easy to say "forget about her," but so much harder to do. My suggestion is to devote a bit of time regularly to just obsess about her -- with your phone turned off and put way away so you can't call her -- and get it out of your system. Maybe get a dart board and draw a picture on it of her. Hit a punching bag and imagine it's her face. Whatever it takes.
Then if you pass her way, just act as if you've never shown any interest in her. Don't be obvious about avoiding her, but don't acknowledge her either, especially if she somehow tries to bait you. If she really tries to get in your face, just tell her to grow up already, it's not 5th grade anymore. Don't show any sign of concern, or they'll rub it in your face.
I agree that the best thing to do is involve yourself with other women, even if they're not quite so hot looking as the evil one.
Meanwhile, stick around here and develop the kind of traits that will attract hotter and better women to you, and hone your game so your future girlfriends will erase the memory of her for good. And when you do find a gal to date, keep dating others until it's really clear you're a "couple." No better antidote to obsession (unless it's a genuine mental health condition) than options.