Well I was seriously hoping to turn things around when I had my first pick up from a club (back in May 2012).:cheer: The girl asked for my number after we were done having fun and it was great. She then proceed to never reply my calls...
I can talk to girls but I'm having a hard time just getting a date. A few weeks ago, my sister and I were out at a club and she was meeting some girlfriends of hers. I started talking to a cute girl. All of the sudden, near the end of the night, she randomly said that she had to leave and all of her friends left as well.
I went out again tonight (Thursday night) and really, all I see is couples having fun and group of girls (more like gangs, 5-6 girls dancing together) I didn't make any approaches.
Like at this point I would like to have a girlfriend but it seems impossible, heck, I can't even have a friend with benefits. The few girls that I used to talk to were either ignoring me, stating right away that I'm there best friends (and sometimes, it would be the first time I would meet them) or this other girl went on to kiss me then afterwards downplay the whole thing, saying that she was embarrassed that she did, that she was drunk and all that. I tried after to have her at my place to make her a friend with benefits. She then said that I was a nice guy and that she could be my friend .... (Didn't even try to set me up with any girls and want it me to go out clubbing like we used to...)
Finally, a girl that I used to like 3 years ago came back into my life, I tried to make it happen (although the relationship would have been long-distance) and that didn't work out. She couldn't even call me although she said she would (apologize the first time that happen, then disappear for about 3 weeks, then send me a text for new years)
I don't wanna be cynical with women, I like them but I feel like every one of them likes to play with my emotions. Furthermore, I don't get the fact that I'm being sometimes instantly put in the friend zone (within minutes of meeting them) I just wanna figure out how to get laid on a regular basis with a cute woman. It would be fun to be able to spin plates but I tried and it failed. I would have a bunch of numbers that are nothing but flakes. It just starting to hurt when I see couple being in love, dancing together and I have nothing going on, not even a booty call. It's like everybody is attached to somebody and I'm not. I have a super low head count (3) but my mind issue is that it was all one-night stands. I'm slowly getting frustrated and sad as well. I didn't think it would be too much to ask to have the company of a cute lady once in a while.
thoughts ?
I can talk to girls but I'm having a hard time just getting a date. A few weeks ago, my sister and I were out at a club and she was meeting some girlfriends of hers. I started talking to a cute girl. All of the sudden, near the end of the night, she randomly said that she had to leave and all of her friends left as well.
I went out again tonight (Thursday night) and really, all I see is couples having fun and group of girls (more like gangs, 5-6 girls dancing together) I didn't make any approaches.
Like at this point I would like to have a girlfriend but it seems impossible, heck, I can't even have a friend with benefits. The few girls that I used to talk to were either ignoring me, stating right away that I'm there best friends (and sometimes, it would be the first time I would meet them) or this other girl went on to kiss me then afterwards downplay the whole thing, saying that she was embarrassed that she did, that she was drunk and all that. I tried after to have her at my place to make her a friend with benefits. She then said that I was a nice guy and that she could be my friend .... (Didn't even try to set me up with any girls and want it me to go out clubbing like we used to...)
Finally, a girl that I used to like 3 years ago came back into my life, I tried to make it happen (although the relationship would have been long-distance) and that didn't work out. She couldn't even call me although she said she would (apologize the first time that happen, then disappear for about 3 weeks, then send me a text for new years)
I don't wanna be cynical with women, I like them but I feel like every one of them likes to play with my emotions. Furthermore, I don't get the fact that I'm being sometimes instantly put in the friend zone (within minutes of meeting them) I just wanna figure out how to get laid on a regular basis with a cute woman. It would be fun to be able to spin plates but I tried and it failed. I would have a bunch of numbers that are nothing but flakes. It just starting to hurt when I see couple being in love, dancing together and I have nothing going on, not even a booty call. It's like everybody is attached to somebody and I'm not. I have a super low head count (3) but my mind issue is that it was all one-night stands. I'm slowly getting frustrated and sad as well. I didn't think it would be too much to ask to have the company of a cute lady once in a while.
thoughts ?