Can't get a read on this girl...

[mrzone6]

Whats up guys?

Bit of background on me....I was in a long term relationship for awhile....when that ended I browsed this site, got some good advice and started dating and getting laid with decent frequency

Over the last year or so, hooked up and briefly dated a bunch of girls, had some booty calls and some fuk buddies but never really cared for the girls I was seeing

Anyway last week my buddy ended up getting his parents summer home for the weekend and he invited me to go with him, his gf and one of her friends....I had met the friend once, thought she was cute and figured that them setting this whole weekend up was a subtle way of hooking us up so decided it would be fun to party it up with this girl all weekend

anyway, we get to the house, 4 of us had a long night of bbq, drinking and cards.....I end up getting a nice BJ and having sex with my girl...the whole time shes telling me how hot her and her friends think i am, how im the hottest of my buddys friends, etc.

The second night, we smoked a few blunts and my girl ended up passing out..I got into bed with her but she kind of brushed me off and didnt let me hit it....in the morning we kind of cuddled and she gave me a massage

Its important to note that other than these 2 times at night, she wasnt close to me at all, never mentioned hanging out in the future, never added me on fb, never really did anything that almost every girl ive ever slept with has done right before or after having sex

we get back to the city and after a few texts with hours between them (hate that little game) we're having dinner tomorrow

Just want a read on the situation because Im considering dating someone else seriously but this girl is hotter and I like her better....Im in the mood to settle down for atleast now and the other girl im seeing is saying she wants to be exclusive if i wanna be with her, which im fine with, but ill gladly dump her if this girl ends up being interested

anyway you guys reckon shes playing hard to get or was I just a fun time to talk to about with her girlfriends?

 

[VladPatton]

There is nothing out of the ordinary here. She had some fun, banged you, and she agreed to another date. Proceed on course and ride that train right into the woods, man. As long as she says yes to dates, and isn't blowing you off, flaking, standing you up, you're in like Flynn.

 

[mrzone6]

There is nothing out of the ordinary here. She had some fun, banged you, and she agreed to another date. Proceed on course and ride that train right into the woods, man. As long as she says yes to dates, and isn't blowing you off, flaking, standing you up, you're in like Flynn.

Thats what I figured

But ive basically been hitting and quitting almost all girls outside of my own relationships so I dont really get to the point of dating a lot

I guess im thrown off because every girl ive ever slept with instantly started texting and communicating with me after while this girl didnt even add me on facebook...

she seems to be a very confident and lone wolf type and im taking it as signs of low interest because honestly, most girls ive ever hooked up with have gone pretty gaga almost right away

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Thats what I figured

But ive basically been hitting and quitting almost all girls outside of my own relationships so I dont really get to the point of dating a lot

I guess im thrown off because every girl ive ever slept with instantly started texting and communicating with me after while this girl didnt even add me on facebook...

she seems to be a very confident and lone wolf type and im taking it as signs of low interest because honestly, most girls ive ever hooked up with have gone pretty gaga almost right away

Because she's probably been down this road before and actually knows how to play it cool. Might still be a little too early to get a proper read on her. Give it a few more weeks and see if you start to see a pattern emerging. How long have you been seeing this girl for? How confident do you feel that there isn't someone else in the picture? Do you want an exclusive relationship with her?

 

[mrzone6]

Because she's probably been down this road before and actually knows how to play it cool. Might still be a little too early to get a proper read on her. Give it a few more weeks and see if you start to see a pattern emerging. How long have you been seeing this girl for? How confident do you feel that there isn't someone else in the picture? Do you want an exclusive relationship with her?

Makes sense...Ive only really had two outcomes with women.....they either go crazy and hit me up all the time or they act distant and eventually vanish...every girl ive ever slept with has given me way more attention than this one

pretty sure theres no one else from what i know...i honestly wouldnt mind being exclusive with her, realest chick ive been with in awhile, actually understands and seems to enjoy my dark humor and is fun in bed..pretty solid trio in my books

ive met her a couple times at parties like months ago...i guess ill need to see how things go after the date...it feels weird doing this in reverse since we basically had sex within a couple hours of hanging out and going on a first date after the fact lol

 

[Bingo-Player]

On paper all looks well

But I’ve had chicks like this in the past and there’s one simple problem your missing

You are more into her than she is into you

Chicks have a freaking sixth sense for this kind of s*it , she knows you aren’t going anywhere , and she’s probably picked up that she’s your only option at the moment

that’s why she didn’t bother adding you on FB and held back on all the lovely dovey stuff

if I was you i would go for broke cancel tomorrows date last minute and prove you aint as available as she thinks you are

drop of the radar for a week or so and i bet you’ll get a friend request next week

you need more options bro

 

[mrzone6]

On paper all looks well

But I’ve had chicks like this in the past and there’s one simple problem your missing

You are more into her than she is into you

Chicks have a freaking sixth sense for this kind of s*it , she knows you aren’t going anywhere , and she’s probably picked up that she’s your only option at the moment

that’s why she didn’t bother adding you on FB and held back on all the lovely dovey stuff

if I was you i would go for broke cancel tomorrows date last minute and prove you aint as available as she thinks you are

drop of the radar for a week or so and i bet you’ll get a friend request next week

you need more options bro

Yea ive def thought of this ...anyone else think this is a good idea?

I just dont want to start a huge series of unnecessary games...I mean we already had sex and I only texted her to initiate a date to which she accepted...seems like cancelling is just sabotaging what seems to be going in a good direction

I was gonna vanish for a bit after our meeting anyway because I have papers due for my masters program...but i totally agree...need more girls on the back burner right now

 

[Bingo-Player]

I just dont want to start a huge series of unnecessary games...

she's already started them ,

cancel the date and find out if she really cares if she does she will want to rearrange asap

if your trying to flog a dead horse with this chick, its gonna hurt a lot more in the long run trust me

 

[mrzone6]

she's already started them ,

cancel the date and find out if she really cares if she does she will want to rearrange asap

if your trying to flog a dead horse with this chick, its gonna hurt a lot more in the long run trust me

was about to do this....instead i went out and forgot to message her...she ended up texting and said she cant make it tomorrow night and asked if im free to hang saturday

i can see what shes trying to do...

im gonna tell her im busy this weekend and hit her up randomly next week...if that ends up falling through gonna next her

 

[Comatozed]

Maintain frame bro.