Can you trust girls that sleep with you right away?

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Chances are she does that with lots of guys right?


I was talking to my friend about this today. Just curious what your opinions are of girls that will sleep with you within a few hours of meeting you. My friend prefers girls that will wait a couple dates to put out because it shows they don't fvck just any guy.

My game is getting tighter and girls that I previously couldn't pull are sleeping with me on the first date/meeting. It's a bit weird because it's making me realize most girls will put out immediately for a guy with good game. Maybe I'm just finding hoes, it's hard for me to tell. What are your thoughts on this?
 

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Enjoy the fruit of your game.

You can not always trust girls like these, but you can always thrust
 

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Why trvst them if you only want their pvssy
they are not LTR material
just enjoy the ride
 

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I have this feeling that there are no 'good girls' out there that are attractive. I'm sure there are, but I feel like even the best, nicest, high quality women will bang some mega alpha dude on the first night. Makes me sad, I don't want to settle with a chick like that, but I feel like all chicks are like that.
 

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MtnMan said:
I have this feeling that there are no 'good girls' out there that are attractive. I'm sure there are, but I feel like even the best, nicest, high quality women will bang some mega alpha dude on the first night. Makes me sad, I don't want to settle with a chick like that, but I feel like all chicks are like that.
Yea it's not a good feeling to realize this. I am by no means a mega alpha dude so if they're sleeping with me right away then I can imagine they are doing the same if the come across a guy with more value than me.

I'm sure there are some girls out there that won't fvck right away, and those are the ones with some LTR potential.

I feel like I'm going down the rabbit hole seeing these girls for what they really are. Before I had any game I saw these sorts of girls as sweet and nice. Now I know that they want to get fvcked right away by the right guy and will do anything to make it happen.
 

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Sex and relationship is two different things. If she gives you two hours after you meet, or two weeks, makes no difference. She could be dating other men and choosing those two weeks, and if she gave you right away she already made her choice, understand it like that, and separate sex from relationship and family life.
 

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backseatjuan said:
Sex and relationship is two different things. If she gives you two hours after you meet, or two weeks, makes no difference. She could be dating other men and choosing those two weeks, and if she gave you right away she already made her choice, understand it like that, and separate sex from relationship and family life.
+1 repped

A woman can define a man as LTR material or everything else. I think a lot of this is driven and determined by how the guy approaches the woman initially ( as LTR in mind or not ).

Women typically is the receiver and will go at the speed and intention of the man.

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GotED? said:
+1 repped

A woman can define a man as LTR material or everything else. I think a lot of this is driven and determined by how the guy approaches the woman initially ( as LTR in mind or not ).

Women typically is the receiver and will go at the speed and intention of the man.

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Interesting. So because I'm giving off the non-relationship vibe these girls are giving it up right away. If I were going for LTR and "dated" them they would calibrate and act accordingly, assuming their IL is high.
 

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Sofomore said:
Interesting. So because I'm giving off the non-relationship vibe these girls are giving it up right away. If I were going for LTR and "dated" them they would calibrate and act accordingly, assuming their IL is high.
Most likely.

Women aren't going to initiate sex on the first few dates unless the man does.

Women are masters at molding and conforming to the expectations of all those around her.
 

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The real question is: Can you trust ANY woman?

The answer is: No frickin' way!
 

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There are many women you can trust, and they will answer to trust with their trust, and to distrust with distrust. They answer to you the way you treat them. Do upon others what you want to be done to you. You can get hurt like that tho, many wussies that don't like being hurt, are afraid to be people.
 

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It really depends on the woman.

You have to look at it like this. A decent looking woman (or an ok looking woman with a nice body) is going to probably get at least 100 direct and indirect offers a week from men ('indirect' to me = a man hiding his intentions behind niceness; aka: "oh you need help with your math homework? I'm really good at math, let me help you.") If you're going to include Facebook likes and possible dating website presence - that number might be in the 500-1000 neighborhood. That's 500-1000 sex offers a week!

To put it simply: Most good looking women can fvck almost any straight/single guy if they throw it at him. But, most won't just throw it at him (while sober).

Instead, they normally need a set of buttons to be pushed. And there's various ways to push these buttons.

The most common methods we've learned around here to push these buttons give us access to the quick sex buttons.

When we find the right girl (a girl with the proper level of attraction towards us) having sex on a first/second date is easy if we do the proper button pushing.

Guys who have logistics and knowledge to push the right buttons = much faster sex than the guys who don't have those things.


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I believe a girl should be judged on other merits. How she treats you, how much fun you have together, how high her interest is in you, and who she is after the smoke and mirrors clear.
 

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bukowski_merit said:
It really depends on the woman.

You have to look at it like this. A decent looking woman (or an ok looking woman with a nice body) is going to probably get at least 100 direct and indirect offers a week from men ('indirect' to me = a man hiding his intentions behind niceness; aka: "oh you need help with your math homework? I'm really good at math, let me help you.") If you're going to include Facebook likes and possible dating website presence - that number might be in the 500-1000 neighborhood. That's 500-1000 sex offers a week!

To put it simply: Most good looking women can fvck almost any straight/single guy if they throw it at him. But, most won't just throw it at him (while sober).

Instead, they normally need a set of buttons to be pushed. And there's various ways to push these buttons.

The most common methods we've learned around here to push these buttons give us access to the quick sex buttons.

When we find the right girl (a girl with the proper level of attraction towards us) having sex on a first/second date is easy if we do the proper button pushing.

Guys who have logistics and knowledge to push the right buttons = much faster sex than the guys who don't have those things.


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I believe a girl should be judged on other merits. How she treats you, how much fun you have together, how high her interest is in you, and who she is after the smoke and mirrors clear.
^^^^This. Perfect.

Particularly at my age, women are horny too. If you know the buttons to build some attraction, not be a tool, heat them up a bit, not make them feel like slvts, it's hammer time. But I don't think that, in and of itself, defines whether a woman is low or high quality. It just makes her a woman and you a man.
 
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