It's the number 1 rule of DJism: NEVER go back to your ex! "Move along dude", "forget about her man" are common words of advice on this forum. Most of us have said them, but how many of us actually follow them?
I'm not talking about some skank that you went out with for a couple months only to find out she had already cheated on you. I'm talking about "the one that got away", the one you know you f*cked up and were afc with, the chick that if knew you today would have a different opinion of you. She could be your first love, your high school sweetheart, maybe even the one you thought you were going to marry.
If she came back to you, said she had changed and she knew you had to, and wanted to start things over, would you? I had an honest moment this week where I was confronted with this scenario with the first chick I really ever got serious with. I won't go into details but let's just say I was surprised and disappointed in my weakness.
What would your response be? Think about it.
I'm not talking about some skank that you went out with for a couple months only to find out she had already cheated on you. I'm talking about "the one that got away", the one you know you f*cked up and were afc with, the chick that if knew you today would have a different opinion of you. She could be your first love, your high school sweetheart, maybe even the one you thought you were going to marry.
If she came back to you, said she had changed and she knew you had to, and wanted to start things over, would you? I had an honest moment this week where I was confronted with this scenario with the first chick I really ever got serious with. I won't go into details but let's just say I was surprised and disappointed in my weakness.
What would your response be? Think about it.