Looks get you in the door with women. Like will she even talk to you at all, even so much as exchange some meaningful texts. Then your frame and how you behave Determines how far things go, From getting a first date to a second date to sex, etc. Do you think you have an issue getting in the door because of your looks or Do you just scare the women away once you get a chance to talk to them? Please tell us a little more about your situation.