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Don Juan
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There's this guy at my school, and I would say that he is 90% the opposite of what this site says. He is basically the anti-alpha. A total wimp, consantly backing out of fights (he actaully pissed a guy off, so the guy took a swing at him and accidently punches this kid's girlfriend in the face, AND HE STILL BACKED DOWN). He even says he wants to start carrying around mace! He is tall, but very skinny (about 6'3 150), before going on accutane had very bad cystic acne all over his face (and still kept me awake when he was banging the hell out of his girlfriend almost every night). He is an emo kid, I'm pretty sure I heard him cry when he was talking to his girlfriend. He is weak, not an athlete, and just physically an all around wimp, but still gets girl after girl after girl (he no longer has the girlfriend because he dumped her last summer. Did I mention that she's ridiculously hot?)
There are some good attributes that I noticed about him though. Even though he is very scrawny, he walks around all the time with his shirt off, pokes his pecs out, and half-jokingly flexes for any girl that's around (and he is seriously only HALF-joking). He wears tiny T-shirts and seems confident in his body. I think that his confidence is by far his number one attribute. Even when he had the cystic acne, he acted like he was the best looking guy around and never put his head down. Personally, when I had acne in high school, which wasn't even close to as bad as his, I couldn't even look people in the eye, and am still suffering from the psychological aspect of it. So basically he talks to a lot of hot girls and act like there is noone better than him. He is pretty arrogant sometimes, but I still respect the hell out of him because he is basically an extreme version of all the little things that I am insecure about and still has pulled more girls than I can hope to pull in my lifetime.
So does confidence in oneself surpass every other possible attribute one could have (looks, alpha, smoothness, etc.)? Or does this kid just have something that I'm missing?
There are some good attributes that I noticed about him though. Even though he is very scrawny, he walks around all the time with his shirt off, pokes his pecs out, and half-jokingly flexes for any girl that's around (and he is seriously only HALF-joking). He wears tiny T-shirts and seems confident in his body. I think that his confidence is by far his number one attribute. Even when he had the cystic acne, he acted like he was the best looking guy around and never put his head down. Personally, when I had acne in high school, which wasn't even close to as bad as his, I couldn't even look people in the eye, and am still suffering from the psychological aspect of it. So basically he talks to a lot of hot girls and act like there is noone better than him. He is pretty arrogant sometimes, but I still respect the hell out of him because he is basically an extreme version of all the little things that I am insecure about and still has pulled more girls than I can hope to pull in my lifetime.
So does confidence in oneself surpass every other possible attribute one could have (looks, alpha, smoothness, etc.)? Or does this kid just have something that I'm missing?