Here's the problem we all get approached by people wanting donations, wanting to seel something and the usual questions is something along the lines of "Hi, how are you doing?" How are you doing is also a throw away question that people use as a way of greeting people.
People do a lot better when they don't get the how are you doing question but rather they get a) compliment b) a joke c) an observation d) a question.
The other thing is we don't know is what these women are doing when you approach sometimes they could are busy, concentrating, pre-occupied, on the rag, had their cat run over etc.
The key is picking up on cues. What is she wearing? Does it open her up to ridicule? What is she doing? Is it normal/natural or she acting weird? etc.
You don't just sit there but these are things you quickly process and look for an angle.
It's about angles really. Maybe you see a girl eating a food specific to an ethnicity maybe even yours you've got an angle. Maybe she's reading book about a topic you know about or are interested in, maybe you don't see an easy angle. There's always an angle.
Mind you an angle allows you to get a conversation going, it does not mean you are going to hook up, it jsut means you go beyond the girl ignoring you stage.
People do a lot better when they don't get the how are you doing question but rather they get a) compliment b) a joke c) an observation d) a question.
The other thing is we don't know is what these women are doing when you approach sometimes they could are busy, concentrating, pre-occupied, on the rag, had their cat run over etc.
The key is picking up on cues. What is she wearing? Does it open her up to ridicule? What is she doing? Is it normal/natural or she acting weird? etc.
You don't just sit there but these are things you quickly process and look for an angle.
It's about angles really. Maybe you see a girl eating a food specific to an ethnicity maybe even yours you've got an angle. Maybe she's reading book about a topic you know about or are interested in, maybe you don't see an easy angle. There's always an angle.
Mind you an angle allows you to get a conversation going, it does not mean you are going to hook up, it jsut means you go beyond the girl ignoring you stage.