Can she press charges ?

[Luke Skywalker]

How do you compile statistics on rapes that haven't been reported?

Ahem. I didn't say statistic on rapes, I'm talking about misdemeanor types of minor sexual infractions like 'groping someone's butt, fondling, going on top of someone on bed when they said no to sex,' -- MINOR sexual assault type charges.

What method would you use to quantify the amount of unreported rapes? Do they call a bunch of random women and ask them if they've been raped, but didn't report it?

It's on the computer - again, this is minor sexual assault varients, not major ones.

Although I do think there are a large number of unreported rapes, I also wonder how many reported rapes were made up BULLSHYT. Don't give me this crap that women are afraid or stigmatized by reporting the rape. I know a lot of bytches who use the "rape" threat to gain revenge. When a woman reports a rape, her name is kept anonymous. They guy's name is plastered all over the place even though he hasn't been convicted of anything yet. Even if the poor slob is found innocent his life is still ruined. He'll always be thought of as a rapist.

Yup, but most of that crap happens within the criminal justice system, or with some extreme wackos. Average girls are not into that, and if they were, then I'd say like most people on here would be charged already - after all, a woman can always cry rape after sex, right? All she has to say is she said 'no' to screw someone.

Don't get me wrong...rape is absolutely WRONG. But I think some women ruin it for those who really were raped by bringing false accusations. This just makes it tougher on those who really were raped.

Yeah, those who spread lies in the justice system are traitors to their own cause.

 

[realsmoothie]

Am I the only one that thinks the original posters' actions were a little over the top?

I mean, if you're really a DJ, you're not going to get all stressed out and keep badgering some girl over and over about getting laid. Deal with it... she flaked. NEXT her and get another one.

I understand the LMR bit but it was pretty freakin' clear to me that this girl wasn't interested.

This doesn't mean she should press charges or anything, no that would be stupid. But you have to know when to cut your losses and find someone else.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Glaze her fvcking face like a Krispy Kreme donut and make damned sure the eyes are glued shut. Shat on her back, steal her credit card and pick up a new Xbox 360 to enjoy.

 

[niceguydying]

I have been involved with law enforcement for several years and she can have your a$$!!!!! Like partner said if she says NO, then forget about it!!! It is not worth the hazzle of an attempted rape charge hanging you out to dry! Too many women willing to give it up easy.

 

[( . )( . )]

as soon as she said your not getting laid you should have stopped everything there and gone home!

WTF IS THIS? How many more times are you gonna KJ the place up?, sackless theorist

And take that signature of yours down while you do a search on a little thing called "LMR" fraud.

 

[ValleyDJing]

yall are some paranoid mother****ers. Relax, the chick ain't gonna do ****!

 

[Wiesman44]

well boys. She came to my buddies party last night even though she swore to me she wouldnt be going last night after we did our deed in bed.

She came, we talked a little, but it was kinda weird. Scratch that, VERY weird.

It even seemed like she was hitting on my friends' buddy, but the kid is a TOTAL AFC, and completey boring. I thought she was trying to make me jealous, but the kid is such a loser, i could only laugh.

But i starrted to think differently when she even came outside and went up to me and said, 'god, that kid doesnt shut up, i gotta get away from him'.

Yet, at the end of the night when i was leaving, she said to him, "yah, maybe we could get together sometime this week before i leave".

VERY VERY weird. This chick is just completely bored being up here i guess. She has no friends, but has to stay up here til friday b/c she is working, then back to New York she goes.


I'm pretty much in the clear. Seems like she's over it. Thank god for me.

Lesson to be learned: when u hang out with a girl two nights in a row, and she tells u things that should make u fvcking run, then run. Who cares if she's an HB 8. Don't classify her as 'easy ass' b/c b#tches like this will just cause problems.

 

[Centaurion]

Look dude, I'm not calling you a schmuck. All I'm saying is that you should be careful with 'LMR-tactics'. The line between LMR and rape is pretty darn thin in the eyes of the court system, and unless you have read the chick correct and know what the **** you are doing, that line can easily be crossed. And when you do, your ass will be in a world of hurt.

There was a poster here some time ago that hooked up with a UG at a disco (or something). They then went for a walk in a park, and had sex. According to him, the b!tch wanted it but guess what. The next day or so she went to the cops and said he had raped her (or tried to). To make a long story short, while the b!tch went on a vacation, the full might of the law landed on the poor schmuck, he got thrown in jail and treated like a hardcore criminal.

I FOUND IT ---> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=71588&highlight=rape


Here are some reading for you :
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102598&highlight=rape
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=74149&highlight=rape



and also do a search for posts by Lost in Translation. I don't know where he is now, but he made a couple of posts about this issue as well.

 

[Wiesman44]

she just went up to my buddy and apologized for the way she reacted that night w/ me. She said to him that she was raped when she was 15, and she has trouble trusting people, or whatever.

Guess that solves that case, now huh.

 

[Latinoman]

She's going to carry a handfull of semen with her, have protected sex with another dude, then blame him for rape???LOLOLOL

Dude, I'm paranoid of these bytches too, but that's kind of far fetched.

Really?

Live life and learn. Or sit back and get screwed. Some of us understand that information is power and are aware of all the ways men get screwed in this society. Others? Just bend down, "lol", and get screwed for the rest of their lives (e.g. reputation or child support or jail).

The man in this article was screwed because his semen was taken...from oral sex.

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/n/a/2005/02/24/national/a095250S07.DTL

"A man who says his former lover deceived him by getting pregnant using semen obtained through oral sex can sue for emotional distress — but not theft, an appeals court has ruled.


Dr. Richard O. Phillips accuses Dr. Sharon Irons of a "calculated, profound personal betrayal" six years ago, but she says they had the baby through sexual intercourse.


The Illinois Appeals Court said Wednesday that Phillips can press a claim for emotional distress after alleging Irons had used his sperm to have a baby, but agreed that however the baby was conceived, Irons didn't steal the sperm.


"She asserts that when plaintiff 'delivered' his sperm, it was a gift," the decision said. "There was no agreement that the original deposit would be returned upon request."


The ruling sends the case back to Cook County Circuit Court.


Phillips, a Chicago family doctor, alleges that he and Irons never had intercourse during their four-month tryst, although they had oral sex three times. His suit contends that Irons without his knowledge kept some of his semen.


The relationship ended, the suit said, when Phillips learned Irons had lied to him about being recently divorced and was still married to another doctor.


Irons, who practices internal medicine in suburban Olympia Fields, said in a telephone interview Thursday that Phillips knew she was still married during their affair, and also knew she was pregnant with his child.


"He was very supportive and very happy about it," she said. "He said, `You need to hurry up and get your divorce.'"


He promised to marry her and asked her to quit her job, she said, but several days before her last day at work, Phillips informed her that he "couldn't go through with it."


Nearly two years after their affair, Irons filed a paternity suit and Phillips was ordered to pay $800 a month in child support, said Irons' attorney, Enrico Mirabelli.


Phillips then sued Irons, claiming her actions caused him nausea and headaches and robbed him of sleep and his appetite. He is haunted by "feelings of being trapped in a nightmare," court papers state.


The appeals court ruling followed a decision by a lower court judge who dismissed Phillips' suit in 2003."

 

[Latinoman]

I have been involved with law enforcement for several years and she can have your a$$!!!!! Like partner said if she says NO, then forget about it!!! It is not worth the hazzle of an attempted rape charge hanging you out to dry! Too many women willing to give it up easy.

Attempting rape would also put his name (and picture with home address) in the National directory of those accused of sexual crimes.

A "nice place to be" for the rest of his natural life too.

 

[Tomatoes]

I havent read all the posts in this thread. I have read the orginal issue. There is 2 sides to this law sided coin.....

1. A rape conviction is VERY hard to prove. I recently was on jury duty where a guy took a girl home then sexually abused her by force. Her clothes were ripped. She had vaginal bruising. 10 out of 12 on the jury said guilty however the case was dismissed as the evidence was "inconclusive". This guy had def done it....but he got off.....Rape charges are very hard to pass. 95% of them fail in court.

She wont be able to do you for anything on this one. She has no physical evidence. The only witnesses saw you too going to bed together.....willingly. She hasnt got a leg to stand on....


2. The Stigma. Now this is the only damage that can be done. Even if convictions hardly ever go threw you dont want to be known as that guy who got trialled for rape.

Legally you should be fine.......Socially it can **** you over.


Hopes these points help.


Sarge On!