Can One Really NOT CARE about what females think when we talk to them?

[Nu Vision]

Mauser,

If I say just got your text she will say how come since she's been texting since yesterday. She even texted me in regular texts. We usually text on whatsapp.

I don't want to explain anything at this point. But can't say obvious which was that I didn't feel like responding to her.

 

[Poonani Maker]

When I had less experience with women, I used to force myself into an outcome independant state of mind when dealing with women. You just have to practice, it takes some effort...

But man, when you meet new women on a consistent basis and experience that 90% of them are stupid, worthless pieces of trash, you will automatically adopt a "whatever" attitude when talking to them.

So really, just go out there, ask a lot of phone numbers and set up a lot of dates. You'll soon become tired of their stupid mannerisms, their stupid ideas, their stupid EVERYTHING. See how much you care about what to say after that!

Seriously, even the ugliest, and fattest of hoes, give me sh!t..and I'm more than decent-looking, tall, and well-to-do (and they know I am bank-rollin - in fact, I believe, at MY age, THIS is the deciding factor whether a woman shows me attention..without my seeking them out! which I NEVER really do anymore luls). Them knowing my annual salary is AUTOmatic headswing and smile my way..AUTOmatic. I'm tall and better-than-average/decent-looking to boot. That would be 30% of the swing-to/come-closer-to-me factor.

BUT...even the ugliest, and fattest of hoes, give me sh!t, because, I believe, she's (no matter how fat/ugly) got a trail of dogs at her beckon call i.e. she's got the facebook, the cellphone stream of orbiters, so she is ALWAYS occupied with boyz regardless of what you do/say/have. These fattest and ugliest come at me, but they could not even conceive of how I'd NEVER fvck em, support em, have a "relationship" with them, goto a movie with them, eat with them. I guess, my fault is...TALKING with them;, but I have to because technically we are in business together or client/customer customer/client roles, and also, I'll see em every single day, unless I get assigned to another co-workers work because there is no one else to do that dude's job (like is most likely to happen this week -- it's a relief from having to see/patronize these fatties and uglies EVERY SINGLE DAY -- I can only put up an "act" (that I am not repulsed by them, seriously, I try to be nice) for so long).

 

[bigneil]

When you post your photo on Hot or Not, the first rating is everything. Then, after you get 10 ratings, you have an average that turns out to be very close to what it will resolve to over 1000 ratings.

The same can be said for your PUA skills. If you have an 80% success rate, you can rest on that when you approach a new girl. If she rejects you, you have to laugh it off. Ultimately your long term success rate is the key factor. This is what they call confidence. You can't fake it because it's based on your statistics.

 

[Nu Vision]

She's saying I stood her up lol. In her mind we has plans. She's so full of ****.

 

[LMFAO]

Do the right thing and don't respond to it. If she's interested she'll chase you for a date.

 

[Dreesy]

Wow, you should feel bad Nu, you've made her into such a victim

 

[Nu Vision]

You right Mauser. I owe her no explanation at all. Told her I made other plans. And that we made no plans because she couldn't commit to it saying she was going to let me know. No reply from her.

 

[Nu Vision]

Lol ... she says I should have confirmed ... In other words she wanted me to be a chump and text her asking if she was going to be able to hang out with me. This after she said she would let me know. This one is worst than my coworker. Wow! Total BS.

 

[Yorkex]

This happened today. Granted I've known this girl for a while , I told her I can't be in a relationship with her ( party girl) We fool around when she is single.

Conversation started with casual small talk.
Around 5 pm

Me : come watch the super bowl with me at the bar ( notice I told her not ASK ) - learn this habit , it's a basic step.
Her: lool OMG ok , I was going out with Amanda tonight tho
Me: tell her plans changed , you kicking it with Obama tonight , lool nah jk maybe some other time.
Her : loool she would be so upset , come get me Tuesday
Me : OK ( with thumbs up emotional )

Now I could've forced and told her to drop her plans but that will one convey I'm overly happy to hang with her.
Me saying MAYBE some other time makes her know I have options & Lastly like Mauser has been telling you keep it short hence my "OK".

Simple basic stuff , reason why I didn't press is because I sent that same message to 3 other girls , the first one to accept got to hang with me Back to the game now ...GO SEAHAWKS !

 

[Nu Vision]

Good stuff YorkeX. Good game so far. Seeing examples of the convos help. I gotta go out and get more numbers so I have more options. Right now I'm only dealing with 2 girls. And only one is showing real interest.

 

[Poon King]

B!tches should not be stressing you out unless they are taking half your money in a divorce or are coming after your d!ck and balls with a weapon.

Try this: Do whatever you believe is right in ALL situations. If the woman doesn't like it.. she can go to hell. You don't need to explain yourself.

Only children need to explain themselves to adults. The idea of an adult man feeling he has to explain himself to a woman who isn't his boss at work makes me cringe to be honest.

 

[.Bing.]

B!tches should not be stressing you out unless they are taking half your money in a divorce or are coming after your d!ck and balls with a weapon.

Try this: Do whatever you believe is right in ALL situations. If the woman doesn't like it.. she can go to hell. You don't need to explain yourself.

Only children need to explain themselves to adults. The idea of an adult man feeling he has to explain himself to a woman who isn't his boss at work makes me cringe to be honest.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAOZniUvBwg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f2vQll8T-zQ


You Got Binged!

 

[Boxer00]

Another girl I haven't talked to in a while texted me last night asking if I had plans for tonight. No plans so I said no and asked if she wanted to hang out. She said she would let me know. WTF? Why ask about my plans then?

She wanted to see how fast you would ask her out and you did.

 

[Nu Vision]

All good suggestions guys. Thanks. I like Mauser's (I was busy, had company). Simple and short.

She's not only an attention seeker but also a real bish.

Her latest texts:

"Can't believe you stood me up. At least ask if I'm going to be able to hang gee." Maybe you just have different manners."

She's trying to make me feel guilty and offends me with her last statement. I deleted the number and won't message her back ever.

 

[LMFAO]

All good suggestions guys. Thanks. I like Mauser's (I was busy, had company). Simple and short.

She's not only an attention seeker but also a real bish.

Her latest texts:

"Can't believe you stood me up. At least ask if I'm going to be able to hang gee." Maybe you just have different manners."

She's trying to make me feel guilty and offends me with her last statement. I deleted the number and won't message her back ever.

She sounds bi-polar. Many women don't handle guys who don't offer them the validation they crave very well, it's not something they are used to.

 

[stevo]

You've been schooled properly.

One thing though, you don't seem to know what you want with the girl which would also mean that your intentions actually confuse the girl, not good.

Understand, not knowing what you want from a girl is different from not knowing what to do with a girl.

You've deleted her number, good stuff.

She'll contact you again at some point but as you read this, decide what you want from the girl and every conversation you have should be leading her towards what you want from her.

As to your initial question. Can one really not care about what females think when we talk to them? No, not really.

You'd care just not enough to give a fcuk about it.

 

[Yewki]

Today I had a date and I took the date to the stupid ***** ' s workplace. Made sure she was my waitress too Hahahahaha.
She sent me a message " can I call you we have to talk about today " no reply ...she called I didn't pick up. Treat them how they want to be treated brah

Epic

 

[Nu Vision]

You've been schooled properly.

One thing though, you don't seem to know what you want with the girl which would also mean that your intentions actually confuse the girl, not good.

Understand, not knowing what you want from a girl is different from not knowing what to do with a girl.

You've deleted her number, good stuff.

She'll contact you again at some point but as you read this, decide what you want from the girl and every conversation you have should be leading her towards what you want from her.

As to your initial question. Can one really not care about what females think when we talk to them? No, not really.

You'd care just not enough to give a fcuk about it.

I see your point bro. From this girl all I would have wanted was to bed her a couple of times and next her. She's not LTR type.

My co-worker I thought was decent but turns out she's crazier than I thought and cheated on her bf at the beginning.

The other girl I've gone out with I don't like a lot which affects my game. I've realized that in order for me to be motivated and on my game I need to really like the girl. I like HB7s and up. This is a reason why I haven't fvcked more girls.

 

[Trunks]

I just see most women (and men too, but I don"t care since I'm straight) as robots of flesh - give them a taste of what they want and reap a lot in return. In this sense, it"s easy to not care. Just keep it to yourself.

 

[playa99]

The initial question OP asked is an interesting one and one I have deliberated in my head for quite some time..

My 2 cents are as follows..

There is a balance to be found, when it comes to 'NOT CARING' about what females think about you.

There is a paradox when becoming a DJ, your told to not care out what women think and not be outcome dependent, however you are told to raise your social value.. which is in essence how people perceive you.

So how can you not care about what people think yet have high social value?

The key is KNOWING.

When I think back to my most successful days as a DJ, i've messaged girls KNOWING that their interested in me and it changed the whole way the conversation panned out.

I've KNOWN that even if someone isn't interested in me, there are other women who are.

A lot of DJ's do this by having abundance and it is extremely effective, however depending on your personality type your going to want to settle down at some point in an LTR, which to me means having no direct back up women on call at any point.

The key to this is as pook said "Thinking and knowing YOU are the great catch"

You've got to respect yourself and your time.

The advice you have had is on point, you had to assume that this chick was interested from the get go.

You don't have to be a bad guy, you just gotta value yourself HIGHLY.

Why should you value yourself highly? Because your IMPROVING yourself and taking forward steps in whatever your doing... The evidence of this is in here in the fact your on this website.

If you knew you had a guaranteed lay in this woman, I guarantee you would have acted differently.

Do me a favour.. the next time you message ANY woman to come round, truly believe she is a sure thing and see what happens.