Nu Vision said:
Makes sense Poon.
Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm starting to get the sense that a good strategy is to not care and be as normal as possible when interacting with women. I've had some success with being C&F and teasing them but inside I've always felt like "I'm trying" (doing it so they can like me). I'm in a race at that moment even if they don't know it.
Could just having normal (sort of boring) conversations and having a firm grasp of the game be enough? I'll test it in the next few days/week.
About those experiences I've had recently.
The new hire at my department ... the eye candy all guys are going gaga over ... she's beautiful with an European look. Very friendly and classy. Well ... we have a unisex bathroom at work (don't know why) and we all use it. I needed to take a leak right before leaving for the day and as I was going in she walked out of the bathroom. My God!! When I went in ... the smell in there was worst then I've ever experience (worst than when my bro goes to the bathroom... just horrendous).
Made me think about something I read that no matter how beautiful girls are they all **** and are normal human beings.
Another experience I had that proved how a lot of girls are disloyal. My coworker who I have gone out with but stopped because she has a bf and was giving mixed signals told me a month or so after she started her relationship with the bf she met up with an old flame down in Florida and had a week of fun and crazy sex. This kind of shocked me a bit. This girl from the outside doesn't look like the cheating type but after she told me this I doubt she hasn't cheated again on her bf. She could have cheated on him with me. But I gave up on her.
Yep... you're right for the most part. Just go after what you want.
Don't feel like you have to give a woman a REASON to like you or f*ck you. Just assume she likes you and assume she wants to f*ck you. Then go for it.
Also, don't focus all your attention on one woman. Flirt with all women you are attracted to. If you want their number, then ask for it. If you want to meet them for drinks. Then tell them. Just get to the point. Your time is valuable.
In short:
Put the offer on the table and let the woman make her decision. If she makes the right decision
you will sleep with her. If she makes the wrong decision.. well.. now you know where you stand and you can shift your focus to other women.
Women who give mixed signals or play
hard to get are looking for a
beta b!tch provider relationship. These women would jump in the sack with Leonardo Dicaprio no questions asked. But with
you.. she wants to prove she is
not a "slut" by making you wait and jump through hoops. This way you believe she is "high quality" and thus..
worth putting on a pedestal and being loyal to. Women play betas like a piano and all betas in relationships have their women on pedestals. Not realizing she is like every other woman and probably seen more sausage then a deli.
If you ever have to WAIT more than a week to f*ck a woman
who seems interested.. then she sees you as a loyal beta b!tch.. not a "sexy alpha". This doesn't mean you can't still f*ck her. It just means she wants you to play by HER rules before she gives you her body.
No alpha would ever play by a woman's rules. This is why women f*ck the alpha right away and make the beta b!tch wait. :crackup:
